rgasmic Enlightenment Retreat (sold out)

There is a place, on the southern shore of Banderas Bay in Puerto Vallarta, where the jungle meets the sea.

Where palm-thatched cabins float on stilts, and the warm, sultry air wraps around you like a lover.

Where life-shifting sex is the only thing on your agenda. And where hearts + minds open, to new possibilities. A more turned-on way of living. A more enlightened way of being.

Xinalani, is an eco-luxe resort, where I’ve experienced some of the most rejuvenating sex, cuisine, yoga + spa rituals of my life.

And in the fall of next year from November 6th-13th, 2021, I’m bringing eight couples and a handful of adventurous singles to Xinalani, for six days of sensual exploration, sexual mastery, heart-opening lessons, erotic inspiration + wild exhilaration. To say I’m excited is the understatement of the century.

You need to be there with me.

And here’s what’ll happen, when you come:

  • You'll step into a sexual sanctuary. Your Orgasmic Enlightenment Retreat is truly a mind, heart + hot sex immersion. You'll enjoy the sexual education we all ought to have received, catered meals, yoga, meditation and of course, scheduled sex dates, with yourself or your partner. And just what happens, when you devote three hours a day to sexual enlightenment? You'll find out!
  • You'll have my intuition, wisdom + full attention. In small groups + salons that meet every day, we'll expand your erotic imagination with new skills, techniques and practices. Your questions will be answered. Your life force will be stoked. You'll find the soaring intersection of spirit + sex. And stay there.
  • You won't know what's next. But you'll love every moment. While you're off completing your erotic assignments, I'll be arranging luxurious surprises like fabulous sex toys, housemate aphrodisiac truffles, delivered to your suite to make your unplugged adventure even more unforgettable.
  • You go home and step into your life with unbridled energy, charisma, and magnetism. That's the power of sexual energy, unleashed. Just get ready. (And warn your friends.)
  • The inspiration for this retreat came from my own six-day sex date adventure at Xinalani.
  • That experience changed my life.
  • It brought me deeper into my heart, into my body and helped me reconnect with ME.
  • Which makes it all the more easy to connect with another person.
  • I want it to change your life too.
  • This retreat will show you how to infuse the vital power of your sexual energy into your day-to-day life. It will elevate your intimate relationship to become the place where you are nourished, uplifted and transformed.
  • The benefits of immersions are you that you have the opportunity to dive deep, without distractions and form new beliefs and habits. When you step back into your daily routine, you embody these new behaviors.

What You’ll Learn For the Relationship

You’ll experience how to expand your orgasmic and creative potential, by accessing your sexual energy—and using it like sensual rocket-fuel for your life + relationships. You’ll learn:

  • Tantric and Taoist techniques to harmonize and connect with your partner.
  • How to create and rebuild chemistry in your relationship.
  • Simple steps to bring up difficult issues with grace and have your partner love you for it.
  • How to use your sexual energy to rejuvenate your entire being: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
  • How to have intense, multiple + full-body orgasms. Over and over. His, and hers.
  • How to fall head-over-heels in love with oral sex.
  • Steps for building stamina in men.
  • Sensual and therapeutic massage techniques
  • Why fantasy play is therapeutic and how to integrate it into your relationship.

What You’ll Learn For Her

“A well-***ked woman is a thing of beauty.”

Kim Anami, “The Multi-Orgasmic Woman,” Playboy, March 2010.

We’ll explore precisely why sexually-satisfied women radiate beauty, confidence and irrepressible femininity…and how to get some.

  • Why all women love sex (whether they know it or not…)
  • How to ignite female desire: emotionally and physically.
  • The three main female orgasms: clitoral, G-Spot and cervical: what are they and what they love.
  • Female ejaculation: fact, not fiction. How to get there, again + again.
  • Practices + techniques to allow your female partner to fully surrender to pleasure + joy.
  • How to clear the major blocks women have to claiming their sexuality.
  • Vaginal weight-lifting tutorial and exercises to reconnect to sexual power.

What You’ll Learn For Him

We’ve got lots to discuss about what makes men tick—emotionally and physically. What things light men up and keep them lit?

  • New ways to build his confidence as a lover—as well as your own.
  • How to control his ejaculatory response, so you can enjoy the ride…longer.
  • Secrets to the art of deep throating (and why it’s a spiritual experience—just trust me).
  • Techniques to open him mind, body and soul.
  • How to stimulate the male G-Spot (it’s true—he has one, too).
  • Pelvic strengthening and weight-lifting exercises to increase the strength of erections, control and orgasmic pleasure.

Registration Closed

COST (for couples): $12,000 (USD)
COST (for singles): $8,000 (USD)


  • Accommodation at Xinalani, Yoga Retreat in Mexico for 7 nights
  • Series of Sexual Savant Salons
  • Three gourmet meals daily
  • VIP transportation to and from Puerto Vallarta airport
  • Your own boudoir box filled with beautiful, erotic accoutrements
  • One yoga class each day
  • Complimentary access to G-Spot Ecstasy: A Digital Salon for Sexual Savants and Spiritual Seekers to prime you for what’s to come

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Retreat is Currently Sold Out

  • Couple Full Payment — $12,000 USD
  • Couple Instalment Plan — 4 Payments of $3300 USD
  • Singles Full Payment — $8,000 USD
  • Singles Instalment Plan — 4 Payments of $2200 USD