How many orgasms have you had today? This week?? This month???

We all need more juicy, passionate, heart-opening, kitchen-counter toppling, mind-obliterating sex.

Most couples are not coming together. Some couples are not coming at all.

Not emotionally. Not sexually.

We live in a culture where over 50% of marriages end in divorce.

Only one third of women ever come or orgasm at all.

My work: all about coming together: emotionally + sexually. Multiple times.

Everyone ought to be on a rich, deep, fulfilling diet: of powerful, soul-food sex. Yet, few people are.

Most people subsist on a steady diet of fast-food sex that is neither fulfilling nor nourishing.

Like a poor diet, the effects build up over time.

A lack of gourmet sex and intimacy leads to everything from lethargy, depression, anger, weight gain and physical ailments. Women lose their reproductive organs, men are saddled with “erectile” and prostate issues; all the result of stuck sexual energy.

In marriages and relationships across North America
and all over the world, women are suffering.

Our intimate life affects everything:

“Love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well, what causes sadness and what brings happiness, what makes us suffer and what leads to healing…I am not aware of any other factor in medicine- not diet, not smoking, not exercise, not stress, not genetics, not drugs, not surgery- that has a greater impact on our quality of life, incidence of illness and premature death from all causes.”

- Dr Dean Ornish

Sex is the glue.

If you aren’t using it as this superfuel, I guarantee that you are underperforming in every area of your life.

When our intimate relationship is thriving, other parts of our lives thrive.

We draw on this energy source and infuse its vitality into every area of our existence—making us better partners, business owners, artists and rush-hour drivers.

We glow.


Ancient cultures show us that the links between sexual expression and overall health and vigor in life have been around forever.

Five thousand years ago in India and China, sex was considered healthy, essential, and a means to liberate spiritual energy. Ancient Taoist physicians mapped out sexual reflexology points on the penis and vulva to show that stimulating these zones would lead to balanced health.

They also prescribed sexual positions to cure ailments.

A woman experiencing digestive problems would be advised to have sex in the missionary position, with her legs wrapped around her partner’s midsection, since that angling of her body would direct potent sexual chi to the areas that needed it.

She would be given a prescription: go home and have sex in that position three times a day for the next 30 days.

Sex is medicine.

Sexual energy is powerful energy. When it’s not being harnessed or used, it stagnates. It inverts. It’s like trying to stop the eruption of a volcano: it can’t be stopped and it WILL erupt elsewhere… only not in a positive way.

Most people have NO IDEA how to create a healthy, powerful, passionate, energizing union.

Even people who are having good sex don’t know how to tap into this power of sexual energy.


From a young age, I had an awareness of my sexual energy. I could feel it as a tangible, powerful thing.

But I didn’t know what to do with it.

Looking at the examples and role models in our culture, I got involved in plenty of unhealthy relationships.

I would see the same patterns emerge over and over again.

Out of fear of going deeper, I would sabotage my relationships. I was painfully shy to express myself with someone I was attracted to. I didn’t know how to communicate what I wanted sexually.

I could be emotionally open with some people, like close friends and confidantes. I could be sexually open with my partners. But I didn’t know how to blend the two.

I reached a point where I’d experienced enough pain. I didn’t want to keep repeating the same patterns over and over again.

I resolved to change this part of my life and put everything I had into that journey.

There was no “sex + relationship” school I went to. I had to create my own.

I floundered, finding bits and pieces of sensual wisdom anywhere I could: from spiritual philosophy to relationship psychology to ancient Tantra and Taoist texts. The work I did allowed me to combine emotional vulnerability with the ability to abandon myself sexually.

What I found is that the sex amplified the love and the love intensified the sex. I reached incredible highs that left me permanently opened and transformed.

When you get turned on in bed, you get turned on in life.

I remember spending an isolated weekend holed up in my family’s summer cabin with my boyfriend, my first love. We never left the confines of that space.

Having the entire weekend without any distractions gave us a chance to expose ourselves emotionally without holding back, which resulted in even more powerful and cataclysmic sex. He f**ked me open—on every level.

