Open the Cervix, Open the Heart
In Taoist sexual reflexology, the cervix is the heart point in women.
This physical centre is the emotional heart, the place of opening and deep surrender.
I went to a brutally wonderful, ass-kicking yoga class two days ago. It was so intense that I am aching today and walking is challenging.
(These rather famous LA yoga instructors live up to their reputations).
I sat down to write and was so distracted by the pain, that I had to get up and have an orgasm.
I knew that would fix it.
Juicy orgasms fix almost everything. Well, I’d argue the juicy orgasms do fix everything.
Basic orgasms fix some things.
I started with a clitoral orgasm to kick things off. With the lubrication and ejaculate from that orgasm, I moved onto penetration.
I gave myself a couple of G-Spot orgasms. I needed that intense, throw-me-across-the-bed endurance feeling to move me beyond the pain of my throbbing glutes (uh, from the yoga).
Once I ejaculated from the G-Spot stimulation (G-Spot ejaculation can be separate from G-Spot orgasm), I knew I was relaxed and open enough to go further.
I moved onto my cervix.
I wrote in a past Playboy article on the difference between these areas in the vaginas and the orgasms they are capable of producing.
The vagina is like this Pandora’s box of emotion, sensation and memory. By opening it and stimulating it, we’re able to dredge up old tension and stress and release it. We can tune into different emotional states by receiving touch.
The vagina is the ultimate alchemical crucible.
Use it to change your life—and lives, if you are in a partnership.
Think of the vagina like a map; you have all these micro-territories to explore. They all have riches to offer you.
The cervix is the final, vaginal frontier.
To access its bounty requires a powerful letting go and a willingness to open the heart.
Sometimes, by opening the physical cervix, you can open the emotional heart.
I aim to do both simultaneously: relax into the intensity of cervical penetration and let down any emotional barriers at the same time.
Then I’m granted entry to the next level—a delicious, psycho-spiritual release and feeling of connectedness.
The cervix is spiritual gateway. It is connected to an energy meridian that leads all the way to the crown chakra at the top of the head.
Get your cervico-spiritual enlightenment, folks!
That’s how I started my morning.
I feel open-hearted, juicy, sensual and serene.
And my leg pain has all but disappeared.
Want more sexual maps? Want access to the deeper secrets of the Pandora’s box of the vagina? Stay tuned for my next e-course coming up in February.
Hint: don’t bother buying chocolate for a certain special day. I have something much, much better in store for you.