The Anami Guarantee is that EVERY couple can have a self-realizing, soul-renewing, cosmic connection.
ARE YOU A SUPER POWER COUPLE?
Take this quiz to find out
People love to rationalize that sex isn’t such
an important part of their relationship.
They will explain how they are such AMAZING partners and work really well together at the “business” of raising a family and running a household. They shrug: "Who even needs sex?"
I assert that the true purpose of relationships is to use the alchemical power of our sexual connection to heal, rejuvenate and create our worlds and to have a plethora of life-changing orgasms along the way.
If your relationship isn't feeding you, it’s draining you.
Take the quiz and discover the truth of your relationship.
What is a SUPER POWER COUPLE?
A Super Power Couple, aka a Well-F**ked Couple, is a life-force expanding union. The couple uses their sexual energy to fuel their lives and transform each other physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Whether you are 25 or 75 years old, in a new relationship or an old one, you can still be a Well-F**ked Couple!
We all need more juicy, passionate, heart-opening, kitchen-counter toppling, mind-obliterating sex.
Some couples are not coming together. Some couples are not coming at all.
Not emotionally. Not sexually.
We live in a culture where over 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Only one third of women ever orgasm at all.
My work is all about coming together, emotionally + sexually. Multiple times.
Everyone ought to be on a rich, deep, fulfilling diet of powerful, soul-food sex. Yet, few people are.
Most people subsist on a steady diet of fast-food sex that is neither fulfilling nor nourishing.
Like a poor diet, the effects build up over time.
A lack of gourmet sex and intimacy leads to everything from lethargy, depression, anger, weight gain and physical ailments. Women lose their reproductive organs, men are saddled with “erectile” and prostate issues; all the result of stuck sexual energy.
More bliss in bed = more bliss in life
In marriages and relationships across North America and all over the world, men and women are suffering.
Our intimate life affects everything:
“Love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well, what causes sadness and what brings happiness, what makes us suffer and what leads to healing…I am not aware of any other factor in medicine- not diet, not smoking, not exercise, not stress, not genetics, not drugs, not surgery- that has a greater impact on our quality of life, incidence of illness and premature death from all causes.”
– Dr Dean Ornish
Sex is the glue.
If you aren’t using it as this superfuel, I guarantee that you are underperforming in every area of your life.
When our intimate relationship is thriving, other parts of our lives thrive.
We draw on this energy source and infuse its vitality into every area of our existence—making us better partners, business owners, artists and rush-hour drivers.
Sex is medicine.
Ancient cultures have studied the links between sexuality and vitality; which puts them far ahead of “modern” medicine.
Five thousand years ago in India and China, sex was considered healthy, essential, and a means to liberate spiritual energy. Ancient Taoist physicians mapped out sexual reflexology points on the penis and vulva to show that stimulating these zones would lead to balanced health.
They also prescribed sexual positions to cure ailments.
A woman experiencing digestive problems would be advised to have sex in the missionary position, with her legs wrapped around her partner’s midsection, since that angling of her body would direct potent sexual chi to the areas that needed it.
She would be given a prescription: go home and have sex in that position three times a day for the next 30 days.
Sex is medicine.
Sexual energy is powerful energy. When it’s not being harnessed or used, it stagnates. It inverts. It’s like trying to stop the eruption of a volcano: it can’t be stopped and it WILL erupt elsewhere… only not in a positive way.
Most people have NO IDEA how to create a healthy, powerful, passionate, energizing union.
Even people who are having good sex don’t know how to tap into this power of sexual energy.
Symptoms of an under-f**ked relationship
F**k them til you change them
Underf**ked relationships: What do they look like?
- – She is having trouble orgasming.
- – He lasts minutes (or less).
- – She is only having clitoral orgasms.
- – Low libido.
- – Constant bickering and arguing.
- – Financial doldrums. Struggling to stay afloat.
- – Career stagnation. Working in a 9-5 pay-the-bills kind of job.
- – Creative ruts.
- – Any and all reproductive aliments from “growths” to ED.
- – Overeating and food/weight issues.
- – Depression, lethargy.
- – Misdirected anger and aggression: egs. road rage, yelling at shop clerks, picking fights.
- – Children acting out: they are a refection of your discontent.
