Orgasms vs Ozempic – Transcript
Orgasms vs Ozempic. Who wore it better?
Ozempic is all the rage these days as a weight-loss tool, especially for people who feel like they’ve tried everything and are still struggling to lose weight.
Weight loss is conventionally thought of as a formula: Caloric deficit equals weight loss—eating less and burning more calories than what it takes. That’s it.
Well, I don’t know everything about Ozempic because I largely don’t care. What little I do know is that it’s an appetite suppressant. When people have cravings and are tempted to go above their caloric limit, they are less likely to.
The heart of the matter is the compulsion to overeat. Some of that is habit. We get used to eating larger amounts of food. Some of that is addiction. We get used to the feeling and the high of certain chemicals in food, like sugar.
The rest of it is the desire to self-medicate. To numb out, to shrink, hide inside our bodies, and float in a sea of dissociation.
A huge proportion of people with disordered eating have a history of sexual abuse. The energy of not wanting to be in their bodies translates into hiding within themselves or masking the body in some way.
What I’ve also heard is even if people take Ozempic, once they go off it, the weight tends to come back. It’s like going on a crash diet. They’ve never dealt with the underlying issues and the compulsion to overeat.
Over the decades of doing this work, I first noticed it in myself, and then, having years of clients under my belt, I’ve seen it in other people. When you are well-loved and well-fucked, excess weight drops off. It gets vaporized.
Excess weight is excess baggage. It’s the issues and stories and traumas that haven’t been processed that linger within us, and they manifest as literal weight that we carry.
Alchemical sex transforms our excess weight faster than anything else. The Ozempic route, which is called GLP1, really ought to stand for “get laid, please; it’s your number 1 priority.”
But it’s not just any kind of sex that can make this sort of alchemy. We are talking about Anami-style gourmet sex. Junk-food sex won’t do it. Yes, junk food gives you a quick hit like a sugar high, and then it drops you, leaving you feeling tired, irritable, and maybe even remorseful.
Gourmet sex nourishes you to the depths of your being. It feeds you emotionally, spiritually, and physically. It changes you.
What happens when people are on a steady diet of gourmet sex is that their addictive cravings for all things harmful subside. They aren’t desperate to fill a void because the most important void is already being filled. Yes, literally.
And our deepest intimate needs are being attended to—being seen, adored, loved, and cherished for who we really are. When you have that as your regular food in your life, your cravings for poor substitutions dissipate. And that nourishment of seeing the self isn’t just in partnership with another person.
As a single person, you still have this energy and resource available to you through conscious self-pleasuring. You can harness and harvest this energy to heal, rejuvenate, and satiate yourself.
When you do come together with a willing partner, someone who also appreciates the gourmet version, well, then you have created a full powerhouse. When you combine this with tapping into the power of your sexual life-force energy, you move mountains and make miracles pretty much every time you have sex.
Think about it. Every sexual act has the capacity to create new life. Most people unknowingly just eject all that energy out of them and then pass out.
My work is all about consciously learning to use this energy for healing, regeneration, and self-actualization. Yes, we’re all about the ecstatic orgasms, but on a steady diet of gourmet sex, ecstasy becomes your default state of life.
It’s like if you were eating junk food all the time. You could expect to feel pretty crap, low energy, lethargy, brain fog, not that motivated, moody, versus if you are eating nourishing food, you are fueling your body and your mind to work at their optimum performance levels.
Junk food sex is a hole that never gets filled. Gourmet sex is many holes that get deeply filled all the time.
Here is the Anami weight-loss recipe.
Number one: Alchemize trauma and unresolved issues through gourmet sex with yourself or others. We do this through intention, breathing, and consciously working to clear your sexual blocks. I teach people a number of techniques to harvest and harness their sexual energy so that they aren’t just dumping it out during a sexual encounter but consciously learning to recirculate that energy within their bodies to have it available for healing and creativity.
I always ask people, “Do you feel energized or depleted after sex? Do you feel like you want to run a marathon or pass out? Does it feel like you busted one out to help you with stress relief, or do you feel reborn into a better version of yourself?”
This is how you know whether you’ve used your procreative energy for its true purpose to rebirth yourself and your life, or if you’ve missed out entirely and flushed that energy down the toilet with your scrunched-up tissue.
All my work is geared toward helping people to tap into this energy to heal themselves and create their lives while having ecstatic, euphoric orgasms that last for days along the way.
Number two would be cervical orgasms for the win. There is no greater reset, recalibration, trauma healing, self-realization, or bombshell cultivation of don’t give a fuck, I am who I am energy than the power of cervical orgasms.
Cervical orgasms are the best alchemical transformer there is. For years, people have shared with me how their cervical orgasms have taken the place of therapy. Look, I’m still a fan of therapy. I love it. But deep vaginal orgasms accelerate everything, and they quantum leap you to the next levels in ways that your breathwork and ice baths never could.
