Dear Mama or Mama-to-be,
Nature intended for women to have blissful pregnancies and births.
SO WHY AREN’T THEY?
Birth in the modern world has become a tragedy and major surgery to recover from, rather than the natural, blissful, initiating experience nature intended it to be.
This idea, which is broadcast to us in ANY and EVERY childbirth scene in movies and on television, featuring women screaming in brutal pain, becomes the blueprint for women of what birth is meant to look and feel like.
But it isn’t.
We know how to do this—every cell in our bodies knows how to do this and has been doing it for millennia.
The current stats on birthing in the US are abominable:
– 33% of women give birth by Caesarean section—a procedure that ought to be used in emergencies only.
– C-sections are the most commonly performed surgery in the US.
– The US has the highest maternal death rate in the developed world.
What’s going on?
In hospitals all over the world, women are having their innate knowing and power removed from them.
Childbirth used to be something that happened at home.
A midwife attended a woman, and was there for more expert support, but the philosophy behind midwifery is really that the woman and her body know what to do.
She is there, as needed, to encourage and of course troubleshoot, but her roles is largely to give the woman a “wide berth” haha, and helps her to come back to her own knowingness and faith in herself if she veers off track.
In other Western countries, an OBGYN only attends the birth if there is some foreseen risk.
More shocking numbers from the US:
C-sections are the most common major surgery in the US for 37 years running, followed closely by hysterectomies (what is this morbid obsession with cutting women’s uteruses up?)
Many hospitals have an epidural rate of 85% or more and it’s estimated that overall 80% of women have epidurals in the US.
A 2006 study in the New England Journal of Medicine of 5000 low-risk women giving birth in large teaching hospitals reported that 40% of women were induced into labor and 70% received Pitocin at some point during labor.
The entire process of birth is designed, from start to finish, to be an intricate, exquisite biofeedback mechanism between mother and baby.
Everything is connected.
It’s like a row of dominoes. If you pull out one, you stop the chain of events. The more you pull out, the more disjointed and muddled the process becomes.
The innate intelligence, that has been doing this for millennia, does not have the chance to do its job.
Oxytocin is one of, if not THE, key hormone involved in the birthing process.
Oxytocin is produced in safe, loving environments.
We know that birth is this giant oxytocin ascent. For it to work the way it’s meant to, the flow of oxytocin and other birth hormones must be allowed to happen, undisturbed.
What else generates oxytocin?
Orgasms and sexual arousal.
When I had a child over two decades ago, I knew a couple of things:
– The last place I wanted to give birth was a hospital
– My body would know exactly what to do
And that’s pretty much how I did it.
I found the most grassroots midwife I could, picked up a copy of Spiritual Midwifery, and trusted that the eons of wisdom that were encoded into my genes would show me how to birth my baby.
I listened to to stories of women who, through their births, found their voice, their power and a deeper part of themselves.
That’s what is meant to happen.
A woman taps into her ancestral wisdom, the same way that newborns know how to find their mother’s nipple—in every species.
My view is that we all instinctively know how to conceive, have easy pregnancies and orgasmic, pleasurable, self-actualizing births.
All we need to do is to remove the blockages that are covering over that natural and innate wisdom.
In my work as a holistic sex and relationship coach, everything I do is about restoring men and women to their own true power.
My view is that sexually speaking, all women:
- – Are multi-orgasmic
- – Have high libidos
- – Can ejaculate across the room
- – Can shoot ping pong balls with our vaginas
All men can:
- – Make love all night
- – Separate orgasm from ejaculation
- – Have rock-hard erections into their ripe old age
The only thing that prevents us from doing these things are our own blocks.
They may be culturally imposed upon us, like the idea that women just aren’t that sexual.
Or they might come out of some underf**ked male scientist setting out to prove that just because he can’t sexually satisfy his wife, apparently there is no female G-Spot.
Or, the block might be from a previous trauma you’ve had that obscures your innate knowing of how to do something.
In my work, I am the great permission giver and block remover.
My aim is that people tap into their deepest truth and power and live from that place.
The same kinds of blocks are super-imposed upon women—and us as a culture at large —when it comes to pregnancy and birth.
Knowing how to give birth is one of—if not THE most—natural, innate things we could do.