When I returned to work on the following Monday, I was carried by an energy and a lightness: I was smarter, wittier, happier, more compassionate, patient, and charming than I could ever remember being.

People gravitated to me. Men lingered at my cubicle, finding excuses to talk to me.

I had a clear answer for every problem that came my way, and I felt as though I fit in the flow of life.

This is the essence of conscious, powerful sex: using our intimate connection to transform our lives.

Fast forward almost twenty years and now I can make love to my partner without even touching him. I can have an orgasm from the sound of his voice. I can feel his touch when he is on another continent.

My sexual experiences have become so deep, so life-changing, that I’ve dedicated my life’s work to show others how the same is possible for them.

And it is. It is possible for anyone. It is possible for YOU.

So here’s the “sex school” I wish I could have had. The one I have spent over two decades curating, testing and exploring.

I’m sharing it all with you: Ideas, techniques and solid action steps that will radically change you and your relationship from the inside out.

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Here’s Coming Together: Lifelong Passionate Sex For Couples

A 10-Week Virtual Salon

These things have totally changed my life, as they have done for thousands of people I’ve worked with.



Salon 1: Communication, Communication, Communication. Open communication: sex starts long before you get into bed. Talk to me: the birth of intimacy. Relationship feng shui: clear your blocks. Talking and f**king. Vulnerability as the key to deep, powerful intimacy and sex.

plus How to communicate easily and openly with your partner

plus Learn how to clear the blocks out of your relationship that are keeping you stuck…so that you can open fully to giving and receiving with your partner.

plus The most effective shortcut to dissolve your “trigger happy” areas (this one revolutionized my intimate relationships and habitual patterns!)

plus Daily tools to keep the communication channels open…AND the sexual flow between you constantly simmering

plus Talking and f**king: how to keep the “conversation” going in bed

plus Why most couples never hit the point of “life-changing” sex and how you can

plus Clear tools to disarm your defenses and open to vulnerability and love

Salon released: May 4th
Q+A call: May 9th


Salon 2: How to Create a Conscious Relationship. The relationship as a vessel for growth. Me, you and the relationship. Getting in “The Zone” of sex and intimacy.

plus Step-by-step instructions to create your own sexual manifesto and conscious relationship intentions

plus How to use your intimate relationship as a powerful tool for growth and self-actualization

plus The #1 mistake you can make in intimate relationships and how to correct it

plus Learn how to bring your weaknesses and “dark side” into the light to be illuminated and transformed

plus How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeat again

plus The most important secret you MUST, MUST, MUST embrace in order to create lifelong, passionate sex

plus The biggest secret to using sexual taboo to enliven your relationship

Salon released: May 11th
Q+A call: May 16th

Integration Week:

This is your time to deepen your practice and schedule in even more sex and connection dates!

Salon released: May 18th
Q+A call: May 23th


Salon 3: Tantra, Taoism + Sexual Mastery. Sexual energy, orgasms and your relationship = your power source. Sexual reflexology. Let your sex be your medicine and your medicine be your sex.

plus Learn 5000-year-old ancient techniques to harness your creative, orgasmic energy and use it as a power source

plus Discover the secret to full-body and multiple orgasms

plus The best techniques to build stamina in men: you, too, can f**k like Sting!

plus Learn the ins-and-outs of sexual reflexology.

plus Your pocket guide to different sexual positions and their health benefits: it’s prescription time!

plus How to use different sex acts to tap into different emotional and healing qualities.

plus Master the secret techniques few people know about to “transmute” sexual energy to increase your bank balance.

plus The key to having “energy” orgasms with your partner from across the room and across the continent.

Salon released: May 25th
Q+A call: May 30th

Challenge Week:

You’ll be given your “challenge” assignment during the course!

