The 10 Biggest Sex Scams Transcript
In my work as a sexologist and a holistic sex and relationship coach—indeed, as the pioneer of the genre—I’m always coming across serious myths and misinformation online about all things sexual.
Some of it is truly shocking!
Not only is this information totally wrong, but I’d venture to say that many of these concepts and their attendant so-called “remedies” are massive scams.
We have an epidemic of snake oil sellers these days.
Join me in today’s episode as we unmask some dark corners of the internet and unveil some of the true criminals and purveyors of sex hoaxes out there.
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10 Biggest Sex Scams #1: “Some people can and “some people can’t”.
This also sounds like:
“Some women can have orgasms and some can’t!”
“Some people have a high libido and others just don’t!”
“Some men just can’t help ejaculating after three minutes of intercourse, even after 30 years! The Come Fairy made them do it!”
Uh no.
Bullsh*t. Bullsh*t. Bullsh*t.
This particular hoax is centered around the idea that pleasure, power and healing are random, coincidental, and totally OUT of your control.
And that by some totally unpredictable act of nature that IS TOTALLY OUT OF YOUR CONTROL, maybe you will have certain talents or weaknesses.
And others may not.
Easy targets for this scam are those who buy into the notion that they are victims in life and they certain people are born with “privilege”.
I.e. some people are gifted with “orgasm privilege” or “libido privilege.”
Or in the case with men and stamina “not-a-two-pump-chump” privilege”.
Alas, they are so wrong.
Everyone has this raw material.
All women can have every type of deep orgasm.
Everyone has a high libido.
All men can have sex for hours at a time.
Each of these qualities may be buried underneath a series of false beliefs—i.e. someone previously bought some snake oil— or from past trauma.
If we peel off the effects of the hoax and transform our beliefs and heal any wounds, we’ll uncover the pure and infinite potential of each person.
And then you, too, can make good on the Anami Guarantee and enter into the Anami Well-F**ked Hall of Fame.
If you ever come across an in-doctor-nator or “sex therapist or coach” and they tell you this, run for the hills.
Or better yet, come to Anami Land. We’ll look after you.
If these people deny the FACT that all women can have orgasms, and every TYPE of deep orgasm known to woman, this is your biggest proof that they know nothing about sex or their own bodies.
The whole foundation of the Anami brand philosophy is that EVERYONE CAN.
Everyone can heal.
Everyone can orgasm.
Everyone can experience deep, powerful, passionate, long-lasting love and intimacy.
EVERYONE.
It’s the Anami Guarantee.
So if we know that everyone can, then it’s just a matter of figuring out how.
And that’s my job.
Showing people how.
The idea that “some people just can’t” does not exist in my world.
But it’s very definitely the cornerstone of large-scale, worldwide, organized crime, industries of corruption and bogus snake-oil treatments.
By persuading people that they are powerless victims, who couldn’t possibly heal or heal themselves, they are also lifelong customers.
By definition then, to me, anything that tells you that you have no power, is a scam.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #2: Periods and Menopause Are Supposed to Suck.
I often say that menopausal women are the cash cow of Western snake oil medicine.
Women are told that after a certain age, their bodies “just don’t work anymore”, and they absolutely MUST take artificial hormones for the REST OF THEIR LIVES if they have ANY hope of EVER being happy or lubricated and squirting, or not wanting to kill themselves.
This is seriously one of the biggest scams and pyramid schemes going.
The kind of seedy ads that shows up in your spam folder, with bags and bags of pills. ?
Some of these thugs and criminals involved in this scam are so violent, they even try to stick a knife in ya if you don’t listen to them.
They are in the organ harvesting trade.
It’s like hunters who have animal heads mounted on their walls, except these people have offices full of uteruses, ovaries and prostates.
It’s truly macabre.
These pyramid schemes start early.
Teenage girls are targeted, and told that they need DRUGS to “help their acne” or to take DRUGS for painful periods or for “contraception”.
Lies and scams.
First of all, taking some kind of hoax pill that blocks your hormones isn’t “curing your acne” or “fixing your period”.
That’s like saying that in order to fix your broken arm, someone is going to cut it off.
That’s just stupid.
How f**kin bad ARE you at your job?
And then with the contraception idea, giving teenage girls hormone blockers is just ridiculous.
You know that right?
