Confessions of a Supercock MD – Transcript
Confessions of a supercock MD! Supercocks come in all shapes and sizes, from all walks of life and parts of the world and professions. Yes, the mighty supercock can appear anywhere, even in a man who presumed he could never be more than an average cock. But alas! He just didn’t know what he didn’t know was possible!
I have huge respect when people come into my work with an open mind and especially if they have come from a sector of the world where they are trained to think that their way is the only way and everyone else must be burned at the stake as a heretic.
The sector of which I speak is allopathic medicine. In the typical Western medical approach, when it comes to addressing sexual ailments, and pretty much all ailments, there are only really two options: drugs and surgery. That’s it. Have weak erections? Here, take some Viagra. Have a weak libido? Here, take some hormones. Have difficult periods? Here, let’s cut out your uterus, and while we’re at it, your ovaries, and then you can take hormones for the rest of your life. That is like the triple crown OB/GYNs, a two-for-one organ removal surgery and drugs.
My methods are all about getting to the root cause of why someone is experiencing any given symptom and then permanently curing it. Yes, you can.
There are many ways to build a libido, achieve squirting orgasms, and learn to orgasm without ejaculation. I just prefer the natural ones that have long-lasting results. I’m not into snake oil band-aids.
In today’s episode, our All Stars are Paula and Dr. Ryan McWhorter. They live in Alabama, and they have been together for 17 years. He is an integrative physician, and now one of his specialties is treating reproductive issues from a more holistic perspective. They have taken my salons, and he has achieved supercock status, meaning he can have sex for hours and feel like he can run a marathon afterward. He has learned how to orgasm without ejaculating. His cock has grown in, and I quote, “size, length, width, girth,” according to his wife, and it won’t ever go down—which is another direct quote.
Ryan is 52. He is a supercock MD! [Singing] He’s a supercock, supercock; he’s supercocky.
He’s also been applying all of these principles in looking at the patients in his practice. Having that extra deep knowledge of the true source of so much strife and disease, i.e., stuck sexual energy, he’s been able to help people resolve longstanding issues that traditional means could not get to because sexuality is a place they never think to look. It is the missing piece.
Let’s talk to Ryan and Paula about his journey to supercockdom!
***Confessions of a Supercock MD Well-F**ked All Star Interview***
KIM: Welcome, Paula and Ryan! It’s great to have you here.
PAULA: It’s great to be here.
RYAN: We’re glad to be here.
KIM: We wanted to talk to you because I would call you an MD supercock, which is a combination of a supercock who happens to also have a foot in the allopathic profession as a doctor. Some of the stuff that you’ve put together has been a personal and professional journey for you.
Tell us how you got started keying into sex as being the missing piece in your patients and your practice, health, and then in your relationship. What has that journey done for you?
RYAN: Sure. I’ve always loved sex and never really thought of it as a healing modality, you might say. It just took some time. I wasn’t always happy with pills; that led to trying to figure out what makes the body heal itself, because then it does the best job. It has an innate intelligence.
Along the way I ran into some tough patients and did a particular procedure on a patient, and it got her sex life back and was quite amazing. I saw a transformation in her health. We know from research that her immune system actually started improving. The immune system being how you get rid of toxins and any low-grade, chronic infections, or what have you.
I can’t put my finger on exactly why she got tons better, but it was a miraculous change. She and her husband bonded, and it was like she took off. I mean, two years of kind of being stuck, and now she’s fantastic.
I just started looking at that and trying to find ways to help women heal from their toughest pelvic health issues. Some of these women are really, really tough. I mean, they’ve endured and endured, whether it’s pelvic pain or what have you.
They need a way to unwind, and so I got into studying sex, you know, just putting it out there. I’ve studied supplements, Chinese medicine, energy medicine. I’ve studied anything that would make me a better all-around doctor because it’s not about a pill; it’s about what makes the person get better.
When I started studying sexual health, I ran into different names, but ultimately I ran into your name, and I really resonated with how you thought and how you looked at ancient cultures. I believe that older people have a lot to tell us, but ancient cultures have a ton to tell us.
