I just came off of a body-and-soul-blowing weeklong retreat with a group of beautiful and courageous lovers. Amidst the lush jungle in Bali, removed from everyday life and in a heightened emotional and sexual world, we saw miraculous transformations. Glowing faces, glowing hearts, glowing genitals.

When I’m explaining the idea of getting over the edge in orgasm, particularly with deeper, vaginal orgasms, or profound heart/genital-gasms, there is a sense of needing to break.

“Inspiration is for amateurs. I just get to work.” ~ Chuck Close

This is one of the greatest and one of my favourite spiritual laws: If you build it, they will come.

I’m still traveling, as part of this epic road trip, home-hunting year. We’re off to Bali again in April (one of our homes) and I’m holding a retreat there in May.   

“How do you incorporate a healthy, sensual, sex life into a relationship with a man who is more inhibited by the typical, hush hush, slightly dirty, western views of sex, when you are a highly sexual, sensual person?