Our species—and every species on the planet—was made for this. Through this.
If there is one thing our bodies know how to do, it’s make—and birth—babies.
All we need to do is remove the whatever is blocking that process, that age-old, ancestral-encoded-in our genes and bones, process.
“Birth is safe. Interference is risky.”
~ Trust Birth Initiative
My assertion is that pregnancy and childbirth can be entirely:
- – Natural and free-flowing
- – Woman-directed and DIY
- – Pleasurable
- – Orgasmic
This is how it was meant to be.
The greatest high and orgasm of your life.
Left to its own devices, the birth process in a woman mimics the rise to orgasm.
Oxytocin builds in arousal and orgasm, and in birth, to levels 10 times as high as they do during orgasm.
So think of your very best orgasm ever, multiply that by 10, and now you have your orgasmic birth.
Your endorphins kick in on a massive scale, and by the end of it, you are on a hormonal high, the highest you’ll ever be in your life.
Who wouldn’t want that?
When a woman has an undisturbed birth process, and she has done her own internal block clearing to rid herself of the medical and psychological and brainwashing and fear-mongering, her hormones do their job and there is no need for pain medication.
Instead, she’ll be in an altered state, a supreme high, that will carry her into the birth of her child and the rebirth of herself.
HERE’S: Sexy Mama
An 8-week Virtual Salon for Holistic Pregnancy and Ecstatic Birth
“Salons” are a tradition of learning that dates back centuries. In this modern-day version, you’ll receive pre-recorded HD videos, followed up by weekly live, interactive Q+A calls.
In between, you’ll have “homeplay” assignments to deepen your intuitive and factual knowing. I’ll be there to troubleshoot with you every step of the way.
SALON 1: Every Woman Can Have an Ecstatic Birth
- Tune into your innate wisdom for the most pleasurable, self-actualizing and initiating experience of your life: your natural and blissful birth.
- The couple connection—learn how your intimate relationship impacts your pregnancy and birth and how to up-level it.
- How to use your vaginal orgasms to facilitate an orgasmic birth experience.
- Understand the perfect hormonal process designed by nature—that’s encoded in your genes—for ecstatic birth.
- How to override cultural conditioning, and clear the blocks and negative messages you may have absorbed about birth.
Salon released: October 22nd
Q+A call: October 28th
SALON 2: Conscious Conception
- How to heal and prepare yourself for smooth and easy conception and pregnancy
- Guided visualizations to clear blocks and consciously conceive your child
- Self-care for optimum fertility
- Detoxification to cleanse your system.
- The most up-to-date information on nutrition, environment and supplementation: what to add, what to remove.
- Vaginal Reconnaissance 101: know they inner self.
- How to connect with and call in the spirit of your baby
Salon released: October 29th
Q+A call: November 4th
SALON 3: Luscious and Intuitive Pregnancy
- How to be in glowing health: doctor-approved essential nutrients, food, supplements and exercise
- Creating your renegade birth kit
- Yoni and perineal massage
- Owning and loving your pregnant body
- The secrets of your cervix and how to heal and open it for birth (and orgasms!)
- Finding the birth team for you
Salon released: November 5th
Q+A call: November 11th
CHALLENGE WEEK: You’ll be given your “challenge” assignment during the course!
Q+A call: November 17th
SALON 4: Orgasmic Birth and Your Rebirth
- Making labor pleasurable and even orgasmic—yes, it’s possible.
- Best holistic birth and after-birth practices.
- Create your renegade, holistic birth kit, including the number one and most surprising thing to put into it.
- Preparing for home birth: what and who you need.
- Placenta encapsulation: everything you need to know.
Salon released: November 19th
Q+A call: November 24th
SALON 5: The Babymoon Year
- Breastfeeding essentials to give your baby the best possible start and how to use it for trauma repair.
- Attachment parenting tips to create strong self-esteem, security and earlier independence in your child.
- Learn baby massage to strengthen your connection through vital touch.
- Elimination communication: Have your baby communicate with you and be easily diaper-less in weeks.
- How to prevent postpartum depression.
Salon released: November 26th
Q+A call: December 1st
CHALLENGE WEEK: You’ll be given your “challenge” assignment during the course!
Q+A call: December 8th
SALON 6: Habits for Life
- Sexuality after birth: The number one secret to how to keep having it.