Salon released: June 1st
Q+A call: June 6th


Salon 4: Polarity: My Yin Loves Your Yang. Keeping sexual chemistry hot. Natural laws of attraction.

plus The biggest secret to reviving sexual chemistry in a relationship and keeping sparks flying for decades

plus How to break out of being “buddies” and bring back the guttural passion with your partner

plus Women: learn about the biggest block to tapping into your feminine side and how to release it

plus Men: step-by-step instructions to regain the masculine strength she desperately wants you to live from

plus The 5 sex acts that increase sexual chemistry and polarity in your relationship

plus How to use fantasy to exaggerate polarity and enter into the realm of sizzling 50 Shades of Grey play

Salon released: June 8th
Q+A call: June 13th

Integration Week 2:

This is your time to deepen your practice and schedule in even more sex and connection dates!

Salon released: June 15th
Q+A call: June 20st


Salon 5: Orgasmapedia. They come in threes: the main types of female orgasm: clitoral, G-Spot and cervical. Every woman can ejaculate. The gift of the male G-Spot.

plus The fundamental differences between clitoral orgasms and deeper, vaginal orgasms

plus Why most women don’t achieve powerful, internal orgasms and how she can

plus How to channel orgasmic and creative energy into everyday life

plus Learn the golden rule of female orgasms.

plus Techniques to orgasm through intercourse and oral sex

plus The male G-Spot: why and how

plus The number one reason for premature ejaculation and how to ELIMINATE it permanently

Salon released: June 22nd
Q+A call: June 27th

Challenge Week 2:

You’ll be given your “challenge” assignment during the course!

Salon released: June 29th
Q+A call: July 4th


Salon 6: The Guide to Men + The Guide to Women. The Come-pendium of Bliss. Specific tips and tricks for irresistibility, orgasm and attraction. Study separately and then come together!

For Men

plus The biggest mistake men make with women and how to turn it around in seconds.

plus Daily techniques to open her and keep her open

plus Learn the surefire way to initiate sex and have her be receptive to you

plus Understand the biggest turn on for her and live it

plus How to get her to surrender at the deepest possible level

For Women

plus The absolute hottest quality you can cultivate which is irresistible to your man

plus How to get him out of his head and into his body

plus Powerful tools to deal with when he retreats to the “man cave.”

plus Learn the one thing that will consistently melt him

plus How to convert the major block most women have into absolute confidence and power

Salon released: July 6th
Q+A call: July 11th

Kim Anami

Being well-f**ked uplifts EVERY part of your life

Can’t wait another second to be well-f**ked?

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These things have totally changed my life, as they have done for thousands of people I’ve worked with.

Your Coming Together Investment

Coming Together. Lifelong Passionate Sex:

You receive gorgeous HD videos, downloadable audio, transcripts and “homeplay” in which I share the knowledge and wisdom I have accumulated in 25 years of study.
Each of these salons individually would run at a cost of $497- per person. $2982 value.

Weekly Support from Me:

Ask me anything during our Q+A calls. $4000 value.

Total Value $6982

— On working with Kim

“Kim is a total rock star and a tour de force of all things sexual." Read More >

“Her stuff is truly a notch above anything I've seen.”

~ Dr. Christiane Northrup, OBGYN

“I’ve never been more excited to give head in my life! I love it!" Read More >

“I’m more well-f**ked than I’ve ever been, even when I’m not with my partner. My confidence levels are way up. I’m so open to love and intimacy now, of the right kind, the deep-penetration-of-your-soul-kind. Oh, and my road rage has completely subsided! ;) Paradigm shifting!”

~ Diana Black, Marketing Professional

“We’re having sex three times as often and feeling more loving and less stressed about sex in general. Amazeballs. Taking the salon is like having a sex ninja at your service.

Listening to Kim is like reading 14 books, 3 how-to manuals, and the entire Shades of Gray trilogy.“

— Kristen Kalp, Brand Strategist. Texas.

“Sex gets better each time. His stamina is up, and we can have sex for three hours straight no problem… I am feeling so well f**ked it’s ridiculous. I feel completely insatiable. Is that normal?”

— Mariana + Thomas, Miami

The Aesthetic Benefits of Being Well-F**ked

Oh, and this is me.

I’m 44 years old.

This is another benefit of 15 years of gourmet sex.

Being sexually nourished, or on The Come Diet, as I like to call it, is the magic bullet for all that ails you.

The physiological effects of lots of sex and the right kind of sex leave a lasting impression.