That birth control pills don’t “balance” hormones, as these scam artists like to tell you.
They BLOCK them.
Is it any wonder that women struggle to get pregnant after decades of being on hormone blockers?
And that the rates of infertility are now 1 in 5?
No shit.
The hoax lie that is being sold to people is that it is somehow REALLY, REALLY difficult to tune into and observe physical signs in your own body.
This is not true.
The most effective method of birth control is through the observation of the body’s signals.
The issue for these scam artists, is that if you DO observe your fertility and learn how to assess it for conception or contraception, you are no longer a customer.
You no longer have a lifelong dependence on a pill and an outside authority and a WHO-re representative in a lab coat to tell you what is happening in your own body.
You already know.
The scam is that you don’t know. Or that you can’t possibly know, you silly little thing.
I guarantee that you can.
This is something I teach in all of my programs.
Because once you have that sovereignty and independence, and you realize YOU hold the knowledge and power of your own body, you never have to fall prey to their con artist tactics again.
Anything or anyone that perpetually tells you that YOU have no power, and something or someone else does, is categorically, cataclysmically wrong.
This concept is the biggest hoax there is.
The only truth, the universal truth, is that YOU have the power.
In your heart, in your genitals.
You are a channel and conduit for this truth.
The great spiritual lie and friction challenge of this world is that you don’t.
Is when that truth is hidden from you.
Often in plain sight.
For example, with the power of your sexual energy.
This power source, arguably the most potent in this earthly realm, is literally at your fingertips, but how many people are CUT OFF from it?
So cut off that they allow one of those same scam artists to literally cut their sexual organs off?
Some people have no choice, such as infant boys when their parents ritually sacrifice their penises at birth.
Other people willingly do it, when they sacrifice their internal organs.
When the con artist told them they had to.
And they believed it.
So.
The truth is that women’s periods are the time when a portal opens between other dimensions and she now has easier access to the other worlds.
The veil is thin. It disappears.
Because of this constant access to other dimensions that women have more easily and naturally than men, that power has been maligned and suppressed through the ages.
Women are told that their periods are dirty and gross.
When actually, at this time a woman is more powerful than ever.
She is the ultimate shaman, and she is granted this access every month.
Most women don’t even know that.
They’ve bought into the hoax that periods are difficult and painful and tedious.
And they are—if you reject or are ignorant to the power of that time.
Or if your sexual energy is so blocked that it comes out as pain during your menstruation.
But this time is meant to be a window of ascension.
The same thing goes for menopause.
Women are sold the scam that at this time they are essentially written off from being desirable, and that they are “dried up”
I’ll tell you right now, I have women in their 70’s who are giving blow jobs to their partners all over the house, who are gushing, lubricating, squirting all over the house.
And missing calls because they are having anal sex for the first time.
That is NORMAL.
The thematic hoax of all this is THE NORMALIZATION OF DYSFUNCTION.
That is one of the biggest scams going.
Instead of being shown the truth that periods are blissful, menopause is an initiation into shaman-hood, and that giving birth is the biggest orgasm of a woman’s life, we are told the opposite of all these things by the great hoax purveyors.
Hoaxes galore.
Like those sh*tty ads that make end up in your spam folder.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #3: Cutting into, off and out body parts is a good idea.
As I’ve mentioned, SOME OF THE BIGGEST HOAXES involve coming at you with a knife.
To cut into and remove things.
People are sold the idea that their body parts are optional and disposable.
And they are convinced to participate in sacrificial rituals that tear their body parts from them, only to be repurposed and sold on the black market.
And on a deep spiritual level, people become so dissociated and “cut off” from the vital energies of these organs: like their uteruses, or their “balls” that they let it happen.
Women from their thirties onward are convinced to part with their breasts, ovaries and uteruses.
All of these organs are spiritual portals, helping women to create their lives with their vital sexual energy and helping them to manifest their visions and purpose in the world.
Without these organs intact, this is not impossible, but much harder to do.
And then women are convinced, through this additional pyramid scheme, that they need to use fake hormones for the rest of their lives.
This may be the main reason to remove these organs: to bring women into the other dimension of the OBGYN MLM scheme of a life of pills.
For men, they are targeted at birth with the “let’s tell them that it’s for hygiene or that God f**ked up and really wants them to cut their dicks off!” hoax and genitally mutilate infant boys.