We’re in the Bible Belt, and I don’t know where the rumors got started, but we love sex around here, and we wanted to be better at it, so it was kind of funny when we first signed up. We’ve done several of your courses. When we first signed up, it was a bit of a risk for us. We said, “Is this really for us?” But man, it was life-changing for us and then in how it helped people.
Now, I basically feel empowered to talk about sex with patients. We’ll talk about other types of orgasms or if they’ve ever had one. I never would’ve talked about these things before. I think it’s reported that only 14% of women will talk about any sexual health issues with their physicians in a lifetime. So 86% of the time—nothing. Their whole lives. Even with their OB, or like me, their family practice doctor.
Anyhow, it just made me comfortable with that. Ten percent of women have anorgasmia, meaning they’ve never had an orgasm. That’s one of our favorite things to help with.
It made me comfortable talking about it, and it even helped me and Paula talk about it. Paula, my wife—I always thought we had a great sex life.
PAULA: Me too.
RYAN: She’ll tell you it was good too, but we just didn’t know there were more levels. Like video games, you unlock new rooms, new rooms, and it just gets better and better. [Laughs] We had no idea. We just were having fun, and next thing you know, you unleashed a whole new world on us, and we’re ever grateful.
Which is why we want to do this. We’re not really ones to go out and brag or whatever, but we really feel like missionaries in this deal to let people know it’s safe to talk about sex; it’s safe to talk about self-pleasure. Gosh, we were designed to have infinite pleasure, and you’ve shown us a way. I don’t know if anybody could’ve shown us as you have. So we’re happy to be here and happy to tell more of our story.
KIM: I love all of this, and thank you. And I especially love the way you describe where you are and how you’ve become missionaries. I love that! Missionaries. It’s wonderful because I’ve noticed you will comment on my Instagram when people say, “Oh, what about this?” You’ll pipe up to say, “Listen, let me tell you…” [Laughs] I love it!
RYAN: Get off the fence. Those women that won’t get off the fence, I just want to write and write and write and tell them what I know, so maybe they’ll hear this.
KIM: Amazing. I talk about people having three-hour sex dates. Tell me your story with that, because you have a funny way of telling your journey.
RYAN: Oh yes. We had some fun fooling around and taking our time, and that was always important to us. But when you said a three-hour sex date, we looked at each other and said, “What?”
PAULA: What can we do for three hours? [Laughs]
RYAN: We didn’t know what you do for three hours, really. We have five children, ages 15 to 6, and so we didn’t know if we could get three hours alone at the house. So we decided to get a hotel up the road, and we thought we’d get one near the movies, so in case it didn’t last three hours, we could at least watch a movie.
KIM: [Laughs] And how did that go for you?
RYAN: It went a couple of hours, and then I think I started doing some work or something. [Laughs] But it went well, and that was our first. Now we don’t think three hours is enough, and that’s hard to believe, but it’s true.
PAULA: That’s right.
KIM: Amazing. Tell me about your journey in terms of your ability to last longer and choose your ejaculation. How did that go for you?
RYAN: Well, I’d heard before that you could separate the two. I had mentally tried to do it, but it just wasn’t happening. I just thought it was too fun for me, and they were going off at the same time, and that’s just all there was to it.
But I’m not a quitter, and so when you re-encouraged us, I said, “You know what? I’m going to do it this time.” I just really intentionally started practicing some of the techniques you talk about, and it got better and better and longer, and soon I wasn’t collapsing after sex. It wasn’t just stress relief. I have a pretty stressful job, lots of things coming in, lots of information. On the weekend, we’d slow way down, but during the week, it was like that. But with the techniques, I just kept lasting longer and longer.
I remember playing with that edge, as you might say, failing a lot, but playing with that edge, and then—
PAULA: I don’t think he fails at all anymore.
RYAN: They really are separate. I know people are listening to this and saying, “Man, come on,” but I’m telling you, they’re separate. You can absolutely separate them. The other day, we went about three hours, and we were interrupted. I don’t know what was going on. I had not ejaculated at that point, and I didn’t even care. And I can’t imagine the old self not caring, but I didn’t have blue balls or whatever. [Laughs] By the way, it really trips me out medically that Paula and I waited to have sex before we got married. That was a problem. But it’s not a problem anymore, and I don’t know how that is, but something about energy really is moving, and there’s not that buildup of “I got to go, I got to go,” or whatever. I don’t even think about that. I’m just thinking about her.