All of this is a result of not tapping into or owning your sexual energy. If you aren’t, it inverts on you and creates all kinds of destructive chaos and stagnation in your life, from health to money issues. It’s all connected.
As a lover, it’s your duty to fuck your partner open.
Even if you think you are having good sex, is it changing your life?
The big barometric question I always ask is: Does sex feel rejuvenating, energizing, deeply pleasurable and life-changing?
If not, you’re doing it wrong.
Your sexual energy is the creative, PROCREATIVE force that you can channel into every aspect of your life.
There is always another level to go.
When you get turned on in bed, you get turned on in life.
– Kim Anami
my sexual energy.
Coming Together for Couples
I could feel it as a tangible, powerful thing. But I didn’t know what to do with it.
I could feel it as a tangible, powerful thing. But I didn’t know what to do with it.
Looking at the examples and role models in our culture, I got involved in plenty of unhealthy relationships.
I would see the same patterns emerge over and over again.
Out of fear of going deeper, I would sabotage my relationships. I was painfully shy to express myself with someone I was attracted to. I didn’t know how to communicate what I wanted sexually.
I could be emotionally open with some people, like close friends and confidantes. I could be sexually open with my partners. But I didn’t know how to blend the two.
I reached a point where I’d experienced enough pain. I didn’t want to keep repeating the same patterns over and over again.
I resolved to change this part of my life and put everything I had into that journey.
There was no “sex + relationship” school I went to. I had to create my own.
I floundered, finding bits and pieces of sensual wisdom anywhere I could: from spiritual philosophy to relationship psychology to ancient Tantra and Taoist texts. The work I did allowed me to combine emotional vulnerability with the ability to abandon myself sexually.
What I found is that the sex amplified the love and the love intensified the sex. I reached incredible highs that left me permanently opened and transformed.
I remember spending an isolated weekend holed up in my family’s summer cabin with my boyfriend, my first love. We never left the confines of that space.
Having the entire weekend without any distractions gave us a chance to expose ourselves emotionally without holding back, which resulted in even more powerful and cataclysmic sex. He f**ked me open—on every level.
When I returned to work on the following Monday, I was carried by an energy and a lightness: I was smarter, wittier, happier, more compassionate, patient, and charming than I could ever remember being.
People gravitated to me. Men lingered at my cubicle, finding excuses to talk to me.
I had a clear answer for every problem that came my way, and I felt as though I fit in the flow of life.
This is the essence of conscious, powerful sex: using our intimate connection to transform our lives.
Fast forward almost twenty years and now I can make love to my partner without even touching him. I can have an orgasm from the sound of his voice. I can feel his touch when he is on another continent.
My sexual experiences have become so deep, so life-changing, that I’ve dedicated my life’s work to show others how the same is possible for them.
And it is. It is possible for anyone. It is possible for YOU.
So here’s the “sex school” I wish I could have had. The one I have spent over three decades curating, testing and exploring.
I’m sharing it all with you: Ideas, techniques and solid action steps that will radically change you and your relationship from the inside out.
Kim Anami is the sex guru we need right now
I’ve always been rather sex-savvy, and so most “sexperts” have absolutely nothing to teach me that I don’t already know… but Kim takes the power of sexuality to a completely different level, inspiring even the most knowledgeable women to reach erotic potential beyond their wildest dreams. What she has to teach makes all other modern sex advice out there seem archaic.
Dita Von Teese
Queen of Burlesque, Model, Entrepreneur
10 SIGNS YOU ARE A WELL-F**KED COUPLE
He can orgasm without ejaculation and last for hours
“I went from one orgasm after about 10 min of penetration, to multiple orgasms per session—as many as I want! 10, 15?...I lose count.”
She has multiple vaginal orgasms
"I’ve had so many emotional releases from having deep, cervical orgasms! Oh I also have become a SQUIRTER!!!"
You heal each other with your genitals
“We were really working on opening up my throat chakra and communicating better in my workplace and with my family and naturally got rid of a goiter! The lump on my throat fully went away after a five-week protocol of deep-throating and visualization.”
A "quickie" is now an hour
"A short lovemaking session used to be 5-10 minutes. Now our average sessions are three hours extending into all night, and a “quickie” is an hour! Even without sleep, we are high and energized for the day."
