Perimenopause Is a Scam – Transcript
I’ve often said that menopausal women are allopathic medicine’s biggest cash cow.
Turns out, I’m 100% right. As usual.
In the last few years, the “age of menopause” has been magically extended to include women in their 40s, and now even their 30s.
I’ve even spoken with 20-something women who talk about being targeted to start “being aware” of the tragedy that is about to befall them.
I’ve talked about how menopause is a manufactured condition circa 1963, created by an OBGYN called Robert Wilson and his pals at the pharmaceutical giant Pfizer.
Before that, if you speak to your grandmothers, and if you had access to your great-grandmothers, they wouldn’t know what the fuck you are talking about.
Their periods stopped at some point. So what?
With the invention of menopause, a pseudo-condition developed and co-founded and most importantly CO-FUNDED by Wilson and Pfizer.
Wilson was backed/sponsored by big Pharma, to “educate” women about how their lives were about to be over, and the only thing that could save them would be drugs.
Drugs. Every day. Until they died.
So here’s the thing:
The story is that women have a certain amount of hormones and then they run out.
They get old.
And then they die miserable deaths because their bodies forgot to make them there hormones for them.
But fear not! We can sell them to you from the hormone shop.
I’m ALWAYS skeptical of allopathic advice telling people that there’s NO solution to your problem except DRUGS!
Drugs FOREVER!
And of course, cutting out organs in a ritual sacrifice.
The real problem is that women have cut out orgasms.
If the theory is that women’s reproductive hormones are amiss, then I have the perfect solution.
Use them.
Use those fuckers.
Have sex. Have lots of orgasms.
And you—your body—will PRODUCE all the hormones you need.
What always shocks me in the menopause sales pitch is the idea that women’s bodies are so inherently stupid and flawed that they can’t survive without being heavily medicated.
FOREVER.
Doesn’t it make more sense that the solution is actually inside you?
I’ve heard, as part of this narrative, that the reason WHY women need HRT is because we live longer than we used to.
Who told you that?
According to our written history, and that book a lot of people consider to be gospel, we actually lived much longer in the past.
Like hundreds of years longer.
So if that’s the case, then our “hormones” ought to be good for the long haul.
I’ll go through some other contributing factors, but the biggest answer to this epidemic is:
WELL-FUCKED WOMEN DO NOT GET MENOPAUSE.
Or at least, they don’t get this laundry list of symptoms women are brainwashed to believe is a normal part of their existence from age 40, or even 30 onward.
In Anami Land, well-fucked women—including me—are orgasming, lubricating and ejaculating their way through these supposedly oh-so-tragic years.
No symptoms.
No hot flashes.
No “dryness”.
No “brain fog”.
No sleepless nights—well, correction, we do have sleepless nights but that’s from another kind of hot.
The hot sex that would actually heal these women.
Well-fucked women generate their own pleasure hormones, which EASILY wipe out hormones like cortisol, that often steal from the reproductive hormones if a woman is living in a state of perpetual stress.
And her sex hormones are being built from within.
That’s it.
There isn’t some finite supply that women suddenly deplete and now have to buy at the store.
I’ve got all the well-fucked, HRT-free women in Anami Land to prove it.
These women either go through these transitions with no exogenous hormones or they go off them.
And if they are getting well-fucked, they don’t get any return of or experience of these “menopause symptoms”.
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So what’s happening to these women in their 40s and possibly even their 30s?
Why are they suffering so much?
Apart from being severely underfucked—and I guarantee that every single one of them is—let’s see what else is going on.
Why is it so easy to convince these women that their bodies are perpetually broken?
In a sense, they are.
Because of what they’ve done and let be done to them.
1) Women have been on hormonal birth control since they were teenagers.
They’ve been put on it—sometimes before even getting their periods.
First off, hormonal birth control—according to the WHO—is a Group 1 carcinogen.
Which places it in the same category as radium and asbestos.
So why doctors continue to prescribe a known carcinogen is beyond me.
In addition to the danger of these drugs, is the impact of interfering with a woman’s natural hormonal flow.
It takes about two years for a woman’ cycle to establish itself.
WITHOUT the influence of these exogenous substances.
How could her hormones EVER learn to function properly if they’ve NEVER had to??
They don’t.
So girls get on the Pill.