You can explain it better than us. We’re kind of rookies. We haven’t been missionaries for long, maybe a year or so. But I do see the people on Instagram, and I do love chiming in to say, “Hey, do it. Just do it.” You’re going to blow money on a whole lot of other stupid stuff, and this is the most fun you can have on Earth! Correct me if I’m wrong, but it’s not surfing, is it? I mean, surfing is fun; our daughter did it this past weekend, and it was fun, but it’s not like our sex life.
KIM: They’re both amazing, surfing and transcendent sex. But it just takes focus and discipline to put your effort and attention on these things, and they happen. There’s a reason why I teach them, and people have repeated success if they actually put their attention on them.
But I think you mentioned a key thing. A lot of times, especially for men, when we talk about having much longer sex sessions, breathing, and then separating orgasm from ejaculation, it’s usually a concept that they mentally can’t wrap their heads around. “Orgasm is so amazing. Coming is so amazing. Why would I want to change anything?” You said, “No, you are experiencing 1/10th of what’s really possible.”
RYAN: 1/10th, that’s right.
KIM: Yeah! Here’s where you can go, if you’re willing to just take the chance and put some effort in.
It’s hard to believe that after having three hours of sex and not ejaculating, you don’t have blue balls, but you’re right; it’s all about recirculating and moving that energy in the body. Most people just dump that energy out of their system, and they feel exhausted after sex, and then if somebody learns how to breathe and recirculate that energy in their body, they can go for hours and hours and feel high. They get high. I always say, if you want to get high, have more sex, but it’s the right kind of sex. It’s this method of taking that energy and reviving it, recirculating it in the body rather than just ejecting it out of somebody’s system, which usually leads to them passing out.
PAULA: That’s one thing that I’ve really enjoyed; we’ve always had a great relationship. We’ve always had good sex, but after sex, he would always go to sleep because he was exhausted. Now, after three hours, he’s still awake. He’s not tired.
RYAN: Until the next day at work.
PAULA: He has so much energy.
KIM: Yeah, that’s amazing. And I think that’s a really common thing for women; 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes. We are talking about the majority of men who just pump, dump, and slump. Then they pass out.
RYAN: It’s like a sneeze.
KIM: Yeah, it’s like a sneeze; it’s over. The woman hasn’t even gotten to level one of arousal, and her man’s already gone. Yeah, a woman is going to feel abandoned and eventually frustrated and then start talking about all the other things that she needs to do that take the place of having sex. Like watching television or cleaning the house. “I have a low libido.” Low libido is just translation for, “I’m not interested in having sex with you when you come in three minutes.”
That’s the typical guise for low libido.
I love hearing your journey into having much, much longer marathon sex dates. What’s a relationship you see between your patients and bringing the sexual piece into their lives? Are there any other stories you could tell us? As a practitioner or a doctor, I’m sure it’s an area that you’re not really taught about in this way, where it’s an important piece of health. I mean, a lot of the allopathic system isn’t really getting to root cause issues; it’s treating people with band-aids that are pharmaceuticals or surgical procedures that aren’t really getting to the root cause. I would say that sex is a huge root cause for many, many, many people that never even has that association made with it.
Even people who work as sex therapists won’t make the connection between somebody’s sex life and their work life or their home life or the life of their children, or their financial life, or their health. They won’t see any connection between having problems in their sex life and somebody who’s got difficult periods or cysts growing or premature ejaculation. They won’t see any of that relationship, where I see all of that relationship. I say it’s all connected.
How has having more of that framework helped you with your patients?
RYAN: There’s no question it’s huge. I’m proud of my education. I feel like they taught us a lot in four years and in residency. Even on a pelvic exam, the fact that the muscles can be so tight, and a woman can just be unable to conceive or unable to even consummate her marriage. Those are the kinds of things we see frequently.