There is so much discussion about nervous system resets and the vagus nerve these days, which is great. But far better than the external plant medicine you could take is the genital medicine of gourmet, psychedelic sex, getting thoroughly fuck-changed, and seeing God through your cervical orgasms.
Among other amazing mood-boosting chemicals including DMT, orgasms release oxytocin. The deeper vaginal orgasms—G-spot, cervical, and squirting—release much more of it. Oxytocin wipes out cortisol. A high supply of cortisol and stress hormones creates the belly paunch that we see. You want to flatten your belly? Have more cervical orgasms.
Because of the depth and surrender these orgasms require to achieve, the whole journey is one of releasing layers of yourself and surrendering the unnecessary, the baggage.
The catharsis and letting go of your false parts is the price of admission. So, of course you feel lighter afterward in every possible way. This is your internal combustion engine working off your issues as you go and as you come. You are letting go on such a deep level that it rewires your nervous system. You have these deep, cataclysmic, God-seeing, psychedelic, transcendent cervical orgasms, and it’s like you’ve done hours of therapy, a plant-medicine trip, months of breathwork, saunas, ice baths, and somatic releasing all in one. Nothing resets you faster and rebirths you deeper.
Many women cry at the height of their cervical orgasms. The crying isn’t necessarily related to any particular event, but their systems seize a way to viscerally release tension and trauma, and it goes for it.
Afterward, you feel completely cleansed and reborn. That’s a high and a feeling that lasts for days.
Next up in the Anami weight-loss recipe is three-hour sex dates. I recommend three-hour weekly sex dates for all people. For myself, I like six-day sex dates. Any way that you slice it, these are extended sessions where you really unwind, let go, and are uninterrupted to focus on yourself and each other. That is where the magic happens.
No magic is had in three-minute pump, dump, and schlump sessions. The longer you are intimate, the more energy you generate. Your bed becomes your engine and your fuel source.
I remember coming back from my six-day sex date many years ago. We returned to civilization after having been off the grid for that entire time. I looked in the mirror, and I could see that my body had changed. It was sculpted in a way that I had never seen before. Yes, we had been having lots of all-night and all-day sex sessions, but this was more than just a calories-burnt kind of look. It was as though my body had found its perfect form. It was sculpted and accentuated in all the right places.
It was the most self-actualized it had ever been because that’s exactly how I felt inside. The most loved, known, cherished, seen, and opened up than I had ever been in my life. That is the medicine. That is the quantum leap factor, growth accelerator, extraordinaire; it’s bar-none. It was like all the love, orgasms, and sensual bliss had chiseled my body into its ultimate, perfect form.
I was blown away when I looked in the mirror. This is what I’m talking about. This is the time- and space-bending quantum piece of the puzzle.
And this is what scores of our Well-F**ked All Stars have had happen to them, where they talk about the weight just dropping off when nothing in the typical equation of exercise and food had changed. But they were changing. From the inside out, they were becoming their true selves, and that reflected in their body shapes.
This is an excerpt from our Well-F**ked All Star Alexa talking about losing 76 pounds out of nowhere as she started her sexual journey with me. She equates that with all the inner work that she was doing to burn through her metaphysical calories, and the weight loss was a byproduct of the emotional clearing she experienced through doing her sexual work.
She also evaporated a vaginal cyst and a throat cyst. Again, more of the alchemy that releases trauma and all its representations.
ALEXA: Just kind of a snapshot of where I was before versus after working on myself through Kim Anami’s work and everything I learned in the salon. It’s kind of wild looking back because I was at my lowest not only emotionally, but I was so heavy. I had just given birth, and I had gained 90 pounds, and I was having the hardest time getting it off. I was in debt, over $35,000. My career was at an obvious standstill after COVID, and my husband and I, because of where I was personally, it was being reflected in my relationships via him and my family and other things going on in my life.
Fast forward to now, and it’s kind of amazing to look back at where I was because I’m in such a different place. I feel like a different person. Like a more invigorated, refreshed version of myself.
Not only has all of that been totally eliminated, but now it’s so great to be going in the right direction. My husband and I are better than we’ve ever been. My daughter is thriving. I’m happier. I have so much more energy. I have lost 76 pounds, and still kind of going in that direction. I have eight more.
What I learned through that salon was how to utilize the tools of my own sexuality. Everything I had within myself, how to really channel that, harness that, and unblock myself. What I mean by unblock myself is that I had no idea how many layers there were of trauma, grief, sadness, and things that come up in life. As she puts it, your issues are in your tissues.
I had no idea how much of that could really be healed, whether it be orgasms or just being willing to be with yourself and allow that stuff to come up in a way. Therapy had never worked for me in that sense. You can talk it out forever, but sometimes you just don’t hit that core sense of the root cause of whatever the trigger is.
When I started Kim Anami’s work, I had what’s called a Bartholin’s cyst, which is on the inner lining of your vulva. What was amazing to me was that after applying the different techniques and healing modalities she offers and really going in and clearing out some stuff emotionally, I started to notice the cyst was decreasing in size.