They NEVER experience a natural cycle and their hormones never have to work properly because they’ve always been overridden with with fake ones.
At some point, they go off The Pill, like when they try to have a baby.
And they can’t get pregnant.
Shocker.
Their bodies know nothing about making reproductive hormones because… they’ve never made them.
So they do IVF, which further fucks with their hormones.
Let’s say they manage to have a test tube baby, or twins, or whatever.
Then they reach the “midlife” window, which could now be in their mid-thirties.
They are having additional “hormonal issues”.
Uh huh.
Again, shocker.
In order to mask the later-in-midlife issues these women are having, who have been taking false hormones since they were teenagers, they’ve coined the term “perimenopause”.
2) Stress.
If a woman is living in acute stress, or has become accustomed to living with chronic stress, these states deplete her reproductive hormones.
Low-level constant stress could be someone who has unresolved trauma they’ve never dealt with.
It could be subsisting in a relationship that has run its course and staying in it anyway.
Any condition that causes a woman to keep her guard up in any way, creates chronic stress.
Unhealed wounds create a low-level stress or even PTSD state.
We use terms these days like “unregulated nervous system”.
When the body, mind and emotions have been carrying a load they’ve never been able to properly discharge, we maladapt to the stress.
I don’t think most people have any idea that their systems are chronically stressed in this way.
And ironically, again, the number one remedy for discharging stress and resetting the nervous system is…..
Orgasms. Deep, soul-nourishing, rebirthing vaginal orgasms.
Your stress hormones “borrow” from your sex hormones.
If you never get a chance to give your stress hormones a rest, you are living in a deficit.
Not only do you develop varying levels of adrenal fatigue, but your entire hormonal system rejigs, trying to compensate for the strained output.
Your reproductive hormones will be the first to go.
Because your body knows that this isn’t a good time to reproduce, number one.
They get begged, borrowed and stolen to fill the gap.
And beautifully, the first thing that oxytocin does in the wake of a deep orgasm?
It floods your system and wipes out cortisol.
Being happily well-fucked is the best anti-stress and nervous system reset there is.
Hands down. Haha.
Nothing beats it.
If you are constantly in some kind of stress, whether its acute, or you’ve become accustomed to living lower-level constant stress, then your body never get the chance to take its focus OFF making stress hormones and ON making your reproductive ones.
3) A lifelong build up of accumulated issues, behavior patterns and emotional toxicity.
The piper always has to be paid.
If a woman is suppressing her true self and hasn’t had a “heal as you go” policy in her life, then she’s got a big pile up of stuff that hits a tipping point.
Whatever kind of hormonal transition happens at this stage for women—which I see simply being a reconfiguration—we have to assume THAT SHE’S BUILT FOR THIS.
It’s not some random mistake that nature forgot—“Omigod we didn’t given women the right hormones for half of their lives!!”
“Good things humans invented some!”
Seriously? Fuck off.
Kind of like God forgetting to cut off baby dicks before boys are born.
“Ooopsidaisie!
Good thing humans have machetes where they can sexually abuse and traumatize little boys for life on the first day of them being born!”
Again, seriously?
Fuck off.
What ought to be a seamless transition in a healthy, well-fucked woman, becomes a tipping point if she doesn’t practice some kind of ongoing emotional hygiene.
She probably already has difficult periods and other reproductive ailments as a result.
This transition and tipping point just pushes things over the edge.
It seems easier to take a magic pill from the “Menopause Fairy” than to roll up your sleeves and take off your pants and do the deep, deep— and by that I mean the cleansing and therapeutic power of cervical orgasms—inner work.
Yes, your vagina and orgasms can heal you.
They are meant to.
Check out my episodes F**king Is Better than Therapy, Season 4, Episode 21, and My Vagina Healed That! Season 6, Episode 6.
Your body is a reflection of your inner state.
If you’ve been neglecting your emotional and spiritual health, that will show up in the holograph of your body as imbalance, symptoms, and pain.
You can either choose to heal.
Or choose a Band-Aid pill that pushes these issues deeper under the surface until they erupt volcanically later.
Or just go fuck yourself and have better orgasms.
Your choice.
4) The programming.
The amount of programming out there, targeting women at ever-earlier stages, is shocking.
