Anami Land private membership community coming soon!

“The only good company is the company of one’s equals”

~ Nietsche

Why would you want to be here?

  • Embracing the Anami philosophy of “There’s always another level to go” We want to keep learning and growing in our relationship and in our entire lives
  • Our intimate relationship is our superpower and we want to build our lives around it
  • We want to be in a community of like-minded people, focused on growth and elevate each other
  • Interested in diving deeper into all things holistic, sensual, radical self-responsibility and self-actualization = how do we become the best versions of ourselves?
  • Want true, genuine community.
  • To make well-f**ked friends and companions
  • To meet an Anami-trained partner

Who is going to be here?

  • All stars, salon members and those devoted to the Anami philosophy. People committed to truth and evolution as a way of life:
  • Well-f**ked fuckers who don’t give a fuck, but give all their fucks to their sacred relationships and friendships
  • People devoted to “doing the work” and the play. We realize that growth is an ongoing journey and are always looking for ways to uplevel
  • Movers and shakers and change-makers
  • Maybe you haven’t achieved “elite well-fucked all star” status *yet* but these are your goals. All are welcome who aspire to life a well-fucked life.

What will we do? What will we learn?

Even though people have dramatic breakthroughs and transformations in the salons, they often need more time to process all of their changes. And to sustain them. 

Anami Land is a space where you can keep growing and practicing what you’ve learned, immersed in an environment with a more gentle pace than the salons. 

The salons are densely packed with information—that you can refer to as a xxx library for life, going back to again and again. 

Some people need significant integration time extending beyond the 10 weeks of the salons. This space exists for that, to still receive guidance and support and be able to move through the material at your own pace. 

For those newer to Anami Land, this is a gentle foray into our world. You’ll be introduced to all things Anami and xxxxxx

 

How will you benefit?

  • Well-fucked network.
  • Well-fucked friends
  • Meet an Anami-trained life partner
  • The learning keeps going. Our students and all stars are hungry for more: “always another level to go”
  • Anami principles become a way of life
  • You are the product of the people you surround yourself with Anami way of life: higher perspective. In everything. Going for more. Elite status. Excellence in everything.
  • Redefined expectations on what is normal. No muggle standards. Only superhuman ones.
  • Anami-adjacent learning. How to be fit asf. How to be hot asf. How to be ageless and in optimal health.

If you’ve checked even one of these,
I created the Coming Together salon specifically for you.

 

WHAT AM I MOST FAMOUS FOR?

Being the best and hottest sexologist in the world.

Producing more well-f**ked couples in my programs than anyone or anything out there.

Also: lifting a surfboard at Venice Beach and a chandelier in the Piazza San Marco in Venice. With my vagina.

It is my assertion that the normal, healthy baseline for every couple is to have daily orgasms, ejaculate across the room, ravenous libidos, weekly three-hour sex dates and become multi-millionaires from the power of their sexual connection.

At ANY age and stage of their lives.

Yes, this is normal. Every couple can.

 

 

We all need more juicy, passionate, heart-opening, kitchen-counter toppling, mind-obliterating sex

Most couples are not coming together. Some couples are not coming at all

Not emotionally. Not sexually.

We live in a culture where over 50% of marriages end in divorce.

Only one third of women ever orgasm during sex.

My work: all about coming together: emotionally + sexually. Multiple times.

Everyone ought to be on a diet of rich, deep, fulfilling, powerful, soul-food sex. Yet, few people are.

Most people subsist on a steady diet of fast-food sex that is neither fulfilling nor nourishing.

Like any poor diet, the effects build up over time.

A lack of gourmet sex and intimacy leads to everything from lethargy, depression, anger, weight gain and physical ailments. Women lose their reproductive organs, men are saddled with “erectile” and prostate issues; all the result of stuck sexual energy.

Sex is the glue.

If you aren’t using it as this superfuel, I guarantee that you are underperforming in every area of your life.

When our intimate relationship is thriving, other parts of our lives thrive.

 

Who is this for?

  • Anami salon alumni
  • Anami neophytes
  • Looking for your next steps in the Anami universe
  • You are excited about and prioritize conscious growth and evolution

Who is this NOT for?

  • Looking for intensive 1+1 coaching and support
  • If you aren’t self-sufficient enough to be within the container - active trauam, very trigger-happy
  • Ultra woke and PC
  • Whiners and excuse makers
  • Non-monagamous couples and singles. You are welcome to be in the space, but the tenets here are exclusively centered around the Anami philosophy of Conscious Monogamy. We’re not looking for debates, nor should you be looking for play partners in this space.