Physically, you glow and find your body’s true form.

Emotionally, you are uplifted inspire, balance and create feelings of love and harmony.

Mentally, you’ll find you think clearer and maintain a more positive attitude. About everything. Plus, good sex is the equivalent of a meditation session for the impact on your brain.

Spiritually, you are more connected to yourself, your partner, and the world at large.

Consider it your daily vitamin, Botox, Prozac, Ativan and liposuction all-in-one shot.

Now, I’m considered such an authority on the topic of well-f**king and multi-orgasmic women, that I write for Playboy on it. Find me in the July/August 2012 issue as I discuss this very topic: the epidemic of women who aren’t receiving enough sex and what can be done about it.

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I have devoted my personal and professional life to solving the plight of hysterical and radically undersexed women all over the planet. Now I’m going to solve it for you.

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The Multi-Orgasmic Bonus Series

More tools for your well-f**ked journey. We continue the sex education most women (and men) have never had.

Bonus Salon 1: G-Spot Ecstasy Digital Salon

G-Spot orgasms are deeper, more emotional and amplify our capacity to connect with our partners…and, for that matter, ourselves. In-depth training on female and male G-Spot opening (yes, he has one too!) Value: $247

Bonus Salon 2: DIY 50 Shades of Grey

Everyone wants this intensity and spark in their intimate relationship. How do you do it? I’ll show you how to introduce fantasy play + the art of dominance and submission into your repertoire. Value: $247

Bonus Salon 3: Libido Boosters

The lowdown on natural herbs, foods, supplements and holistic therapies to kickstart your libido into gear. Value: $197

Bonus Salon 4: Orgasmic Birth

After the birth of their children, is when most couples experience a fift in their relationship. It doesn't have to be that way. Kim shares a host of little-known strategies for orgasmic birth (yes, it's a phenomena!) and early parenting techniques that draw you closer, rather than further apart.Value: $247

Bonus Salon 5: Boudoir Kit

Kim gives you her top picks and essentials for your own pleasure chest of sexual accessories.Value: $247

Bonus Salon 6: Non-violent Communication

This revolutionary communication technique has transformed arguments into love-fests the world 'round. Learn key points to apply to intimate relationshipsValue: $297

Total Value of the Multi-Orgasmic Bonus Series $1482

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Your Coming Together Investment includes lifetime access to:

plus Six modules with a total of approximately 25-30 videos HD self-study videos

plus Downloadable audio mp3s

plus Transcripts of all the material

Plus Bonus Salons:

plus G-Spot Ecstasy Digital Salon (16 videos)

plus Multi-orgasmic bonus series on everything from bedroom feng shui to DIY Fifty Shades of Grey.

The Guarantee

If you absorb and apply this information, I know it will make a difference for you in all aspects of your life.

You have to commit to the process.

This is not something you can pay $1000- for and magically tap into your sexual self.

If you find that after reading, listening and acting on the techniques in this course, you find no improvement in your sexual outlook and experience, I’ll cheerfully refund your money.

In order to do that, I’ll require your completed homeplay assignments from all of the salons by midnight PST June 5th 2017. Why? If you do the work, I know you will see change.

That being said, the cultural blocks about free and empowered sexual expression are so strong, that it can take months and years to move through them. It’s important that you prioritize this experience, set aside time daily to focus on it and acknowledge small gains.

The tools you need to shift are all here. You have lifetime access to them, so you can go back and refer to everything multiple times.

Like orgasms, some are bigger and more life-changing than others. Each one represents a breakthrough and an ascension to a higher level.

I’ll see you there.
Kim xxx

I am ready to invest in Coming Together!

I understand that my enrollment today includes:

Lifelong Passionate Sex HD Video Series, mp3s and transcripts —$2982 value

Weekly Coaching from Kim: — $4000 value

G-Spot Ecstasy Digital Salon — $247 value

Multi-Orgasmic Bonus Series — $1238 value

Total Value: $8467

I understand that my investment is backed by your 100% guarantee, provided I do my homeplay.