Since it’s true that menopausal women are allopathic medicine’s biggest—and most gullible—cash cows, it makes sense that big pill poppers would want to cash in even earlier.
If they can keep this narrative going anywhere and everywhere, weaving into ALL forms of media and hiring actors, doctors and “wellness morons” in shows and on social media to further the cause and keep building the narrative, then they will.
I can’t think of any 50-something actresses who haven’t taken up the HRT torch.
If they’re no longer getting paid to act, then they can get paid to whine about how shitty their lives—and how dry their vaginas are—and how they were saved by HRT.
From Naomi Watts to Halle Berry, Drew Barrymore and even Gwyneth Paltrow, the list goes on.
HRT is their lord and savior.
It’s the new side hustle for the Hollywood Whores of Babylon.
The menopause and perimenopause lie is even getting its own narrative arc in movies and TV.
Going from a time of never hearing about it, to now you can’t stop hearing about it.
I was watching an Apple TV show called Your Friends and Neighbors.
Amanda Peet plays the ex-wife of Jon Hamm.
It’s in its second season and they decided to give Amanda Peet’s character, a 40-something divorced woman, a “perimenopause” story line.
She’s portrayed as suffering from a dry, non-responsive, Dead On Arrival vagina, hot flashes, stupidity, cluelessness and overall being exceptionally cringe and uncouth.
The second episode of the season features a segment that looks like it was scripted directly by a drug company.
It actually names a specific vaginal treatment, and tells us how ‘SAFE” hormone therapy is.
In fact, it’s “totally safe.”
Here’s the excerpt.
Friends and Neighoubrs clip
It gets even better.
Her storyline throughout the entire season involves… are you ready for it?
Literal shit.
In episodes 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6, her main character arc is that she steps in dog shit every day.
I shit you—I kid you not.
Her entire plotline revolves around… shit.
For eight episodes—so far, maybe it’ll be in the finale too—out of nine current episodes, her whole character story is about her relationship to… SHIT.
Excrement.
It’s fucking unbelievable.
In episode 7, she falls into a porta-pottie and wanders around, covered in shit and blue liquid—you know, because we need this metaphor driven home so hard:
Her life is LITERALLY SHIT.
Middle aged women and menopause are shit.
In the shit.
It’s a life of shit.
Daily shit.
Covered in shit.
It’s all SHIT!
And what’s the moral of the story?
It’s that Mel—the character—didn’t take her HRT.
She had refused. And that’s what her life looked like:
TOTAL and complete non-stop SHIT.
The other women around her were taking theirs.
And if only she’d taken it too, then her life ALSO could have been amazing.
But instead?
It’s shit.
Then you contrast that with her ex-husband, a very doughy, fat-looking Jon Hamm, whose having a full rebirth in his mid-life.
He’s banging the hottest MILF in the neighbourhood, and then the hottest billionaire-ess on the yacht, and a not-so-hot, but 25-years-younger underling in his office.
So it’s good times for Jon Hamm.
But shit times for perimenopausal and irritating-as-fuck Amanda Peet.
I can’t even.
So when I talk about programming: THIS is what it looks like.
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A few months ago when I posted on my Instagram about how I don’t take HRT, an onslaught of underfucked orcs swarmed my page, totally offended that I know how to be a woman.
And that I know how to live in a female body.
Without needing drugs.
Just cock.
I talked about this in the episode Underfucked Orcs vs Kim Anami. Season 8 Episode 6.
So these rabid orc NPCs were coming at me, foaming at the mouth, yelling things like:
“Just wait til your vagina falls off!”
“Just wait til your libido is gone!”
Bitch, I haven’t had a period in over 6 years.
My vagina is not only “just fine” but it’s one of the most famous and well-performing vaginas in the world.
So fuck off.
Instead of ever asking what I—and the legions of women who follow my work—might be doing different, they just get mad at me.
Because….
I know how to live in a female body.
More specifically,
I know how to live, love, fuck and orgasm in a female body.
And that’s my secret.
Not only does that balance all of my hormones, constantly generate new ones and all the ones I need, but it also makes me impervious to the kind of programming that makes you hate yourself.
And feel like you are a victim and powerless inhabitant of your own body.
But these NPC orcs are brimming with all the buzzwords and the symptoms.
They know them all, they can recite the whole meno/perimeno playbook by memory.
