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Magical Blow Jobs

Cock love and miracles.

Blow jobs can do all kinds of things.

They give pleasure.

And orgasms.

They can land you massive business deals.

And grow cocks.

They can make your yoga practice better.

And your children are calmer and happier.

They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god.

And turn a woman into a sensual goddess.

Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more?

Their ecstatic and reality-bending powers are unlocked when you dive deep into the mysteries of cock love.

This magic bestows itself upon the recipient—and the giver.

In this interview we have Amanda, from our legendary All-Stars couple, Amanda and Mark.

We’ve featured them on the show several times already, and she writes in to give us regular updates on their adventures and their evolution, which are always amazing to hear.

This time they had a very powerful and miracle-worthy, experience with their oral sex explorations.

They had the biggest breakthrough EVER in their business, powered by a 90-minute oral sex session.

Yes, some devoted cocksucking made them rich.

We featured Amanda on the episode “Cock Lovers of the World Unite” where she shared her experience of dissolving a growth in her thyroid from doing lots of deep throating.

See? I told you. Sucking cock is a truly magical thing.

Watch the episode now:

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  • Enlightened cock sucking, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms.
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body
  • And much more!

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MAGICAL BLOW JOBS – TRANSCRIPT

“An epic blow job landed us the biggest deal of our lives.”

Blow jobs can do all kinds of things.

They give pleasure.

And orgasms.

They can land you massive business deals.

And grow cocks.

They can make your yoga practice better.

And your kids calmer and happier.

They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god.

And turn a woman into a sensual goddess.

Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more?

Their ecstatic and reality-bending powers are unlocked when you dive deep into the mysteries of cock love.

This magic bestows itself upon the recipient—and the giver.

***

I  have always intuitively looked at sex as a portal to magical realms.

Even in my earliest experiences I had the sense that sex had this potential of being a gateway to other dimensions.

Far from being this shameful and anti-spiritual thing—as the modern narrative was trying to portray it as—sex was actually a pathway to God, to higher states of consciousness.

To our true selves.

And then when I later discovered I saw that other cultures shared ideas.

So for me, yes, sex is pleasurable and ecstatic, but the greater drive for me and they why of what I do, it is using that energy to rebirth myself to create in my life and to be the best version of me that I can be.

All of the practises I teach are geared towards learning to use these sex acts as metaphysical entryways.

To harness the sexual the power of sexual energy.

To use this life force energy to consciously create our lives.

Every single sex act has the potential for some kind of rebirthing and enlightenment.

I have had some incredible experiences with oral sex.

The ancient Taoists they talk about the power food of our yin and yang essences that we respectively infused into fluids; both pre-and post ejaculate.

When we ingest those fluids—especially through oral sex—we are mainlining to this food, nourishment and enlightenment directly into the brain, crown, third eye and throat chakras.

Yum yum.

Better than food.

The ultimate super food.

**

The other thing we are doing in oral sex, and in particular, extended oral sex sessions, upward of 45 minutes on one person, is that as we “get all up in their business” we are truly SEEING them.

Their core and essence.

We are adoring it.

As Marianne Williamson says, “Our deepest need is to be seen.”

In doing this, we change.

We are transformed.

And so is everything in our lives.

In opening your mouths and throats to each other, you also open your communication.

The walls between you dissolve. The barriers go away.

**

In this interview we have Amanda, from our legendary All-Stars couple, Amanda and Mark.

We’ve featured them on the show several times already, and she writes in to give us regular updates on their adventures and their evolution, which are always amazing to hear.

This time they had a very powerful and miracle-worthy, experience with their oral sex explorations.

They had the biggest breakthrough EVER in their business, powered by a 90-minute oral sex session.

Yes, some devoted cocksucking made them rich.

We featured Amanda on the episode “Cock Lovers of the World Unite” where she shared her experience of dissolving a growth in her thyroid from doing lots of deep throating.

See? I told you. Sucking cock is a truly magical thing.

Without further ado, what you’ve all been waiting for… how does cock sucking make you a millionaire!