Getting that verified via OB/GYN, and also then going to my endocrinologist and finding that the throat cysts were completely gone and my thyroid was back to functioning fully, was miraculous.
As I was clearing these emotional things, the cysts were leaving my body, because they were just sort of messengers, if you will, telling me, “Hey, something is not healed. There’s something we have to tell you.”
As those became healed, a byproduct of the emotional clearing was that I was quick to lose a ton of weight. It just started falling off. Now, 76 pounds later, I feel lighter not just physically, but in my spirit. I feel lighter in my outlook on life. I feel like this old self, who was not really who I was, like the clothing of the self. The emotional clothing is gone.
It’s this renewed sense of hope, inspiration, enthusiasm, joy, and vigor and eagerness for life. That’s one of the best parts of it all. Yes, the physical stuff is amazing, and the confirmation that it’s working is just so validating. I’m excited for what else is possible.
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KIM: For this next excerpt, we chose Robin, who lost 60 pounds through alchemizing her issues in bed.
ROBIN: I went to this firemen’s auction after I had finished your course, and I was just kind of on fire there. There were all these men being auctioned, and you always talk in the courses about freeing your boobs and how you don’t have to wear a bra all the time. Shake them, play the game. If men invented the game, play the fucking game.
Here I was, and it was like the opposite, being in the women’s lion’s den. Firemen were being auctioned off. It was just a wonderful time. I picked the cutest guy in the bar. He was a fireman, and he was delicious. He was 6’7” and all the wonderful, epic things. He was the rescuer. Like literally the rescuer.
We ended up hitting it off. My sex drive was through the roof. I had to ask my vagina, “Does he make you wet? Are you interested?” And the answer was, “Fuck, yeah.” It wasn’t no or maybe. It was a “Fuck, yeah” for me.
We had gourmet sex every single time, three hours at a time or four hours at a time, at his place or my place. He would tell me, “Girl, you are exhausting.” And I said, “First of all, you’re welcome. Second of all, we don’t have to have sex every time. If you’re tired, we don’t have to have sex.” And he looked at me and said, “Fuck you, yes, we do. How dare you say that to me? Don’t act like I can’t handle it.” I said, “I mean, maybe you can. If you can’t handle it, that’s okay; we can rest.”
He just didn’t really know how to handle me, so, yeah, he looked at me and said, “You know, you look real, and you feel real, but this can’t be real. People don’t have two-hour sex sessions and squirt all over the place and keep maintaining that level of sex drive.” He kept wondering, when is this going to go away? For me and him, that’s just how we were.
And the longer I was with him, the more sculpted my body got. It was just such a good way to lose weight and to shape my body because the more I was with him, the more I was working my abs and my thighs and my ass. I would just feel so confident.
This one time when we were on his couch and I was straddling him and we were engaged, he looked at me and said, “You are …” and he paused. I thought, “Oh my.” And he said, “… so beautiful.” I just felt so vulnerable because I was on him, in front of him, on his couch, naked, all these things. That compliment has just stayed with me because it was such an intimate moment, and to be complimented when you’re so vulnerable and wild really set me free in a way.
By the time we were done, I had a four-pack. I think I was at 217, and then I got down to 160. So 217 was my max weight when I was nine months pregnant. I said, “If I lean back, you can see my abs, and I kind of have a little bit of a V-line.”
My body just started to mold itself into this woman. You talk about a woman who looks well-fucked, you start to get a really shapely figure, and I was confident and strong, and it was just a fiery time in my life.
I wanted to own my power and have confidence in my femininity, the way that sexual energy allows. Really, just harnessing my femininity, like sexual dance or sexual touch, being open to that touch, and even opening up my breasts.
And I think freeing myself helped my body change shape. Your famous line is, “Who you are in bed is who you are in real life.” That has become a deep mantra in my experience through sexuality; when I became freer in bed, even with myself, allowing myself to squirt alone with myself, I think that’s part of what also helped sculpt my body, and it became who I was in bed and in real life.
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KIM: Amazing and inspiring stories. I will give a shoutout to tracking macros, daily exercise, and protein intake, as these have been big components of my own journey and they’re definitely important. But we are all about root causes and deep solutions here in Anami Land. And the root cause is all the holes that are not being filled.
In the Well-F**ked Woman Salon, you will learn all the tools you need to channel your sexual energy and use it for its true purpose. As procreative energy, you can use to heal, alchemize, and build your life and body with.
You will learn how to have the life-changing cervical, G-spot, and squirting orgasms. How to own and heal your dissociated parts. How to become un-fuck-with-able. How to transform your sexual energy into creative, regenerative, and healing energy. Self-pleasuring practices so that you’ll never be under-fucked again, plus all my cock-whispering techniques to bring your man to his knees, and much more.
The Well-F**ked Woman Salon is opens for registration soon. To sign up, go to KimAnami.com, look for Sexual Savant Salons, and then click on How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman.
