Haven’t for years. I just don’t believe in the stuff. Except for anal sex. Then I definitely believe. I believe very hard. But for vaginal sex, I have a no-lube policy. And I’ll tell you why. Before I do, here’s a question: “What does lubrication tell us?” It says: “Hi! I’m excited. I’m ready. I […]
The big question I ask: Is sex a life-changing, rejuvenating, transformative and deeply pleasurable experience for you? If not, you are doing it wrong.
I am forever coming across articles that talk about women’s orgasms, or rather, a woman’s orgasm. As though there is only one.
I came across this list years ago. It feels like one of these cosmic, secret-channeled things that you are lucky enough to stumble upon and absorb its wisdom. My favourite of all the rules, the one that stands out the most to me, is Rule #1: Find a place you trust and try trusting it […]
Love rarely dies in one fell swoop. It is usually the accumulation of many slights, unconscious gestures and acts of non-love.
Following your bliss is about making decisions from the heart—and the genitals.