6 Tips for Beautiful Orgasmic Breasts – Transcript
Our bodies are an ever-changing reflection of our inner states. When we feel comfortable in our own skin, when we really inhabit our bodies, and best of all, when we love our bodies, we move differently, and our bodies even begin to change shape.
In my work, the power of sexual energy as our life-force energy is so strong that when people really get in touch with it, this vitality emanates from them. People lose weight, they firm up, they get sculpted, their breasts enlarge, their cocks grow, all from having amazing, holy-fuck, Kim Anami–style sex.
In a world where most people are very disconnected from their sexual energy and sexual selves, this also appears as a disconnect in their bodies. People feel cut off from sexual power and can feel numb and dissociated from their breasts, vaginas, and cocks.
Sometimes this is born out of physical habits, and other times it’s from emotional or sexual trauma.
For example, a woman who received a lot of unwanted attention or not enough attention toward her breasts when she was growing up might dissociate from them. She might adopt a permanent, hunched-over posture as she hides her breasts and feels embarrassed by them.
In an ideal world, a woman owns and loves whatever she’s got. Her breasts are responsive, pleasurable, and can even produce nipple-gasms.
Here are six tips to create radiant, beautiful, and orgasmic breasts.
Have more sex and orgasms. The more well-fucked you are, the more you radiate beauty, confidence, and lusciousness from every part of you.
To be clear, being well-fucked isn’t just about having lots of sex; it’s about having gourmet, high-quality, nourishing sex that changes you from the inside out. I often say if sex does not leave you feeling revitalized, in profound ecstasy, transformed, and like it changed your life, you’re doing it wrong. [Laughs]
Whether you are partnered or solo, you can still be well-fucked. There are ways to have sex that give you energy or that leave you feeling tired and in need of a nap. I teach people techniques to harness their sexual energy, and you can find these in these videos: The 3-Hour Sex Date and Gourmet Sex.
My recommendations are a minimum of three times a week, with at least one extended, longer sex date of two to three hours. Bonus points for daily sex. All parts of you are going to wear this well-fucked glow, including your breasts. Plus, sexual activity increases breast size by 25%. If you are having sex every day, you will naturally expand yourself and your breasts.
Breast massage. Regular and, ideally, daily breast massage does a lot of things. It firms, lifts, and enlarges the breasts. It releases stagnation and opens up energy flow. It de-numbs the breasts, where there might be disconnect, and it enlivens sensation and sensitivity.
There are six acupuncture meridians that run through the breasts, including the kidney meridian, which is connected to sexual arousal. Whole-breast stimulation, i.e., not just the nipple, wakes up feelings and sensations in the breasts, and also breaks up any kind of stagnation.
If you experience uncomfortable swelling and sensitivity during PMS or menstruation, breast massage can alleviate and eliminate it. In Taoist thought, breasts are said to be the window to female orgasm, meaning they help to get the hormonal and neurotransmitter juices flowing, activating arousal.
MRIs have found that nipple stimulation activates the same areas in the brain as G-spot and cervical play as well. Plus, you can have ecstatic breast and nipple-gasms.
Check out this Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast episode I did where we speak with one of our Well-F**ked All Stars about her epic nipple-gasms.
I suggest a minimum of five minutes a day of self-massage, and then you can also experiment with longer sessions of full, dedicated breast massage, where you spend 15 or 30 minutes just on breast stimulation.
Because I’m such a strong proponent of breast massage, I created my own breast massage oil called Breast Bliss. All the ingredients in it are organically grown or wild-crafted and are regenerative for breast tissue. Like pomegranate seed, which is great for increasing collagen and elastin production, daisy flowers, and rose hips, which improve skin tone and elasticity, restore firmness, and help skin bounce back from wrinkling and sagging.
And I have added our famous pearl and dioptase crystal elixirs, which help to open the heart and have you owning your beauty.
You can find Breast Bliss in the Anami Alchemia Online Shop.
I also have a wonderful video on breast massage, plus full-length breast massage routines in both my Vaginal Kung Fu and How to Be A Well-F**ked Woman Salons, and I will put all of those links below.
Sunbathing the breasts. Contrary to popular allopathic myths, the sun is healing, restorative, and actually prevents the big C-word. Years back, before it was fashionable to sun your butt hole [laughs], there weren’t that many of us talking about sun therapy.
Nadine Artemis is the creator of the all-natural beauty brand called Living Libations, and she was one of those people. This is an excerpt from a conversation that we had last year.
NADINE: There was a quote from the beautiful—who is that angel—Doreen Virtue. She said, “I don’t know where it came from, but it’s said in Italy a lot and is like, ‘When you let the sun shine where it doesn’t, then you’re avoiding the doctors,’” or something like that. Like have the sun shine on you, and then you don’t have to go to the doctor. [Laughs]
KIM: I love it! I like the idea of treating illnesses with sun. That was done traditionally—I don’t know how traditionally or for what length of time. It’s only now that we’ve got this sun aversion going on.
NADINE: Yeah. There was a great sun moment around 1900 to the 1930s. In 1902, there was a Nobel Prize for sun therapy, and then in the ’20s, you had these clinics in Switzerland that looked like hospitals in the sun. It was so great.