2 low payments $547

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1 full payment of $997

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** Note: All currency listed is in USD **

Since it’s my life’s work to bring the beauty and joy of sexual fulfillment to as many women as possible, I’m not asking anywhere near that for this program.

I’ll tell you exactly what your investment is in just a moment, but first, let’s hear from some sexually empowered women.

Like Britt, for example. She radiates beauty, femininity and sensuality. She’s confident and poised. She has a ravenous libido. Many of my clients wish to remain anonymous.

Not Britt. She is “out” and proud.

I’ll let her speak for herself.

“I have gone from a pre-mature ejaculator, penetrating and coming—to lasting over an hour some nights." Read More >

~ Derek, Yoga Teacher, Hong Kong

“The last handful of times having sex with my longtime girlfriend were better than any other time in our 8-year relationship." Read More >

"Crash course in how to reach your full sexual potential.”

~ Steve, Marketer. Toronto

“Now that I know the three basic types of orgasms—clitoral, G-Spot, and cervical—I'm able to identify them while having sex and am able to experience each one with a better understanding.

I have cervical orgasms 95% of the time with my boyfriend. What a release!”

— Leslie, Administrator. Washington

"Our sex life has increased by 9000%!

Ok I’m not a mathematician but basically we went from having sexual interactions about 1-2x per month to 6-7 times per week! And these experiences are 5-star Michelin restaurant, quality, gourmet events. In my husband’s words after a recent sex date: ‘I feel like Im high on drugs!’ (We weren’t!) Thank you for being a muse who has taught me how to be my own muse.”

— Vanice Medley, Mystic and Artist. Hawaii


plus It’s summertime! I’ll be on vacation for part of this! What if I miss a week or two?

Fabulous! You’ll be relaxed and open—the ideal state to be in to absorb this work!

Everything is archived—from the videos to the weekly Q+A calls. Plus, you have lifetime access to all the material to review as much as you like.

You can even send in your questions ahead of time and I’ll answer them on the call. Some people choose to do this anyway—not everyone is as bold as me when it comes to talking about sex!

plus How much time will I need to devote to this?

The more you put in, the more you get out.

I’ve designed this course to be a concentrated download of the best techniques I know. I’d suggest committing four hours a week to focus on watching the videos, writing, exercises and “sex dates”—if only with yourself!

plus How do I know this is a fit for me? What is your refund policy?

If you’ve read my blog and watched my videos, you’ll have a good idea of who I am and what I can offer you.

Here we go deeper and fuller.

I KNOW these tools work. They have changed my life and thousands of people I have worked with. If you can prove to me, by submitting the finished product of the work you have done by June 5th 2017, that you’ve put in the effort and still no results, I’ll refund your money.

plus Do you offer a payment plan?

You can pay $997 upfront or in two 30 day installments of $547.

plus What if I’m single?

You can still participate in the salon solo.

When you are single is the ideal time to clear out old habits and beliefs that no longer serve you. This will raise your vibration and enable you to attract a higher caliber partner, and then you can do the whole salon again together! Then you’ll be able to design a conscious, powerful relationship from the ground up. This salon will show you how.

You can experience daily, orgasmic bliss on your own—and you ought to be. Keeping your sexual energy revved up is the key to your happiness, creativity and career success. It’s also the key to attracting new love.

plus I live in Australia/Dubai/Zimbabwe. Will I be able to participate on the Q+A calls?

The weekly call times will be varied. If you can’t make a call, you can submit your question(s) ahead of time and I will answer them on the call. Some people choose to do this anyway if they are feeling shy.

All the calls will be recorded and posted on the private members’ site the next day. You can download and listen to them at your leisure.

plus How far will this take me?

Your sexual evolution is a constant practice, much like your career. Meaning, in the work we choose, we typically get some kind of training. Then we continue to expand ourselves through seminars, workshops, reading about new developments in our industry and mentoring with people we admire. If we didn’t do these things, we’d stagnate.

Your sexual and intimate life is no different.

This course will jumpstart you and take you further than where you are now. Depending on how open you are, it can be the turning point from which you never look back. Your openness and commitment are what will decide that.