- Your identity as a mother. Follow this guidance to ensure you keep your own individual path while still being an amazing and present mama.
- The untraumatized child. Is it possible to grow children without or at least minimal trauma? Absolutely.
- Sex and children. How to model positive sexual behaviour to your children at every age.
- Finding and building the village to raise your child.
Salon released: December 10th
Q+A call: December 15th
Photo: Hannah Grace
Every woman can birth blissfully
Can’t wait another second for a blissful birth?Register Now
Women the world over are rediscovering how to birth ecstatically.
You can be one of them.
YOUR ORGASMIC INVESTMENT
KEYS TO A HOLISTIC PREGNANCY
AND BLISSFUL BIRTH:
You receive gorgeous HD videos, downloadable audio, transcripts and “homeplay” in which I share the knowledge and wisdom I have accumulated in 30 years of study.
Each of these salons individually would run at a cost of $997- per person. $5982 value..
Weekly Support from Me:
Ask me anything during our Q+A calls
Total Value $13,982
Amanda’s orgasm prep served her well in her birth:
“The biggest orgasm of my life!”
"KIM IS A TOTAL ROCK STAR AND A TOUR DE FORCE OF ALL THINGS SEXUAL." Read More >
Her stuff is truly a notch above anything I've seen.
~ Dr. Christiane Northrup, OBGYN
"By far the most extensive mind, body, spirit and vagina training I have ever done!" Read More >
My midwife said I had a superstar vagina and my birth was so beautiful and gentle!
I took Vaginal Kung Fu while I was pregnant. I had been working with the jade yoni egg for many years previously and what I learned from Kim Anami was profound! By the time I was fully dilated and ready to push, I knew exactly what to do from all the jade egg training—I was able to catch my baby in only a few pushes and ZERO TEARS!!
Now working with the techniques and practices postpartum I am able to restore tone and lubricate my vagina. I have high energy, a juicy sex life and am manifesting some big scores.
~ ALILA ROSE GRACE
Alila Grace, Founder Sacred Cycle and Mahina Cup, Hawaii
“I just gave birth at home to my first child in a beautiful labour.
No anesthesia and not a single knick or tear. The labour itself lasted less than five hours. It was wild, intense, and there was pain but I dove into it and transformed it into power. I’m recovering so well and fast, in love with my baby, my partner and the whole process.”
~ Sofia, Dancer. Brazil.
I work in the holistic fertility realm in NYC and I recommend Kim’s work to all of my patients.
I counsel women who want to get pregnant, are pregnant and in post pregnancy—women’s health in general. This work is relevant to all.
Women are often out of touch with their bodies and spirits. It’s one thing to tell someone to align themselves. It’s another to actually give them the tools to do that.
~ Jennifer Weymorth, Fertility Coach. NYC.
Women doin’ it for themselves.
In early 2015, I embarked upon a global campaign to raise vaginal awareness and to inspire vaginas around the world to inhabit their true power. I logged my journey on Instagram, using the hashtag, #thingsiliftwithmyvagina.
My vagina has since made headlines worldwide, featured everywhere from The Sunday Times to Oprah Magazine to CNN to NPR. It has lifted everything from green coconuts in Bali to Murano glass chandeliers in Venice, Italy to a piece of the Berlin Wall, at the Berlin Wall in Germany.
We’ve had quite the global journey, educating and revolutionizing the baseline of what every “normal” vagina can do: have vaginal—G-Spot and cervical—orgasms, be gushing lubricant and ejaculate and have ragingly high libidos.
I’ve spent the last few years working to save and awaken women’s vaginas.
And now I’m coming for your uteruses.
Except that my mission is for you to keep them.
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I have devoted my personal and professional life to sexually empowering women and men all over the planet. Now it’s time to revolutionize women’s experiences of pregnancy and birth.Register Now
The Blissful Birth Bonus Series
More tools for your transformative journey. We continue the pregnancy and birth education most women (and men) have never had.