What I learned about sex was just a small thing, but now I call this the Anami training, and we always talk about you. I’ve had to go to the physical therapy world, like the pelvic guru and those types of groups, to learn more about really how to document an exam.
Paula and I had two years of infertility, and we were trying hard, I promise you, and something just wasn’t right. So we started really practicing what I preached and really looking at inflammatory diets and sleep quality and things like that, and the next thing you know…By the way, we found out in that process that she has half a uterus, so pretty disadvantaged, I would think, from a fertility place. But when we started having kids, we couldn’t stop; we had five, two while on birth control pills, and they were just coming all the time.
We’re always talking about how to get the pelvis moving, get the metabolism up, get the blood flow in and out, get things circulating. But each cell of our body, every cell, toenail cells, hair cells, vaginal cells, has a nerve that says run for your life or freeze. The other nerve says relax, repair, uptake nutrients, digest, make stomach acid, and enjoy. You can stimulate those most significantly with a good sex life.
Our goal is to get the pelvis going. I believe—I’ve never read this, so maybe you can validate this—the best way to get a stressed human to relax is great, slow sex. The problem is, you’ve got to relax to really enjoy slow sex, and some people are too stressed to have sex. That’s the kind of person that will come see me, and they just have zero sex drive. They’re pretty much wide open, and they have no brake. A foot is always on the gas; it’s never on the brake. I think yoga lasts a couple of days; outdoor activity lasts a day. We encourage all those, and then something that just gets you still. Drinking coffee on your porch or hot tea or whatever. You’ve got to do something that tells your body it’s okay to stop and apply the brake a little bit so those cells can heal, so they can take up the B12 and the B9 and all that stuff and start working better. Then your brain is clear, your mind is better, your energy is better. You can circle your neighbors in energy.
I know you talk about this in your salons; in the plateau phase is when you’re making nitric oxide and oxytocin and really producing those hormones of attraction and bonding, but also energizing.
Nitric oxide is tied to your immune system, and I was telling you about that girl who got better because her immune system got better, because she started having great sex. After that, it was pretty much off to the races of well, how good can it get? That’s where you step in and tell us, my gosh, you can go up and up and up, and you can have this whole-body, multi-orgasmic male. It really sounded like you were speaking another language, but I’m sure glad you did. I’m sure glad we “bought in” or signed up. We hesitated at first.
KIM: I love what you said about the slow sex. I talk about building and plateauing, building and plateauing, instead of this really steep incline and then a steep decline, which most people associate with their sexual experience. I talk about more of this expanded, Tantric-style, spreading out of that energy, where you’re not just having this mad race to the finish line, but you’re meandering along the way.
As we do that, we’re practicing certain techniques to recirculate that energy, and then the end result is that we feel revitalized after sex. You’re saying that even on the neurotransmitter hormonal level, you see that happening; there’s this chance to build this chemistry in the body that’s beneficial for us, correct?
RYAN: That is correct. I’ve got this guy who always comes in for IVs. He’ll drink and will have these terrible hangovers, and it might’ve been one of your salons where you said that if you have great sex, your hangovers will go away. And he actually tried that and it worked. [Laughs] I just find that awesome. His body is able to detox better now because he’s able to get out of that “Oh my gosh, I almost killed myself last night” mode, so the body stayed in fight or flight.
By the way, that’s what’s up with a lot of pelvic health issues. That pelvis is stuck, as it were, in the fight or flight. It can’t swing to the other side to just open up and relax and be receptive, and that’s just so hard for women a lot of times. They say the brain is the biggest sex organ for a woman—and they just can’t turn that off. But they’ve got to find a way. Go for a walk or walk together; that’s a good way to kind of rekindle. It’s a tip I give people that rekindles the juice a little bit.
KIM: Right. The plateau and the building past that and really staying connected, all of that stuff is really essential to powerful sex.
What other growth things did you see in yourself and your relationship through applying yourself in doing this work?
RYAN: One of my wife’s favorite shows is Outlander. The character in there, Jamie, is very passionate. Very, almost, not aggressive, but—
PAULA: Masculine.
RYAN: Very masculine and really pursues—what’s her name?
