Doggy Style: The #1 Position for Female Orgasm Transcript
My favorite sex position! Three guesses to see if you can nail it. Multiple choice. Doggy style, 69, and wheelbarrow.
If you guessed doggy style, you were correct.
Doggy style. Why do I love it so much? Well, ever since I first started having sex, this has been my favorite position, and it still is. It’s just so primal and deep and wild. It always feels like it will take me to another planet. It’s very transcendent and insanely pleasurable.
Why is it so awesome? Why do I love it so much?
Cervical orgasms.
This is hands-down—ha-ha [laughs]—the best position for achieving cervical orgasms in. You have direct access to the cervix, and this is exactly what you want.
Cervical orgasms are the deepest, most powerful, pleasurable, and life-changing orgasms a woman can have. They’re full-body, full-being orgasms that flow through your entire existence, and the sensation of this can last for days. It’s like you’ve taken Ecstasy, and it just keeps going and going and going. These are very mythical orgasms, and few women have them because few men and women really know how to get them.
If you’re someone who can truly unlock this in your woman, then you’ll have unlocked her heart, her vagina, and her feminine power.
It’s great for marathon sex.
Doggy style is an easy position to sustain for long periods of time, like 30 minutes, 60 minutes, even with intense pounding. The deep vaginal cervical orgasms often take this long for a woman to really arrive. You need a position that you can both be very comfortable in, so you can go the distance.
This is how you really open a woman. In Taoist sexual reflexology, the cervix is the heart point for the woman, so stimulating it helps to open her heart. Women pack a lot of tension and stress into their reproductive organs, so by fucking her there, you can really help her to release it and to have the wildest, most pleasurable, and cathartic orgasms of her life. Orgasms that are a religious experience and that transform her into and keep her a perpetually Well-F**ked Woman.
It builds trust.
We all know that this position is intense. Very much so for the woman, and also visually for the man. It’s a test of your stamina. If you can go for 30 minute–plus of pounding here, if you can really conquer this and attain mastery and longevity, your woman will open to you and trust you.
What might your woman not like about this position, or think that she doesn’t like?
It feels tight.
The solution is to go slow. Direct penetration at the cervix is intense, and for some women, it can feel painful if not approached in the right way.
You can’t go straight in there. Women, as I said, hold a lot of tension and even trauma in the vagina and in particular at the cervix, so it’s an incredible emotional and physical release for her to let go in orgasm, but it takes time to build up.
So use your hands and your fingers to massage and open her vagina. Explore her and really get to know her. You can spend a good 15 minutes–plus doing reconnaissance and warming her up.
You ought to know this thing like it’s the back of your hand, then you can move on to other sexual positions, like missionary or her on top. Once you know that she’s opened and aroused and you’ve spent a substantial amount of time inside of her vagina, then you can head for the cervix.
Even at that point, you want to start very slowly and work your intensity up to whatever she can handle.
Lack of trust.
Another reason why a woman might resist cervical penetration is because she doesn’t fully trust you, or herself, to open up to some very deep places. The cervix is considered to be the heart point in Taoist sexual reflexology, and so this is the epicenter for women.
Opening this and going there with her is profound, so she needs to feel that whatever comes out of her—laughter, tears, sadness, any expression of intense emotion—you can handle it, and you’ll hold the space for her to let all of this go and to be reborn. This really is the epitome of the phrase “the little death,” or la petite mort.
Solution: In bed, this means holding her, comforting her, being present, allowing her, and even encouraging her emotions to flow out. Hold the space for whatever comes out of her.
Let her cry and scream, and you just be there. “Yeah, baby, that’s it. Just give it to me. Give it all to me.” That’s the kind of stuff that you want to push her forward with.
By doing this, you’ll show her that it’s safe for her to open to you like she probably never has to anyone before.
Doubts about your stamina.
Solution: Be a marathon fucker. You need to be able to go the distance here. If she feels like she’s starting to open up and she’s starting to get there, and then you continually bail by coming too quickly, because it’s just so intense and she looks so hot and her ass is all up in the air, then your woman is going to lose trust in you, and she will avoid going there.
Cervical orgasms are the cornerstone to any Well-F**ked Woman. She needs these in order to really fulfill her entire sexual potential, and you need to be able to give them to her.
I walk you through the ins and outs of doggy style, cervical orgasms, and G-spot orgasms in my online programs “Sexual Mastery for Men” and “How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman.” I have a free video series that you can watch as a preview to all of these courses, and the link for that is here.
Thank you for watching. Now go forth and spread the cervical love and orgasms via doggy style. [Laughs] If you enjoyed this video and my killer dance moves, then like it, share it, and subscribe to my channel for more.
