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The Holy Grail of the Cervical Orgasm

In the land of female orgasms, there is a queen.

It is the cervix.

Both mythical and powerful, it reigns supreme.

Just like the legend of the Holy Grail, “it has special powers, and is designed to provide happiness, eternal youth and food in infinite abundance.”

There is much controversy surrounding these deeper, internal orgasms in women.

Do they exist? Can all women have them?

All of it is unfounded.

Let’s just clear this up right now:

All women can.

If they aren’t able to yet, they just haven’t found the right keys to open them.

The vaginal orgasms are the ones that provide much more intense pleasure.

And they change your life.

Because they are self-actualizing orgasms. They are so deep, intense and pleasurable that they help you to literally “come into” yourself.

They free you from false conditioning your may have picked up over the years, and liberate the deepest, truest parts of you.

The little death and rebirth happens most powerfully inside the vagina.

Here’s why cervical—and vaginal in general—orgasms are superior to clitoral and basically the only game in town:

1) Cervical orgasms are deeper.

The deeper you go, the deeper you go. The further you go into the vagina, the more physically, emotionally and spiritually intense it is for the woman.

And you can’t go any deeper than the cervix.

In the Taoist sexual reflexology system, the cervix is the heart point in women. When it is stimulated, and it opens, it is the keys to the feminine queen-dom.

You open into your feminine energy, love and radiance in an incredible way.

When I hear about women not enjoying sex very much and they tell me that they’ve only ever had clitoral orgasms, I’m not surprised.

The clitoris is a good warmup, but it was never meant to be the end game.

It’s just the tip of the iceberg, literally.

I’d say it’s less than 10% of the full female sexual experience.

The true heft and power of female sexuality is in the vagina.

I’m on the Bali Bliss Retreat right now, or “Fuck Camp” as one of the Australian couples call it, and we’ve been talking about the changes in the women here as they become better fucked.

Or specifically, as they have G-Spot and cervical orgasms.

Something in them opens and softens and their whole being just lights up.

They become radiant and sensual and just have this quality of attractiveness about them.

This is the whole idea of the well-fucked woman.

It’s a tangible thing that you can see and feel, as a woman cracks open her hard layers and softens into her true self.

It’s compelling and delicious.

That well-f**ked woman glow.

Courtesy of your cervix.

2) Cervical orgasms are more pleasurable.

When asked to describe them, I often pose the question: “Have you ever taken Ecstasy?”

It’s like that.

Your orgasm spreads waves of tingling and pleasure throughout your entire body, making it feel like one giant vagina in bliss.

It’s true.

You feel calm, loving and centred in yourself.

You feel at peace and at one with the universe.

It’s a spiritual high and peak experience.

It’s a glow and happiness that you wear for days.

Forget those 10 seconds of clitoral contractions.

This is where you want to live.

The biochemical payoff is greater in the vagina. The vaginal orgasms release much more oxytocin, which is the feel-good, bonding, relaxing, glow-inducing hormone of pleasure.

Oxytocin is anti-aging. (Orgasms are the Fountain of Youth).

Oxytocin also increases your libido. So the more cervical orgasms you have, the more you want to have.

Bring them on.

3) The come in multiples.

The clitoris generally has a refractory period. Meaning, women need to rest before they can have more of these orgasms. And they often feel like after one, they have had enough for the session.

Not so with the cervix.

It’s designed for the long haul.

You can have several/many/an infinite number in a row.

So the ecstasy just keeps coming.


The cervical orgasm is your secret weapon as a woman. This is the thing that truly unlocks not just your sexual potential, but your life potential.

It is your superfood and sustenance and the place you can continually return to rejuvenate yourself.

And be reborn.

Which is the true power of orgasm: la petite mort, or the little death.

It’s here that you create and recreate yourself every day.

And unleash your well-f**ked superpowers.

The Well-F**ked Woman salon is now open.

One of the components of the salon is the focus on achieving the holy grail of female orgasms—the vaginal orgasms.

Yes, the ones that every woman can have.

If only they had the right tools.

And I’ve got those for you.

Come one, come all!


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2 thoughts on “The Holy Grail of the Cervical Orgasm

  1. I’ve just stumbled upon your web site. My name is Susan and back in the mid 1980’s I discovered what I now know as a Cervical Orgasm. I won’t get overly graphic but this occurred during oral sex by accident. My husband, who knows my body in and out, ( He’s A Retired Orthopedic Surgeon) was pleasing me as I was face sitting him. I was having my period and everything was soft and swollen. One afternoon he found the tip of my cervix with the tip of his tongue. As we mated in a way we had never experienced, strange things happened! My husband told me my “OS” felt like it was going through effacement. The softening during labor prior to delivery. As he loved me in this fashion I felt as if I were lost in time. My body felt as if it were in another dimension from my head to my toes. Like an out of body experience! I felt like I saw God and the Angels. It was like being plugged into a low voltage Tens Machine. I was receiving extended Electro Therapy for at least five minutes. I got to the point where I thought I would pass out from passion. When we “Un-Plugged” my husband laid me down, covered me up and I slept for over three hours.

    We were able to duplicate this a number of times. The most intense sessions happened when my husband would put the tip of his finger into my belly button. That made those special orgasms even more earth shaking. My husband showed me a chart of the Sympathetic and Parasympathetic nervous systems. His thought was the tip of my cervix and my OS effacing or dilating somewhat opened the gates to his tongue to stimulate those nerves. All I can say is this was heaven on earth! As you say Kim, “The Holy Grail” and Holy is a perfect choice of words!

    Have A Blessed Day Kim,