When you become well-f**ked,
everything in your lives changes.

F**K YES, WE'RE IN

Kim Anami is the sex guru
we need right now

I’ve always been rather sex-savvy, and so most “sexperts” have absolutely nothing to teach me that I don’t already know… but Kim takes the power of sexuality to a completely different level, inspiring even the most knowledgeable women to reach erotic potential beyond their wildest dreams. What she has to teach makes all other modern sex advice out there seem archaic.

Dita Von Teese
Queen of Burlesque, Model, Entrepreneur

My fave sexual health influencer! Badass!

Dave Asprey

NY Times bestselling author, founder of Bulletproof and biohacker extraordinaire.

Salon Syllabus

Salon 1 × Sexual and Relationship Feng Shui

  • Learn how to give a skilled and healing yoni and lingam massages to each other, using therapeutic massage techniques and genital acupressure secrets.
  • How to clear space, openly communicate and have the tough conversations in your relationship
  • How to identify blockages that are keeping you stuck, and clear them
  • Be guided step by step in my master techniques to release old patterns and sabotage mechanisms
  • Clear tools to disarm your defenses and open to vulnerability and love
  • Why most couples never hit the point of “life-changing” sex and how you can
  • Talking and f**king: how to keep the “conversation” going in bed

Salon released: April 16th

He can orgasm without ejaculation and last for hours

“I went from one orgasm after about 10 min of penetration, to multiple orgasms per session—as many as I want! 10, 15?...I lose count.”

×××

Steve

Salon 2 × How to Create a Conscious Relationship

  • Step-by-step instructions to create your own sexual manifesto and conscious relationship intentions
  • How to use your intimate relationship as a powerful tool for growth and self-actualization
  • The #1 mistake you can make in intimate relationships and how to correct it
  • Learn how to bring your weaknesses and “dark side” into the light to be illuminated and transformed
  • The most important secret you MUST, MUST, MUST embrace in order to create lifelong, passionate sex
  • The biggest secret to using sexual taboo to enliven your relationship
  • How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeat again

Salon released: April 23rd

She has multiple vaginal orgasms

"I’ve had so many emotional releases from having deep, cervical orgasms! Oh I also have become a SQUIRTER!!!"

×××

Kookie

Integration Week

Integrate what you have learned thus far in the salon.

Salon released: April 30th

Well-F**ked All Stars

Featured on Kim's Orgasmic Enlightenment Podcast

How to f**k your woman into oblivion

We used to watch porn in separate bedrooms on opposite sides of the house. We nearly divorced. Now, we have sex almost daily and people think we are newlyweds because we can't keep our hands off each other.

~ Jim and Meg

72 hours of almost nonstop making love

Three hours at a time: in the spa, on the balcony, on the side of the road, in the bushes. Literally mind-blowing what we came back to our lives with.

~ Mark and Amanda

F**K YES! I'M IN

What is the format?

Anami Land is not a dictatorship. It may have a queen, but she is benevolent. Merit and EARNING power is celebrated here. So we have all-stars and high performing members also leading the charge.

  • Open forums for connecting worldwide in our private members area

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  • Alumni salon subgroups for ongoing study and connection

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  • Monthly masterclasses/case studies/guided healing sessions/visualizations with Kim

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  • Monthly group healing sessions led by Anami-endorsed guides

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  • Monthly live coaching and “Ask me anything” sessions with Kim

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  • Anami-curated or Kim-curated products, experiences, places, concepts I’m loving right now

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  • Weekly community breakout calls

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  • Dating xxxx - how to frame this exactly?

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  • Singles mixers virtually and in-person

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  • In-person workshops

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  • In-person dance parties

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  • Anami dinner parties

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Total Value of the Multi-Orgasmic Bonus Series $2232

Enter Anami Land

Once you hit the upper echelons of Anami Land, you find that the air gets more rarified.

You have less people who can understand and who hold the values for: 

  • Your pursuit of excellence
  • What it means to live a well-fucked life
  • All the orgasms and wet sheets you go through in a day

Our members and community tend to self-select for drive, excellence, a bit of a contrarian edge (or a lot of one), and seeking out holistic and alternative solutions. They are often sophisticated and worldly. Combine that with being well-f**ked geniuses, and they are often starved for companionship. 

I know I am!! Hahahahha.

***A bit of story from me – why create this? For them and even for me. I want/need it too! The Anami retreats have become the stuff of legends. This keeps it all going. 

What is it? 