This is another huge scam.
It works on multiple levels: 1) It immediately causes a massive trauma to a boy early in his life, sometimes minutes after he is born. It dissociates him from his sexual organs and connects them to the idea of pain and suffering. 2) The foreskin is resold with its rich stem cell content and used in various beauty products.
Don’t fall for this one!
Sexually abusing young babies by cutting off their genitals, is truly a sick action, taken by gullible parents who know not what they do.
They have been duped by con artists, trying to convince them that genital mutilation and cutting off a baby’s dick is somehow noble or healthy.
Wake the f**k up.
“Gotta wake up. gotta wake up b*tch get up.”
I’ll pause here for a moment to say that it can be intense to recognize all of the ways in which you’ve been conned and lied to.
Some of these con artists are so deep in the con, they don’t even think they are perpetuating evil!
They’ve truly convinced themselves that organ harvesting, genital mutilation and being a drug lord kingpin is “helping people”.
They are sick motherf**kers.
Gaslighting narcissists of the highest order.
When you do wake up and bust out of their spell, you propel yourself forward with your newfound knowledge that YOU have the power.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #4: “AGING” means that everything in your body stops working. ??I’ve already touched on this with the idea of menopause.
Women are convinced that nature be dumb dumb and they’ll need to take drugs for half of their lives because nature be SO dumb it designed women’s bodies to fail in their forties.
It always floors me when I come across people who buy into this very manufactured idea.
The women in my programs GLIDE through menopause with not even a blip on the radar.
You wanna know why?
Because they are well-f**ked.
Your sex hormones are your MASTER hormones.
If you are getting well-f**ked and living a well-f**ked life, that energy will infuse itself and feed into EVERYTHING you do.
It elevates every other part of your system.
The same schtick is sold to men—that their cocks will stop working in—I don’t know… their fifties?—and then they’ll need Viagra.
Nope. Nope. Nope.
Both of these ares scams.
I have loads of ravenous, lubricating and squirting 70 and 80—something women and plenty of rock solid men go through my programs.
Yes, “aging” is more of a reality when people don’t take good care of themselves.
But it’s also a mindset that people get programmed with.
If you don’t buy into the programming and you are living a well-f**ked life, these things are just urban myths that you never have to experience.
Dry vaginas. Limp cocks.
Nah.
You can be rock hard, wet, wet, wet and well-f**ked for life.
Check out my “Ageless and Fit as F**k” episode where I talk about my own experiences as an outlier: being in the best shape of my life and sexually flourishing.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #5: Your Body Can’t Make Hormones so You Have to Buy Them from the Local Quack Whore.
This scam follows on the “aging” scam and the notion that our bodies are not self-sufficient entities, but need to be chemically dependent for survival.
Anyone with even a touch of critical thinking could see through this one which justifies a life-long prescription and reliance on your local quack WHO-re drug dealer.
Women are convinced to take HRT and men are told to supplement with testosterone.
Or, you know, you could just learn to build your own with your own body.
I’m going to do a full episode on why HRT is useless and I NEVER recommend it in the coming weeks.
In the meantime, suffice to say that so many of the “symptoms” that especially women experience in their midlife years are:
The direct result of being underf**ked.
The direct result of poor lifestyle choices; i.e. diet and exercise
Buying into all of this programming, telling men and women that their lives and bodies and libidos shut down and at 45.
F**k that.
I was sitting a few feet away from a woman a couple of weeks back, having a conversation about “menopause”.
I was saying that it’s a non-experience for well-fucked women.
She was talking about her “hot flashes” and right there in that moment as we were speaking, she had one.
Her face broke out in a sweat and she had to take a moment.
If that’s not a Pavlovian response, I don’t know what is.
Check out my podcast episodes “Wet, Wet Menopause” and “The Myths of Menopause” to start the reprogramming.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #6: Your Sex life Dies After a Couple Years of Being Together
Maybe it does for most people.
But not in Anami Land.
If your sex life dies, then you aren’t doing it right.
And let’s face it, most people definitely are NOT doing it right.
They’ve ‘also bought into THIS scam idea that nature played a dirty trick on humans to bring us together to procreate and then WHOP pulled the rug and attraction out from under us.
Again, for the average couple, this is what their experience is.