Even Mademoiselle Coco Chanel said, “No outfit is complete without a tan.”
Then came chemicals and lobby groups, and we got lobbied into a loss of sunlight and our need to be covering up with chemicals, and here we are.
KIM: And all you need to do is listen to your body. I love the fact that high noon is sort of midday because I’ll do some work in the morning, and then I’ll go and have my suntanning time and come in totally refreshed. It really is harvesting energy from the sun.
NADINE: Yeah! It’s a sun siesta.
KIM: Yeah, a rejuvenation. When I am sunning the genitals and the breasts, I visualize the sunlight coming into that tissue. Slowly circulating through it, infusing its intense brilliance.
NADINE: It is kind of this union, because there are the seminal influences of the sun’s rays. Our skin is responding. Every little pore starts to dilate like a cervix to receive those rays into the body. Sunlight on our skin, that special connection, you don’t quite get it from taking vitamin D supplements. What you’re creating is like internal lubrication. You’re creating very valuable cholesterol sulfates that need to circulate through the body.
So it really is a part of maintaining inner juiciness to engage with the sun.
KIM: That’s beautiful!
The best time to harvest vitamin double D is between 11:00 a.m. and 2:00 p.m. Start slowly with five minutes of unprotected exposure and then build up by an additional five minutes each day.
I work my day around my sunbathing schedule. There are no appointments scheduled between 11:30 and 2:00 p.m. I’m either at the beach or in the yard getting my vitamin double D on.
Sometimes you can find a sheltered spot at your local beach between some rocks or out of the way, and even five minutes a day will be therapeutic for the breasts. Or you can set up a space at your home, in your yard, or on your veranda. You can get very creative and block out anyone you would rather not see you by draping towels and moving furniture. I do this all the time.
Detox the breasts. The breasts are great alchemizers, and they create the most potent and nourishing substance available to humans—breast milk. They are all lymph clearing houses. They take toxins in the body, and they transform them.
The best thing that we can do is to keep those detox pathways running smoothly. So eliminate antiperspirants, chemical deodorants, and replace them with natural plant versions. If you’re really healthy and you eat well and you exercise regularly, you really don’t need deodorant. I never wear any, but if you would like some, Living Libation makes some beautiful ones.
Minimize xenoestrogens from plastics and toxic body and household products.
Massage is also great for lymph circulation and detox.
And add iodine. We have a lack of iodine in our modern diets, and that means that destructive substances like bromide are able to latch onto these receptors in the body instead. Supplementing with nascent, monatomic iodine has been found to be massively preventative and healing to breast ailments and growths, and it assists thyroid issues to boot.
Breastfeeding. Breastfeeding self-actualizes your breasts. I am a massive proponent of extended breastfeeding, both for your baby’s health and also for yours and your breasts. Breastfeeding reduces the risk of the C-word, meaning that through the acts of breastfeeding, the breast is fortified as it comes into its true purpose.
The idea that breastfeeding deflates breasts is inaccurate. It’s actually the lack of love and nurture that does. If a woman is continually giving out without replenishing, as she often does in the young years of her children, this takes a toll energetically, and then that gets reflected in the breasts.
But if a woman is well-supported and well-fucked during this time of her life, she will be constantly replenishing herself with her sexual energy and the love that surrounds her.
Breastfeeding also helps to develop the breast’s microbiome.
Go braless. We are so used to binding and seeing the breasts bound up in tight, restrictive, and shielding bras. I love the whole “Free the Nip” movement to encourage going braless. I know some women who never wear bras, and even some who are quite large-chested who never wear bras. Then, other women who always want something to buffer them against the world, use their bras.
We have been conditioned to do this. When I first began not wearing a bra, I was on my first epic six-day sex date, and we were having hours and hours of marathon sex and swimming in the ocean and enjoying the jungle. I just didn’t wear a bra, and I felt so much more open to life. I found that my breasts were like these sensory organs, like my eyes and my ears, taking in information. It was this completely unique feeling that I had never had before, which was amazing. My breasts really began to light up my chest.
A landmark French study found that bra-wearing, instead of preventing the sagging of the breasts, actually contributes to their sagging. Breasts left braless fare much better when they are left without a harness.
It might take a while to get used to not wearing one and feeling more vulnerable and exposed. If you want to wear something, then consider lighter, less-restrictive bras, and definitely cut out the underwire, or try a really light camisole.
There are some who also believe that the bra contributes to the big C-word. Going braless means better blood flow, circulation, and lymph drainage, and it also lets you feel your breasts instead of just squishing them and binding them together. What is your favorite thing at the end of the day? Coming home and taking off your bra. That’s telling you something.
The breasts are also an expression of your heart. When you open and inhabit one, it also helps you to open and inhabit the other.
I mentioned that I have some full-length bra massage routines in both my Vaginal Kung Fu and How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salons, where women have naturally grown, lifted, and enlarged their breasts, making them orgasmic and radiant, activating their breast potential.
The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens at the end of July. In the meantime, you can check out the free video preview series. I will put all the links that I have mentioned below this video.
I could listen to you talk about breasts all day. ?Thankyou! Your breast massage oil is the BOMB!