Bonus Salon 1: Yoni Massage
Learn my step-by-step techniques to give a healing yoni massage to awaken and activate your vagina. Having a sentient vagina means having a connected, conscious birth. Value: $497
Bonus Salon 2: Water Birth
Interview with birth pioneer Elena Tonetti-Vladimirova on the sanctity of natural water birth, her work with limbic imprinting and healing the birth wound. Value: $397
Bonus Salon 3: Infant Microbiome
We now know how important the gut biome is for everything from immunity to mood. Learn how to create the most robust gut flora for your baby with cutting-edge knowledge. Value: $497
Bonus Salon 4: Elimination Communication
Strengthen the intuitive connection with you and your baby through the age-old practice of having your infant express its bodily needs to you. Bye bye diapers and strenuous training! Hello body confidence and freedom. Value: $397
Bonus Salon 5: Postpartum Euphoria
A prescription for preventing the post-baby blues and continuing on your birth high right through your first year and beyond. Value: $397
Bonus Salon 6: Herbs: Nature’s Best Healers
Meet the super-herbs for acute and chronic healing to create your home medicine cabinet. We’ll address issues from conception to breastfeeding to new mama and babyhood. Value: $497
Total Value of the Blissful Birth Bonus Series $2682
Your Investment for Sexy Mama includes lifetime access to:
Six modules with a total of approximately 25-30 videos HD self-study videos
Downloadable audio mp3s
Transcripts of all the material
Weekly Q+A group calls
Plus Bonus Salons:
Blissful Birth Bonus Series on everything from yoni massage to recommended herbs.
If you absorb and apply this information, I know it will make a difference for you in all aspects of your life.
You have to commit to the process.
This is not something you can pay $1000- for and magically tap into your wise, wild and intuitive self.
If you find that after reading, listening and acting on the techniques in this course, you find no shifts in your outlook or experience, I’ll cheerfully refund your money.
In order to do that, I’ll require your written completed homeplay assignments from all of the salons by November 22nd, 2020 at midnight Pacific time. Why? If you do the work, I know you will see change.
That being said, the cultural blocks about free and empowered sensual expression, pregnancy and childbirth are so strong, that it can take months to move through them. It’s important that you prioritize this experience, set aside time daily to focus on it and acknowledge small gains.
The tools you need to shift are all here. You have lifetime access to them, so you can go back and refer to everything multiple times.
Like orgasms (and birth waves!) some are bigger and more life-changing than others. Each one represents a breakthrough and an ascension to a higher level.
I’ll see you there.
I am ready to have a blissful birth!
I understand that my enrollment today includes:
Holistic Pregnancy and Ecstatic Birth HD Video Series, mp3s and transcripts —$5982 value Weekly Coaching from Kim: — $8000 value Multi-Orgasmic Bonus Series — $2682 value
Total Value: $16,664
I understand that my investment is backed by your 100% guarantee, provided I do my homeplay.
Since it’s my life’s work to bring the beauty and joy of blissful birth to as many women as possible, I’m not asking anywhere near that for this program.
** Note: All currency listed is in USD **
I’ll be on vacation for part of this! What if I miss a week or two?
Everything is archived—from the videos to the weekly Q+A calls. Plus, you have lifetime access to all the material to review as much as you like.
You can even send in your questions ahead of time and I’ll answer them on the call. Some people choose to do this anyway—not everyone is as bold as me when it comes to talking about sex!
How much time will I need to devote to this?
I’ve designed this course to be a concentrated download of the best techniques I know. I’d suggest committing four hours a week to focus on watching the videos, writing, exercises and “sex dates”—if only with yourself!
How do I know this is a fit for me? What is your refund policy?
Here we go deeper and fuller.
I KNOW these tools work. They have changed my life and thousands of people I have worked with. If you can prove to me, by submitting the finished product of the work you have done, that you’ve put in the effort and still no results, I’ll refund your money.
Do you offer a payment plan?
What if I’m single?
The habits in this program will help you to experience daily, orgasmic bliss on your own—and you ought to be. Keeping your sexual energy revved up is the key to your happiness, creativity and fertility!
I live in Australia/Dubai/Zimbabwe. Will I be able to participate on the Q+A calls?
All the calls will be recorded and posted on the private members’ site the next day. You can download and listen to them at your leisure.
I'm thinking to be pregnant in the next few years. Do I take this now or wait?
Up to you, but there is a ton of material in this program to dive into. I'd suggest sooner rather than later! Because you have lifetime access, you can revisit the information at any time.