PAULA: Claire.
RYAN: Claire. I know that resonated with Paula, and Kim, you talk about that polarity, instead of just being the stressed-out guy who is into his wife, but more into that really physical, almost animalistic…I don’t know what the right word is…
KIM: Primal.
RYAN: Primal, yeah, that’s the word. I’m a hunter, and I’ve seen every animal in the world do it, from butterflies to turtles to deer, and it is always passionate. You don’t miss it. When my kids were with me, they said, “What is going on over there?” [Laughs] It’s real and it’s energetic and you don’t miss it and if the orgasms in the animal world are wild, why are ours not? Whether it’s headboards and pulling hair or whatever [laughs]—I can’t believe I’m saying this—it’s really the expression of passions.
We’ve been married 17 years, 18 years, so it is not old; it gets better and better. I get calls from 20-year-olds who have erectile dysfunction. Then you contrast that with 85-year-old people with chronic medical problems. Let’s say heart disease, kidney failure, lung disease…they still think about sex.
I once had a patient who was 99; he had two sons with him. They were in their seventies, and they accompanied him to my visit, and on that visit, he wanted Viagra. He was 99. He didn’t need it when he was 98. Isn’t that crazy?
Now you have 20-year-olds, and I think pornography is a big issue. There was a study—I think it was the Indiana study, the really big one—16% of 20-year-olds, something like that, don’t even self-pleasure anymore. When I was growing up, I think it was 100%.
There are big changes. We know testosterone has dropped 40% in 40 years.
KIM: What?
RYAN: I was a teenager 40 years ago, so a 40% drop in 40 years is a real change. So that means a woman will sometimes not have any sex drive. That means men may rather just go to sleep. That’s changing. And that’s bad. It’s all fixable. There are just various ways you can bring the body back, but you can’t do it by doing what they’re doing. It’s not going to get better.
People feel like their body has failed them, and then they also feel that they’re kind of put out to pasture. Dang, they’re my age—they’re 52 years old, Paula’s age; she’s 48 or so; how can that be when you have a guy who is 99 who needs Viagra? We want to be that guy. We want to be that couple.
KIM: Absolutely! That’s astonishing. A 40% drop over the last 40 years. What you’re saying is fascinating, and in women, that could show up as a total lack of sex drive.
I don’t know if you listened to my video podcast last week with Ian Smith; we were talking a lot about masculine energy and the loss of testosterone. We were talking about it more from a demonstrative but energetic aspect, where you’re validating that from a measurable, hormonal perspective. But that’s crazy.
RYAN: It’s true, it’s true. I loved that. I caught it last night. I loved that story, by the way. Fantastic. More power to him. I want to send him money.
KIM: Yeah, me too. Absolutely.
Is there anything else you want to share about breakthroughs? I’m calling you the MD supercock because of the experiences that you’ve had and the breakthroughs. You talked about using your cock as a wand of light. Tell me more about the cock growth and cock expansion that you’ve had through these practices.
RYAN: Yes. It will grow. I don’t know how; I just know it can.
PAULA: This is true.
RYAN: You tell them, Paula. You tell them. I don’t want to talk about it.
KIM: You tell them! [Laughs]
PAULA: I don’t know how it happened, but it’s bigger, wider, longer, lasts forever. It really is amazing.
KIM: I hear that you’re quite the lingam massage provider.
PAULA: [Laughs] Yes.
RYAN: Listen, that’s worth the money right there, for real.
[Laughter]
That was worth the price right there, just the lingam massage, but it’s amazing how many levels there are of pleasure. I really believe those are gifts to us, and they need to be explored. I don’t know how we got so bad at sex. I’m not saying everybody is bad, but I felt like we were pretty good compared to our friends or what have you. Pretty active. I thought it was good, and it was good, and it was consistent. But it was not fantastic, and now it’s fantastic. Now it’s sizzling.
We’re old people; we’re 52, and some people are quitting now. Some people will come see me, and they’ll say, “It’s too late for me, isn’t it?” And they’re 40! Oh man; come on, dude!
