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The 3-Hour Sex Date

Not dinner, a movie or a walk in the park. Just sex.

A pillar of my professional—and personal—philosophy is to schedule a 3-hour sex date every week. This becomes the sanctuary and refuelling station in your relationship and can nourish and rejuvenate you through your entire week. We discuss what it looks like, why three hours specifically and how to do it, do it, do it.

What is it?

What are the benefits to it?

Why 3 hours?

Do you have intercourse the entire time? If you are me, yes.

In today’s episode, you’ll hear all about how I came to be a prescriber of the 3-hour sex date from my own cataclysmic experiences of being cracked open during my own, and why they are the key to a thriving relationship.

We’ve added another new feature to the podcast. This week it’s:

Sex Position of the Week. You’ll have to tune in to hear all about my favorite sex position and why it’s perfect for your 3-hour sex date.

Fear not, singles! Next week’s episode is for you. 🙂

Because even if you don’t have a date for V-Day, you’ll always have your orgasms.

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Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. And send me screenshots of your calendar sex dates!



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4 thoughts on “The 3-Hour Sex Date

  1. Loving your podcasts. Have had amazing life changing sex for about 2 years now with my mate but felt a little like we were off the charts and wouldn’t be able to explain this to others. (No one would believe us if we told them!) We were instantly compatible in every way – which also seems impossible- but your podcasts have helped us understand why and how to take things even higher and to the next level. It’s definitely a heart matter first but earth shattering sex and an emotional connection through orgasms that literally transforms your life has made more sense than ever. By the way, a three hour sex date sells it all a little short. We are usually looking at the clock 4 hours in wondering how we can carve out another couple of hours or just blow off the day. ( Pun intended). We have unplanned and planned (both) sex dates exceeding 3 hours 3-4 times a week. Sounds unbelievable to the average person but it’s honestly not enough. Our relationship is amazing and the connection is mind blowing. Who needs alcohol or drugs when you discover this kind of high. I swear it cures diseases. We both walk around with huge dumb smiles on our faces and joke about having to slam our hand in a door to try to have a serious conversation with someone to get the grin off our faces. We are both 49 and are blown away that it just keeps getting better and better every time.

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience and your willingness to make this an actual discussed topic. We both previously felt (and has been told) our level of interest in sex was “unhealthy and abnormal”. We don’t feel “abnormal” anymore! Everyone should get to feel this way!

  2. I totally love this!! As I love all your work Kim… I have taken your courses and look forward to taking more.
    I have scheduled regular weekly sex dates with my mate for years…they are not always followed but we definitely follow up with SOMETHING each week + regular blow jobs during the week. This is why I am 70, going absolutely scintillatingly STRONG, alive, vibrant and juicy!!
    I have recommended your courses to my clients and others, and when I teach about sex, I always recommend them to have regular, scheduled sex play. The sexual life force energy IS our vital force.
    Thank you for all you are doing and giving to all of us!!!