Sexual Energy is Your Super Fuel
I returned from nearly three weeks on the big island of Hawaii earlier this week. I unplugged from my day-to-day life and work (which meant no blogging either!) to focus on playing hard. This involved plenty of boogie boarding, snorkeling, hiking active volcanoes, flying over them in helicopters (photo below) and reconnecting with family. Sometimes playing hard meant lying in the prone position in a bikini for long periods of time. There was lots of that too.
– Kilauea Crater on the big island of Hawaii
I wrote a piece this month for the website Conscious Divas, to which I’m a monthly contributor, entitled “Sexual Energy is Your Superfuel.” The site is a great resource by women for women who are into personal growth and want to keep things sexy and hip at the same time. I thought this photo of the active crater of Kilauea was apropos to accompany the piece.
What I learned on this trip is that Hawaii is the newest landmass on the planet. The entire island chain has been created through volcanic eruptions. Shortly before we arrived, another eruption took place, wiping out a small village and adding eight metres to the length of the big island as the lava poured into the ocean and hardened.
Our sexual energy is as creative and volatile. It hums and churns inside us, seemingly dormant for long periods of time. Like the volcanic vents, the lava flows until it finds a suitable opening, and then it explodes. This energy cannot be subverted. It has to be directed, harnessed and ultimately used for creating new life. If you aren’t creating babies, then use your sexual energy to uplift yourself and those around you. I’m all for procreative sex.
Here’s an excerpt from the Sexual Energy article:
“We live in a culture that has a bipolar relationship to sex–we see passionate sex exalted everywhere, like advertising, film, music–but we are not encouraged to openly have it and enjoy it. Often people consider sex as an incidental or small part of their committed relationship, when in reality sex is the glue and the turbo-power source that can fuel your entire lives.
It wasn’t always this way. The under-appreciation, that is.
In ancient cultures like pre-Vedic, Tantric India and Taoist China, sex was considered healthy, essential and a means to liberate spiritual energy. Ancient Taoist physicians mapped out sexual reflexology points on the penis and vulva, demonstrating that devoted stimulation of these zones would lead to balanced health. They also prescribed sexual positions to cure different ailments. For example, a woman experiencing kidney depletion would be advised to insert a lot of reverse cowgirl into her regimen. In fact, she’d receive a prescription to do so: Please go home and have sex in that position three times a day for the next thirty days.”
Read the rest of this piece at Conscious Divas.
**Upcoming Events**
One of the Best Kept Secrets to Entrepreneurial and Life Success: Have More Sex.
I’m speaking at the White Rock chapter of Enterprising Mom’s Network on how having more sex will improve your business, your energy level and your home life. As working moms, women typically struggle with balancing it all and inevitably put sex and intimacy at the bottom of their list of priorities. It needs to go near the top. I’ll talk about how to make time for it and prioritize it in your life.
Date: Wednesday, April 6. 7-9pm.
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The Art of Pleasuring a Woman
“A well-fucked woman is a thing of beauty.”
– Kim Anami, “The Multi-Orgasmic Woman,” Playboy, March 2010.
Are you a well-fucked woman? Do you radiate sensuality and do your hips sway with the satisfied swish and bliss of a woman who has been thoroughly, artfully and heartfully fucked?
Men, do you want your woman to be well-fucked? Trust me, you do. We can gauge a how well-fucked a woman is by how she flows in life and gushes sexually. It’s more than worth your while to put the time and effort in to making sure she is satiated, mind, body and soul. Good sex is multi-dimensional fucking. Learn how to penetrate her on every level.
Date: May 6: 7-9pm
Location: Downtown Vancouver. Details upon registration.
Rate: $50- (plus hst) per person. Salon includes organic wine, aphrodisiac truffles and sushi.
Men and women, singles and couples welcome. Attending the salon as a couple gives you a shared vocabulary and better knowledge of each other’s pleasure zones.
More information and registration here.
The Art of Pleasuring a Man
Seduction and what makes men tick–emotionally and physically. Fellatio, deep throat and manual techniques and tutelage for bringing him to his knees. How to fall in love with oral sex, access the male G-Spot and harness your fantasies for greater satisfaction. What every lover of men needs to know.
Date: May 27: 7-9pm
Location: Downtown Vancouver. Details upon registration.
Rate: $50- (plus hst) per person. Salon includes organic wine, aphrodisiac truffles and sushi.
Men and women, singles and couples welcome. Attending the salon as a couple gives you a shared vocabulary and better knowledge of each other’s pleasure zones.
More information and registration here.