They’ve created these massive orc gangs, showing each other their hormone patches and their buckets of lube and thinking it’s somehow liberating to constantly talk about how dry their vaginas are.
Instead of all the cool shit they could be putting in their vaginas.
Like cock.
In cock we trust.
In cock I trust, at least.
The whole whine mom/wine mom ethos isn’t liberating.
It’s embarrassing.
And I say that, because they were so easily swindled.
Like a grandma falling for a Nigerian scammer.
They bought the Koolaid and the victim consciousness and the easy way out that isn’t an easy way out.
It’s a detour and a trap.
Instead of claiming their own power, they’ve given every last ounce of it away.
5) The biggest reason—and one that if remedied, could wipe out all the other factors—is that she’s underfucked.
I’ve worked with tens of thousands of women through my programs over the years.
Women have gone off their HRT and had zero symptoms return.
Others have never gone on it.
Why?
When they boost their OWN hormone production through their sexual activity, they have no need for exogenous hormones.
Why would they?
How does it even make any sense that they *would* need that?
You have your very own hormone factory.
It’s called your body.
And specifically, your sexual expression.
If you are having regular—and life-changing—and this second part is VERY important—sex, you WILL NOT NEED DRUGS.
Your arousal and your orgasms will generate it all for you.
But… it has to be the deeper vaginal orgasms.
The inferior, paltry, tip-of-the-iceberg, good-for-a-warmup-but-not-the-main-event clitoral orgasm, is NOT going to take you there.
You get the biggest hormonal and neurotransmitter payload through your vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical.
Massive oxytocin production.
DMT is generated through cervical orgasms.
Also called the “god molecule”.
Vagus nerve regulation happens at the most superior level through cervical orgasms.
Your breathwork and cold plunges don’t even come close.
Cute pastime.
But I’d rate them a 1 out of 10 on the scale of nervous system resets.
You get heart and crown chakra activation through cervical orgasms.
Opening you up emotionally and spiritually.
All this and MORE through having vaginal orgasms.
All of this means a complete hormonal reset, reconfiguration and production factory to the point where women now operate within their own sovereign hormonal ecosystem.
As they’re meant to.
Well-fucked women do not get this manufactured experience of menopause and “peri”menopause.
Nor do they get difficult periods and crazy PMS or cysts and growths or endometriosis or PCOS.
Nope.
They fuck them all away.
Your best healing medicine is accessing your own sexual life force energy.
It’s the cure all.
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Even when women have the other factors: they’ve been on birth control hormones for decades, they’re stressed, they’ve had a build up of unresolved issues—all of this can be remedied through getting well-fucked.
I’ve seen it over and over again for decades.
Nothing heals you faster and harder than going faster and harder in bed.
And slower and softer.
But mainly: You take your medicine every day.
And you go deep.
In Anami Land, the only sex that matters is the gourmet variety.
Where you are all in: emotionally, physically, spiritually.
When ALL parts of you are seen and adored and you get fucked on the most raw, vulnerable, primal level:
THAT is where your healing lives.
You need it fucked out of the depth of your being.
THEN you can heal anything.
And menopause and perimenospaue become exactly what they are: cop-outs for people too terrified of their own beings and what it means to have an orgasm that changes your life.
And have them every day.
Fuck superfoods and breath work and ice baths.
And just fuck instead.
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The Well-Fucked Woman Salon is coming soon.
This is my consummate class for women on how to live, love, orgasm and skip over this manufactured state of “meno”brainwashing.
And instead stay awake all night getting your pussy eaten and seeing god through your ass and your cervix.
Come to kimanami.com/wet and signup for my free video series on vaginal orgasms.
And get on the waitlist to be notified of when we open the Well-Fucked Woman Salon in the next month.
So refreshing to come across another practitioner calling bullshit on the menopause industry. Definitely allopathic medicines biggest cash cows. So convenient to drop every symptom at the foot of plummeting hormones…not your fault and we have the drug that will save your life…you’ve just got to stay on it for the rest of your life!! So glad there are other smart women out there who realise that the female body was not created with a major flaw. Everything is perfect, nature created us exactly the way we’re meant to be. Health…physical, mental and of course sexual will always deliver you from big pharma’s clutches. Keep up the great work Kim!