It’s almost endless. We’re fairly new at this. Everything we’ve done has worked, and gosh, it’s better. I think there’s just more we’re looking forward to, honestly. I just feel like we’re unlocking video game levels. I don’t know where the top will come, but I have women tell me they’ll have lubrication that runs down their legs. I’ve heard you mention that. We hear that. They want to have sex twice a day, and that’s not somebody I’m putting on testosterone or anything. They’re just telling me their brains are going that way, and they are truly receptive and looking forward to it.
I don’t know what the world is like, but I do know the average woman is not talking like that.
KIM: Yeah. I think what you guys were saying is that people don’t know what they don’t know. You hear me talk a lot about the dominant conditioning out there that really tries to remove people from their sexual energy and their sexual selves. Once people start lifting the veil on that and applying themselves to study what’s possible, then yeah, the sky’s the limit. There’s so much there for them to learn and grow with.
The way that you describe your journey and how you’ve achieved all that you have, like you still feel there’s so much more to go—that’s the spirit. But I think for most people, like you said, it’s kind of a closed book, by the time they hit middle age, whatever that is, forties or fifties, they feel a lack of libido, and whatever combination of things have contributed to that, and they just buy into this narrative that they’re done. Yet they can be age 99 and still be raring to go.
RYAN: Yeah, when he said that, I looked over at the two sons, because they barely could drive—
KIM: But he could fuck. [Laughs]
RYAN: [Laughs] Yeah! So he needed them to go to the pharmacy. And it wasn’t for them; they were my patients too, so they could ask for it. When he said that, they looked at each other, and their eyes got huge, and they said, “What?”
KIM: Wow, that’s amazing.
RYAN: I was just reminded of something. I got my start in alternative medicine when I lost a father figure. In fact, he was 52. He died of a heart attack—long story short, it was about inflammation. People who have sex twice a week have 50% fewer heart attacks. That is a huge number. You’re changing whether the blood clots or not. But guess what? Those cells have nerve endings that can repair and be smooth rolling, or they can be sticky and clumpy. You turn that on or off whether you’re in fight or flight—we call it parasympathetic —but it’s that relaxed state. Just sitting in the rocking chair, sitting by the pool with an umbrella drink, on vacation. The opposite of the kids crying, or burning the food or whatever, or that bad phone call you didn’t want to get.
All those things put us in that mood, but we’re learning that our foods, our stressors, our Wi-Fi, our cell phones, our lack of outdoor exposure, our connection to the earth, are credible, but NASA has taught us what the human body has to go through when it’s not connected. Outdoor activities are a big thing. The quality of our sleep and whether it’s cool and dark; those things are affecting our cell biology as well.
I can go on and on; I just love talking about it, but I know that people can do better. The people are stuck. Don’t be hopeless. I mean, gosh, we see 70- and 80-year-olds rekindle something when they haven’t had sex in 20 years. Men too. It’s more difficult for men at that stage, so don’t wait forever; it’s not getting any better, but 80-year-old sex is happening. They’re out there.
KIM: Well, wonderful! Is there anything else that you’d like to add?
RYAN: There’s so much hope. I feel like the people on the fence, if you’re even close to the fence, just do it. Just do it. Sign up. I’m not saying necessarily for mastery, but do that for the guys. It will help you with your wives.
Our relationship has grown in reaching all the levels of the Orgasmapedia, and we’re much more communicative. I mean, we just talk about things that for some reason before, we just didn’t. Even though our relationship was good, we didn’t talk about those things. That’s really why we’re trying to spread the word and be missionaries about the whole process. So people know it and can get better and better.
KIM: Fantastic. Thank you so much.
RYAN: You’re very welcome. It’s our pleasure.
KIM: Another supercock unleashed onto the world. If you want to harness your own supercock self, then check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon. This is my eight-week signature program—how to live, love, and fuck in a male body—and it’s open for registration now. In this online program, you will learn all of the skills that Ryan was talking about, from mad stamina skills to cock-lengthening and strengthening techniques, to the full Orgasmapedia of female pleasure.
You can sign up at my website, KimAnami.com. Look for Sexual Savant Salons and then Sexual Mastery for Men. Are you coming?
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