  • An online gathering place for the upper echelons of the Anami elite. 
  • People who embrace the Anami way of life 
  • Through doing the salons, listening to the public podcasts and videos 

Living the well-fucked life – DEFINE and PICTURE WHAT THIS IS

REGISTER TODAY

Did I get that amazing job offer because of the cataclysmic sex we had last night?

Barbara and Paul

Kristen Kalp

Listening to Kim is like reading 14 books, 3 how-to manuals, and the entire Shades of Gray trilogy.

We’re having sex three times as often and feeling more loving and less stressed about sex in general. Amazeballs. Taking the salon is like having a sex ninja at your service.

Kristen Kalp, Brand Strategist, Texas

Learned to orgasm without ejaculation in two weeks.

We went from 10-minute encounters to 10-15 orgasms in a row with 3+ hour sessions. We're more in love than when we first met. She has multiple cervical orgasms. I feel like I can take on the world as long as she's holding my hand.

Steve

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Before Coming Together, I was a raging bitch.

My husband went through this process with me. Now, if I even go into that realm, he’s like: “We’re going to have sex until you come multiple times.” It’s what I need to let go and stay in my feminine energy. I don’t even remember what I was complaining about.

Keisha Russell

Sex gets better each time. His stamina is up, and we can have sex for three hours straight no problem…

I am feeling so well f**ked it’s ridiculous. I feel completely insatiable. Is that normal?

Mariana + Thomas, Miami

180 Days of Sex and Counting

I have G-Spot squirting orgasms just from us kissing. I had my first anal-gasm.

Alexis and Mitchell

Frequently Asked Questions

I’m in. My partner is not.

Here’s what to do.

STEP 1: Tell them you’ve found… fill in the blank:

  • A Tantric sex guru
  • The world’s best orgasm coach
  • A legendary sex therapist and vaginal weight lifter
  • God’s chosen one for teaching couples how to bring a relationship back from the dead

If you are a woman, tell him:

  • Kim Anami is emphatic about about the power of regular blowjobs.
  • She can show all men how to go from two-pump chumps to Supercock maestros who can go for hours and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation
  • She thinks couples ought to be having multi-hour sex dates, several times a week

If you are a man, tell her that Kim Anami teaches:

  • That all women can have all types of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical and they are necessary medicine
  • Communication techniques to clear lifelong blockages within yourself and within the relationship
  • Men how to lead and take charge in their masculine energy

STEP 2: Invite them to listen to some of my Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast episodes with you.

I suggest these:
30 Years and the Sex Is Hotter than Ever
The Holy F**k
Polarity: The Hottest Sexual Chemistry

STEP 3: After listening together, discuss. What stood out for you? What was surprising, intriguing and really hit home?

STEP 4: Send them this page.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Investment

What is the cost?

$1497 USD. This price is per couple, and upon enrollment, you will have the opportunity to add your partner to the course so they receive their own logins.

 

 

Do you offer a payment plan?

We do. You may choose to spread out over two months with two payments of $797. Or, over three months with three payments of $557.

 

 

What is your refund policy?

If you’ve listened to Kim’s Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast and watched her videos, you have a good idea of her philosophy, energy and what her work can offer you.

Here, it goes deeper and fuller.

We KNOW these tools work. They have changed the lives of many thousands of people we have worked with. If you can prove—by submitting the finished product of the work you have done by May 16th—that you’ve put in the effort and still seen no results, we’ll refund your money.

 

 

I’m struggling financially and unsure about signing up. Do you offer discounts or scholarships?

We would love to have you join us, but we do not offer discounted rates. 

The beautiful truth is that your alchemical, sexual life force as a couple is directly linked to your ability to make money! Our salon members often notice their income rise as they unlock deeper orgasms and gourmet sex, and connect to the pro-creative force within. Opportunities, abundance, and cash falls into their laps—because their laps are what attracted them!

 

 

Participation

We’ll be on vacation for part of the salon. What if we miss a week or two?

You have lifetime access to everything. All the materials are recorded and archived for you to review whenever you like. Many of our students opt to go back and do the salons over again anyway, to take more time and deepen their understanding of all the practices.

 

 

How much time will I need to devote to this?

The more you put in, the more you get out.

We suggest committing at least 4-5 hours a week to focus on watching the videos, connection and discussion time, and sex dates.

 

 

I live in Australia/Europe/Dubai. Will I be able to participate on the coaching calls?

The weekly call times are varied to accommodate a variety of time zones. All calls are recorded and posted in your private members’ area the same or next day. You can download and listen to them at your leisure. We also transcribe each call, and post that a few days later.

 

 

My partner and I will be apart for some of the 10 weeks. Can we still fully participate?