But in Anami Land, the “norm” is lifelong passionate sex and being together for 30 years and still having “savage” and wild sex all over the planet.
Check out the recent podcast episode “30 Years and the Sex Is Hotter than Ever” with our Well-F**ked All Star Jeff, of our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame couple Jeff and Jen.
Buying into this notion enlists you in a life of hopelessness.
You don’t think it could ever get better because you’ve been told it won’t!
So you take antidepressants and watch porn to FEEL—or not feel—something.
Nah.
You can have wild passion ad infinitum.
I guarantee it.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #7: Parenthood Ruins Your Sex Life
Along similar lines is the notion that after you have children you may not have sex for months.
Or years.
Sigh.
Wrong again.
This hoax is a complex mix of Madonna/whore religious programming as well as the long-term and dramatic impacts of birth trauma.
Which is what most people go through these days in modern birthing practices.
If your birth wasn’t an orgasm, you did it wrong.
I’m serious.
Birth was meant to be orgasmic—this could be a subcategory in this discussion of another big allopathic scam.
The fact that most couples birth in such a violent, invasive and catastrophic way, tells us how far we are from what nature intended and what is meant to happen.
Couples spend years recovering from their experiences of being birth-raped, violated and cuckolded.
And most of the time, they are gaslit all the way through it, being told that this is “normal”.
And so they don’t have any space to truly acknowledge, process and heal from it all.
So what happens? The woman’s birth PTSD manifests as “postpartum depression” and they stop having sex.
To go deeper into this, check out my episode “The Real Reason Couples Stop Having Sex After Children.”
10 Biggest Sex Scams #8: Asexuality Is Real LOL
This is not even remotely a real thing.
Sure, people can feel little desire for sex.
But this is SOLELY due to unhealed trauma.
Nothing else.
There is no legitimate “condition” of being perpetually uninterested in sex. Asexuality Is Bullshit!
10 Biggest Sex Scams #9: Birth Is Painful.
This is where it all begins.
The massive ritual of training women to give over all of their autonomy and power to an outside source.
We are the only animal on the planet who has been convinced that the very thing crucial to our survival as a species—giving birth—is impossibly hard, torturous and couldn’t possibly be experienced without constant managing from an outside source.
Total scam.
Birth was meant to be the biggest orgasm of a woman’s life, and a time that brings the couple together stronger than ever so they are united going forward as parents.
Birth is a SEXUAL act—it is the culmination of the moment of conception, and the buildup of nine sexy months of foreplay and arousal, all leading to a giant orgasm at the end of it all.
Anything NOT in line with this experience is a scam.
I’ve spoken extensively on the systematic effort of Quack WHORES to infiltrate this domain of women, and usurp their innate and divine power to conceive and birth, as a deeply spiritual, transformation and self-actualizing experiences.
I’m a big proponent of FREE birth, which means that you actually don’t need ANY outside interference for your pregnancy and birth.
And relying on it deprives you of the spiritual mettle you would otherwise grow as a result of walking through this portal on your own.
The only acceptable midwives are dolphins, as you can hear about in the episode “Wild Birth: Conscious and Orgasmic.”
I have an amazing library of orgasmic and free birth content on the podcast and you can also check out my Sexy Mama Salon for all things ecstasy pregnancy and orgasmic birth.
10 Biggest Sex Scams #10: Life and Your Body Are Painful and Kind of a Mistake and Disaster Waiting to Happen and You Will Only Maybe Sometimes Be Happy If We Manage Them with Pills Forever and Ever.
This is a blanket summary of anything that tells you that you have no power and that you have to be reliant on some outside source, pill or knife.
All of these scams have built within them a narrative that is selling you the idea that you cannot heal yourself and something outside of you that you’ll likely be dependent on forever and ever—quite the MLM business model— can.
I’ve addressed this idea in so many episodes, because my work is the exact opposite of this!
I’m into permanent and root cause healing.
And teaching you how to find all of this power and pathways within.
All of my salons are about showing you the way and then you are good to go.
Check out the episodes “Real Cures vs. Obsolete OBGYNs” and one I just did recently, “Reproductive Rights on the Line?”
The bottom line: Be careful out there.
There are A LOT of unscrupulous scam artists around, just lurking about, wanting to inject you with their unproven snake oil, or trying to make you swallow it.
It’s much better for you.
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