WELL-F**KED ALL STAR Amanda interview

KIM: Welcome, Amanda! It is fantastic to have you back!

AMANDA: Always a pleasure to see you, Kim.

KIM: Amanda gives us frequent updates about her and Mark’s sexual adventures and their evolution over time. After reading your latest update, I just had to have you back to share your story.

So Mark was away for six weeks, and I know that you guys are very diligent about your connection time and your sex dates and staying really close to each other. You had this physical separation, and then, to really celebrate him coming back and reconnect consciously, you had a sex weekend.

Start there and tell us exactly what else happened.

AMANDA: Yes. So we had a couple of weeks when he was home from his trip, and we couldn’t get away just yet because the kids needed their time as well and the business needed things. We organized a sex weekend two weeks after he had returned. That Friday morning, he went and dropped the kids at school. When he came home, we began the sex weekend with an extended session of me providing him oral pleasure.

KIM: Extended for how long?

AMANDA: Ninety minutes before we got ready to go where we were going.

KIM: So 90 minutes just of oral sex?

AMANDA: Yes. Just of me, my mouth, his cock.

KIM: Welcome home, honey! Great to see you again.

AMANDA: It was very good. [Laughs] I was super keen because I really enjoy giving oral sex. When we got started, I wasn’t planning to go for 90 minutes; it just evolved into that because it was so incredibly enjoyable.

That went on for 90 minutes, and then we got ready. We packed up everything and were on our way to our hotel. When we go away for our sex weekends, we always switch off. We have no phones, no connection; it’s just time for him and I. But on the way, we received a phone call. And when Mark read the name on the phone, he said, “Oh my God, I’m so sorry; I have actually been waiting for this call. Do you mind if I take it?” Of course I said, “Yeah, take it. That’s fine.”

We were both in tears over how amazing this was; literally, we were crying in the car because of how big this deal was that we had just landed within our business. It’s the biggest deal that we’ve ever landed, and it was just mind-blowing. We said, “Oh my God.”

And he’s sitting in the car saying, “Do you think it could be from what we just did? Because Kim’s always talking about how chakra is connected to finances…” Anyway, so we were blown away. It was so exciting; we were so happy. We were checking in, and the woman at the front desk thought there was something wrong because we were both still saying, “Oh my God!” [Laughs]

We got upstairs, and we decided to celebrate again. And the things that flowed over the next 72 hours within our business, with us having that connecting sex date—it was like a domino effect that was almost overwhelming. It felt like, “It’s all coming to fruition. How are we actually going to handle what is going on?” It was that big.

That went on for Friday, Saturday, Sunday. And at some point during the day on Sunday, I said to him, “What if we use this extended date thing to see how far we can take it? What if we committed to the next seven days of 90-minute sessions of oral sex, taking it in turns, and just see where we go with it?”

I’m a super-organized person, and I said, “So by Wednesday, we’re probably going to say, ‘Oh my God. I’m too tired; I can’t do it.’ So what we’re going to do is, on Monday, you do me. On Tuesday, I’ll do you.” And he said, “No, no. No, no. We’re just going to go with oral sex and whatever flows from there is good.”

But we committed to a minimum of 90 minutes and—

KIM: A minimum? Are you saying that there were times it went longer than that?

AMANDA: Yeah. Because you lose track of time. There is no time. Usually I love my sleep. Nine thirty is a late night for me. This particular week, we were clocking 11:30, midnight, just with oral sex. It was incredible.

KIM: In the zone. There’s such a delicious zone that I find. It’s intercourse as well, but in oral sex, you can just get completely lost. Like you said, losing track of time and space, being in this other dimension of mainlining sexual energy. There’s this spiritual high cocktail into the brain and into our spiritual centers, third eye, and crown chakra.

AMANDA: I would literally be at work thinking, “Oh my God, I can’t wait to go home and put the kids to bed tonight so we can go downstairs and have our little date again.” [Laughs] The energy between us was so beautiful, but also the energy that I had to get up in the morning and go do my yoga and my workouts. He was off surfing. We’d go off to work for the day, and at the end of the day, we’d still say, “I cannot wait to get downstairs.” It was incredible.