Many couples successfully do Coming Together while navigating different living arrangements, including periods of long-distance or work travel.

Being apart may mean less in-person sex dates, but that’s nothing FaceTime can’t fix! 

The physical space can give each of you more time for solo practices and self-work. It may even inspire more intention, commitment, and creativity in your homeplay.

The syllabus includes two Challenge Weeks and two Integration Weeks to give you plenty of time to catch up. Since you have lifetime access to the salon,  moving at a slower pace is completely fine—many couples continue revisiting the material well beyond the live period.

 

 

Is this salon for us?

How do we know this is a fit for us?

If you’ve listened to our Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast and heard the life-changing tales of our Well-F**ked All Stars, you’ll have a very good idea of what the salons are and what they can offer you and your relationship.

If you haven’t, head over and listen now!

You can also check out some of Kim’s YouTube videos.

From listening and watching, you’ll also get a sense of Kim’s energy and teaching style. 

Many of our Well-F**ked All Star couples are featured on our Love Letters pages where you can explore different categories of people’s success. For example, we’ve worked with couples ranging from proudly new-age to deeply religious, seeing everything from relationships saved at the brink of divorce, to healed polarity, mind-blowing sex and orgasms, to profound breakthroughs in business, money, and abundance. All of these things have happened during their time in the salons.

 

 

Is this salon suitable for those in a same-sex relationship?

Yes! We welcome all sexual orientations in our salons, and while the terminology and teachings outwardly reflect those in a heterosexual relationship, we ultimately believe in male and female archetypal energies, which are relevant in any relationship.

 

 

I'm single. Can I do the salon on my own?

Yes! CT is still beneficial if you are single—as all of Kim’s salons are designed to be taken as a single or couple. The course can help to identify issues in past relationships as help you map what you want in the future to create a conscious relationship. This is a fantastic use of your solo time. 

The homeplay includes block-clearing discussion exercises and sex dates, among other practices, which in the case of a single would translate to journaling and self-pleasure. 

Some newfound technical skills will have to wait until you have a partner!

 

 

But, Kim...

But Kim, we have kids and jobs and very little extra time. How will we get the benefit out of this course?

After working with couples extensively, the truth remains clear: you will find time, or you will find an excuse.

We have had MANY couples in your shoes—from those that run their own business with six children, to working and homeschooling parents, to tandem breastfeeding and co-sleeping parents. Life is full and always will be.

The couples who see the biggest transformations aren’t the ones with the most free time. They’re the ones who prioritized their relationship by getting up early, forgoing Netflix and doomscrolling, and—sometimes—leaving those dishes in the sink. This course is designed for real life—not a retreat or some idealized version of your schedule. 

Couples who put themselves and their intimate lives first find that life, parenting, and business are FAR easier when you’re well-f**ked. Your relationship becomes the fueling station that powers the rest of your lives.

 

 

But Kim, I'm keen to join, but my partner isn’t onboard. What do you suggest?

This isn’t uncommon, as it’s often one person who discovers this work first and has to find the right way to bring it to their partner.

A great first step is suggesting you listen to Kim’s podcasts together, letting her introduce these concepts in her own words rather than trying to explain them yourself. Discuss the episodes and what you identify with and would love to create in your relationship. 

If your partner still isn’t resonating with the idea, we encourage you to go ahead and commence doing the work anyway. All of our salons can be taken solo just as powerfully as a couple. In fact, we hear time and again that once a partner witnesses a real shift in the person who dove in alone, they are excited to join in. For a great starting point, check out this podcast episode created specifically on this topic: How to Invite Your Partner to Anami Land.

 

 

But Kim, my marriage/partnership is on the rocks. Will this save it? Or will this end it?

This work has absolutely saved relationships that were teetering on the edge, and transformed them into thriving, conscious, gourmet-sex-filled partnerships that those couples couldn’t have imagined possible. That said, this work is like sunlight: it illuminates everything, including what’s been swept under the rug, avoided, or left unspoken for years. For many couples, that light is exactly the catalyst they needed. 

In a truly aligned partnership, the desire to grow together will feel exciting and mutual. This work has a way of bringing that truth to the surface—gently, but undeniably. Whatever it reveals, you will emerge knowing yourself, your desires, and your worth on a deeper level than before. For more on navigating this, listen to Kim’s podcast episode on the topic: When Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Grow.

 

 

I want you to give me the bullet point checklist of what I need to do to uplevel my relationship and start having life-changing, gourmet sex without doing any real inner work. Is this salon for me?

Nope. Bye.