~ Amber and Horatio
You can orgasm without touching each other
“Our bodies are in total alignment. We have energy sex without even touching each other because there’s nothing in-between us! ((We’re a ball of energy that plays with each other all day!)) Just hearing his voice gets me weak at the knees.”
~ Mark and Amanda
You can talk about anything. And talking leads to...
“There are no questions that cannot be asked, or conversations that cannot be had. We walk every single morning together (rain or shine) and take that time to discuss everything from blocks, desires, traumas, likes and dislikes (which makes us want to get right back in the bedroom ;) We never ever want to go back to where we were.”
~ Diana and James
Creativity juices flow
“I have opened in every way. The moment I began gushing from my pussy, so did my poetry from my pen and love for the world as a whole!”
Well-f**ked at 50
“Our sex life has completely transformed after 27 years together! We went from having perfunctory sex twice a month to having it 5-6 times a week. I was convinced I was dried up 2 years into menopause at 50 and we would just need to adjust to just “being friends”. So sad! Now I am dripping wet, and he is rock hard and at least an inch longer!”
You embrace your masculine and feminine energies
"When my wife has all those orgasms, it starts to crack open that masculine shell, that wanting to be in control, and she surrenders. She reaches a new level of her feminine and I feel like a fucking Viking ready to conquer the world!"
~ Jim and Megan
You get rich
“I swear each time I deep throat my husband, money comes in! It’s crazy. I didn’t believe you at first, but now it’s becoming a regular thing.”
What does a Well-f**ked couple look like?
You are in tune with each other, and the hum of your sexual connection is palpable and electric.
Everyone can feel you when you walk into a room.
It’s in the way you look at each other and in the way you touch. In the way you laugh and smile.
You’re always making love, even when you’re not.
Together you are a rare beauty that few have witnessed and others can’t help but want to be in your orbit.
Through your sexual connection, your inner radiance is amplified.
The combustion, the fusion of your sexual energy, combined with openness, emotion and surrender, creates the alchemizing power of the HOLY FUCK.
The greatest transformer, changer, up-leveler of energy that we have available to us on this planet.
It’s through the power of the Holy Fuck that the truest versions of yourself are out in the open.
You’re the couple everyone wants to be.
As you grow into your true and
sexual relationship, several things happen:
1. You both become multi-orgasmic.
You discover the transformational power, wisdom and pleasure of the deeper, internal vaginal orgasms
G-Spot, cervical and ejaculatory.
Where once you may have believed that these orgasms are “for other fortunate women”, you now have them all at your fingertips.
He can go for hours, and hours without ejaculating.If you aren’t reaching these deep, profound places in yourself and truly unleashing all the latent power in your genitals, you are operating at a deficiency.
The vagina is what will lead you into majesty. These orgasms are essential personal growth tools for women.
Stamina will help men go the distance, and take on whatever is in his path.
How much bliss can you take?
2. Your relationship attracts creative and abundant opportunities.
“Did I really just get that job because we had great sex last night?”-Paul
These are the kinds of questions you’ll be asking yourself when you enter Anami Land and into the realm of gourmet sex.
Having the right kind of sex clears stagnation and attracts places, opportunities and people who are for your highest good.New jobs, homes, business deals, friends, and adventures become the norm.
Sex makes anything possible.
The force is with you. And people feel it. You are wearing and radiating that well-f**ked glow.
3. You don’t give a shit what people think.
This is the biggie. This is where it all comes together.
You can’t have crazy, screaming, crying, earth-shattering orgasms, if you are worried about how you might look.
You can’t channel your creative brilliance out into the world if you hesitate and pull back because of how it might be received.You know and you leap.
Being fully seen by your partner allows you to be fully seen by the world.
The well-f**ked glow is like a force field around you. It protects and attracts.
4. You become better, more patient parents.
Your children mirror the state of your relationship.
Is parenting actually hard and exhausting? Or are you underf**ked?
Unharnessed sexual energy creates chaos in its wake, so instead of reading another parenting book, start f**king.
Your children will respond to the inner calm, radiance and strength you create with your sexual energy.Fighting and exhaustion turns into serenity, fun and joy and you have the capacity to enjoy your children better.
I call it the “F**k More Parenting Method”.
Sex is the magic bullet for all that ails you
– Kim Anami
When you get very well-f**ked, you begin to shine from the inside out.