Back to the magic of what was happening within the business and financially from all that as well—we were saying, “Can we manage it? How are we actually going to take on…” We were starting to question our ability to manage what was flowing in.

KIM: Questioning your ability to receive all this abundance.

AMANDA: Yes! [Laughs] We said, “Oh my gosh!” I really love yoga, and I was finding after our long sessions in the evening, the depth increased by which I could extend my postures the next morning. My backbends were out of this world, and I’ve kept it. That was two weeks ago, and not that we’ve stopped our oral sex dates; they’re just not every day. But we’re definitely still having extended dates and from that flows improvement in all areas of life.

As I was saying earlier, it’s really hard to put into words how effective I find the intimacy of using my mouth and him using his mouth. The thread that runs between me and Mark, our connection; he’s even more of my best friend than he was a month ago. We’re just so jovial, so easygoing, so flowing, and I really feel like there’s this connection between my mouth and my genitals and his mouth and his genitals, and the linking of all of those energies and chakras. My whole body and his whole body feel in alignment.

We can have energy sex without even touching each other because there’s nothing in between us. We’re just like a ball of energy that plays with each other all day.

KIM: Right! To describe the connection between two people, I use the metaphor of a clear pane of glass between them. Amanda is really familiar with this. The more that we’re open and honest, the more we clear that glass, and people who have stuff that they’re holding back—sins of omission or lies—muddy up that glass and don’t feel as connected with their partners. It’s literally harder to see them through that wall.

Part of the work that I do with people is encouraging them to keep speaking and being honest and open and communicating the depths of their being. What you’re saying is this beautiful, interwoven metaphor. Obviously you’ve been practicing this clearing-the-glass approach in your communication verbally with each other, but it’s even further extended into this metaphorical region of the oral communication of your genitals. You mentioned earlier that you feel like there’s nothing blocking you now. You’re even more connected, and that glass is just super clean and clear, with no barriers.

AMANDA: It’s so clear that even the subtlest of mannerisms or behaviors is detectable. For example, I was in the shower, and he stuck his head in to say good morning. And I flicked him with water, and he smiled, and that was cute and funny, so I flicked him again. I knew on the second one, without him saying a word, that was enough. He’d only just woken up. And I could tell, just by the tilt of his head or the twist of his shoulder, that he was thinking, “No, don’t do it again.”

I actually said yesterday, the glass is not just clear between us; it’s like there’s no glass there. There’s an energy field between us that’s magnetic.

He calls me his little sea anemone because he reckons I just radiate and suck him into my aura. Just come and play.

I was actually thinking this morning about how long it’s been. It has been four years since I started listening to your podcast.

KIM: Oh wow!

AMANDA: And it was three years ago that I did the Well-F**ked Woman Salon. We’ve been doing it for a while. In saying that, this is new. There is no ceiling. It’s incredible the heights and the depths to which you can go with this work. I’ve always known that I enjoy cock love. I just do. This just took it to a whole new level, these extended dates.

KIM: What else did you notice happened with him in terms of his cock? Was he owning and inhabiting his cock more through this even more lavish, extended attention? Was he holding himself differently as a man out in the world? What did you see in the cock and the man as a result of this increased cock love?

AMANDA: The man in the world—we work together, but he has his own office, and I work in a different area of the office. Even though we work together, we probably only see each other five to ten minutes of the day, and it’s just sporadic in and out, checking with each other, “Where are you on this one?” It’s really busy.

But during this particular instance [laughs] —it’s making me blush now—he walked into my office space, and I said, “Oh, heart, you make me weak in the knees.” He called me one day, and I couldn’t speak. I was just on the phone listening to his voice and saying, “Oh my gosh, you are just…” My pussy was getting so wet just listening to his voice on the phone.

That man in the world walks into the room, and my knees go weak just watching him walk in. And he knows. He can see that I’m thinking, “Oh my gosh,” like a teenager. He will now come into my office and shove me up against the wall in a really good, delicious way, and just take his piece of me before leaving again. It’s…it’s hot.

