3 Secrets to Cervical Orgasms – Transcript
Three secrets to cervical orgasms, the Holy Grail of female orgasms.
In the hierarchy of orgasms, there is one beauty that reigns supreme. The cervical orgasm! While all of them create a release of some kind and are pleasurable, the cervical orgasm sits atop the Anami hierarchy of orgasms.
At the base, you have the clitoris, the most common of the species. Next up is the G-spot, which is slightly more elusive. Then you have the cervix. Much more rare and deeply powerful.
In Taoist sexual reflexology, the cervix is considered to be the heart point in women. Having these orgasms requires an open heart, and they also further open your heart and emotional self.
They create a massive reset in your nervous system, like the rebooting of a computer. They’re also connected to the vagus nerve, which is considered to be the spiritual nerve of the body, ascending all the way from the cervix up to the crown chakra.
What does a cervical orgasm feel like?
Well, it feels like you’re in this incredible state of bliss and ecstasy that’s a full-body experience. And beyond physical sensations, you feel this emotional cleansing and release. Women often cry when they get to these orgasms, both crying of just releasing tension, trauma, and old stuck energy, and that cry that you get when your heart opens and you’re just so emotional and happy and soft and tender and cracked open. That kind of cry.
All of the above, but generally it’s accompanied by some kind of emotional, spiritual, psycho-type release that goes way beyond the physical. That’s why these are so necessary and life-changing for women. This is your personal growth tool—[laughs]—your own special vaginal toolbox right at your disposal.
These orgasms are essential good-fuck medicine for women.
Here are three secrets to having them:
Surrender.
These aren’t the kinds of orgasms that you can have in a casual sex situation or in a relationship that’s gone stagnant. Your heart needs to be fully open, and your guard needs to be down. This is the price of admission.
You need to feel emotionally safe and fully seen by your partner. If there’s anything blocking you or the relationship, it shows up in your bed. You may have years of unresolved issues, and you might have simply had an argument with your partner that day, and you don’t feel at peace with it yet.
All of these things will contribute. So clear space. If you’re in a relationship with someone and your guard is up, why? [Laughs] If you have things that need to be said to your partner, then say them. These orgasms are beautiful barometers for the vulnerability in your connection, your heart, and your vagina. They do not lie.
De-armoring.
Women carry a lot of stored trauma and tension in the vagina, especially at the cervix. The cervix is the epicenter of femininity in a woman, and it holds her deepest heart and tenderness. Women are often sensitive to the touch or penetration here because there’s lots of emotional tenderness that’s held there as well, and you can release it.
I created a video on yoni massage, and in that video, I talk about how to massage and release tightness in the vagina. You can check out the link for that below this video.
We want to open up these energetic pathways and change their experiences from pain to pleasure.
You can also use a dildo, like the glass ones that I make. This is Anahata [holding up Anahata], and it’s been designed by me for its power in achieving cervical orgasms. It’s good for length. You start with this one to really open up that area, and then you move on to Seva, which is for girth. We often call this the finisher around these parts.
The two of these combined really help you to get to your cervical orgasm potential. Once you’re aroused and lubricated, use the dildo to gently massage deep inside the vagina and the cervical area. As you do, take long, steady, deep breaths, and focus on relaxing any tension.
Tune into opening your vagina. Feel and visualize it opening up like the petals of a flower with each movement of the dildo. This will relax any tension and help you to open more to these orgasms.
Use a yoni egg.
Because they’ve been told, or well, lied to, that the clitoris is “the source” of orgasm, women often don’t bother with their vaginas.
Well, you ought to bother a lot. In fact, you ought to be very hot and bothered. The vagina is where all the good stuff is, yet most women have numb vaginas because they have been neglected.
The jade egg will restore your sensitivity, strength, and lubrication, making cervical orgasms much easier to get to. Your vagina will be in tip-top shape, becoming an orgasm connoisseur.
And if you want to learn all about how to have cervical orgasms, check out my How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman online course. In it, I talk exactly about how to open up the cervix, how to really surrender and let go, as well as the very best sexual positions for cervical orgasm.
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I love it!
Sooooo..Ive been listening, watching, learning for about 3 days! Last night my husband says to me “I’ve never experienced anything like this!” and we’ve only hit the tip (pun intended) of what’s to come! 🙂
Yes. The surrounding area is still imbued with that energy.
Yes, it totally is! The cervix becomes like a phantom limb. The energetic qualities of it are still there.
Hi Kim
I love your views on being a well-fucked woman, and I love the way you explain these concepts in your videos.
I have a question. You said that all women can achieve cervical orgasm, however, I had cervical cancer and had to have my lady parts removed (luckily, I got to keep my ovaries!!). Is it still possible for me to have this type of orgasm then?
I had to have a hysterectomy due to a very large benign tumor which was causing life threatening bleeding. They routinely remove the cervix, so mine is gone. Do you think there are still nerve endings there that relate to cervical stimulation?
That’s amazing about your births! Well, the cervix is the gateway, and if yours is happy and flexible, then all the better!
Thanks for sharing! Wonderful to hear of more women who experience these and how powerful they are. 🙂
I have enjoyed cervical orgasms for many years. The births of my two children were both very quick. The second was so fast, that from first labor pain to birth was barely 20 minutes. Doctors have told me that because of this my cervix entrance “os” is rather large. I have enjoyed my husband stimulating the cervix os during sex once I am suitable aroused for many years, and they are my most intense orgasms. I become extremely vocal during cervix sex, and my husband uses a penis gag on me to lessen the noise.