Being well-f**ked is learning how to connect to and own your sexual energy.
Your sexual connection is so powerful, your partner forgets who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.
I provide the keys for this alchemical union.
I’ve done it for thousands of couples, and now I’m going to do it for you.
THE ANAMI GUARANTEE
Every couple can have lifelong, passionate sex.
Every couple can have cosmic-connecting orgasms, with an off-the-charts libido at any age at any stage of life. Every man can last for hours, giving his woman deep vaginal orgasms.
This is the baseline for every single relationship. Even yours.
Kim is a total rockstar and a tour de force of all things sexual. Her stuff is a cut above anything I've seen
Here’s Coming Together: Lifelong Passionate Sex For Couples
A 10-week Virtual Salon to Ignite the Guttural Passion in your Relationship
«Salons» are a tradition of learning that dates back centuries.
In this modern-day version, you’ll receive pre-recorded HD videos, followed up by live, interactive Q+A calls, including community breakout sessions. In between, you’ll have “homeplay” assignments to flex your new sexual muscles. I’ll be there to troubleshoot with you every step of the way.
Q+A call: April 25th
- Learn how to give a skilled and healing yoni and lingam massages to each other, using therapeutic massage techniques and genital acupressure secrets.
- How to clear space, openly communicate and have the tough conversations in your relationship
- How to identify blockages that are keeping you stuck, and clear them
- Be guided step by step in my master techniques to release old patterns and sabotage mechanisms
- Clear tools to disarm your defenses and open to vulnerability and love
- Why most couples never hit the point of “life-changing” sex and how you can
- Talking and f**king: how to keep the “conversation” going in bed
Q+A call: May 4th
- Step-by-step instructions to create your own sexual manifesto and conscious relationship intentions
- How to use your intimate relationship as a powerful tool for growth and self-actualization
- The #1 mistake you can make in intimate relationships and how to correct it
- Learn how to bring your weaknesses and “dark side” into the light to be illuminated and transformed
- The most important secret you MUST, MUST, MUST embrace in order to create lifelong, passionate sex
- The biggest secret to using sexual taboo to enliven your relationship
- How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeat again
Q+A call: May 9th
Q+A call: May 16th
- Learn 5000-year-old ancient techniques to harness your creative, orgasmic energy and use it as a power source
- Discover the secret to full-body and multiple orgasms
- The best techniques to build stamina in men: you, too, can f**k like Sting!
- Your pocket guide to different sexual positions and their health benefits: it’s prescription time!
- How to use different sex acts to tap into different emotional and healing qualities
- Master the secret techniques few people know about to “transmute” sexual energy to increase your bank balance
- The key to having “energy” orgasms with your partner from across the room and across the continent
- Learn the ins-and-outs of sexual reflexology
Q+A call: May 22nd (Women only) & May 23rd (Men Only)
Q+A call: May 30th
- The biggest secret to reviving sexual chemistry in a relationship and keeping sparks flying for decades
- How to break out of being “buddies” and bring back the guttural passion with your partner
- Women: learn about the biggest block to tapping into your feminine side and how to release it
- Men: step-by-step instructions to regain the masculine strength she desperately wants you to live from
- How to use fantasy to exaggerate polarity and enter into the realm of sizzling 50 Shades of Grey play
- The 5 sex acts that increase sexual chemistry and polarity in your relationship
Q+A call: June 6th
Q+A call: June 13th
- The fundamental differences between clitoral orgasms and deeper, vaginal orgasms
- Why most women don’t achieve powerful, internal orgasms and how she can
- How to channel orgasmic and creative energy into everyday life
- Learn the golden rule of female orgasms
- Techniques to orgasm through intercourse and oral sex
- The male G-Spot: why and how
- The number one reason for premature ejaculation and how to ELIMINATE it permanently
Q+A call: June 20th & June 21st
Q+A call: June 27th
- The biggest mistake men make with women and how to turn it around in seconds
- Daily techniques to open her and keep her openg-edge healing therapies
- How to get her to surrender at the deepest possible level
- The absolute hottest quality you can cultivate which is irresistible to your man
- How to get him out of his head and into his body
- Learn the one thing that will consistently melt him
- How to convert the major block most women have into absolute confidence and power