KIM: I want you to remind everyone how long you guys have been together because based on what you’re describing, people might say, “Oh, they’re just a new couple.” Tell them how long you’ve been together.

AMANDA: We have been together 15 years . Married 14. Yeah. It’s a long while. But funny you should say that. A mom at school saw us both drop the kids off. And she asked me, “How long have you guys been together?” When I told her, she said, “I thought you were a new couple. Are they both your kids?” “Yeah, these are our children that are in primary school.” She thought we had come from a split family and he was my new man because I was so besotted with him. She said, “You’re so in love!” I said, “I know; it’s good, hey!” [Laughs]

But yeah, that’s the man out in the world. Still makes me weak in the knees, which is incredible and awesome.

But also, the man in our bedroom has a highly stressful job. It’s not all easy. It’s all enjoyable, but there are times when it’s stressful, and he and I can lose that connection to our inner selves. If he’s really in the work zone, it can be really stressful. It’s been really great lately, but there’s a lot of work that has now come about, and it can be quite stressful.

It’s not always easy for him to just get up and go; it’s harder to get hard, just putting it bluntly. Sometimes it is hard. But with us doing these extended oral sex dates, I can say with all sincerity, it’s like his cock is coming from up inside his hip flexors. The strength of the muscle, the whole pubic, genital area has so much strength; it’s mind-blowing. The girth of his cock is wider. The length, the strength, the veins—he’s going to hear this interview and say, “Well, you really went into descriptive detail,” [laughs] but as I was saying earlier, cock love is quite selfish for me. It actually helps me get back into my body when I’m feeling a bit spaced out. I will say to him, “Can you spare some time?”

KIM: [Laughs] If you’re not too busy, can I suck your cock, please?

AMANDA: Yes. It’s literally happened where I had to say, “I know you have got so much going on—” it was quarter to five—“so between now and six, if there’s any time that you can spare so we could head downstairs, I really need to suck your cock.” And he said, “Well, you know, it should be all right.” And I said [laughs], “Thank you so much because I know you’ve got so much going on.”

Then we laugh at ourselves and go, “Can you believe it? Would you mind if I could just…”

Yeah, so then we head down, and the embodiment of the man becomes the cock. It’s just the strength that I see in him and his shoulders and his upper body. It also spills out in the cock, and it’s so delicious. I kind of forget that he’s up there. I’ll just be in the zone down here.

KIM: Yeah. It’s beautiful, that embodiment and the fact that something that feeds you becomes so profound. So much energy is there, so rich; it’s something that fully nurtures you. It’s not just something that you’re doing; you want to pleasure your partner, to give him this ecstasy, but you are fully fed by it as well.

Out in the world, and in the cock, yes, that embodiment, that strength, that potency, and it really shows me, too, how disconnected people are from the genitals. When we actually do this work and become more connected and whole and really lavish so much love and attention and energy on them, how radical a transformation it is.

Even if we’re in a position of healthy sexuality, healthy expression, you love all of these things, you do them regularly, but you have to be able to keep going and notching up higher and higher and higher these levels of inhabiting and owning the self and owning the genitals, harnessing that energy that’s there. Tapping into that creative, orgasmic, transformational, life-changing power.

The stories that you were telling earlier about going out into the world and everything that you do, even doing yoga and finding that you’re inhabiting these postures differently and bringing a whole next level of intuiting into them. You earned that growth, and it’s not something that’s fleeting and disappears; you’ve earned it, and you hold onto it.

All that is so inspiring to hear.

AMANDA: Just touching on what you said there, too, about him feeding me. Before doing this sort of work, oral sex would’ve been foreplay. I would’ve given oral sex; he would’ve given oral sex, but if I gave him oral sex, I would be so horny, so turned on, that I would have to have intercourse. That was just part of the buildup.

Where now, if I can give the example of last night, that was all I wanted and all I needed. He sometimes says I can be a bit bossy. I can be a bit demanding about what I want. So I said, “I’m really grateful because that was literally what I wanted to do,” and he gave me permission to do what I wanted to do.

We were talking about it afterward. I did some deep throating, and he was saying to me, out of all the acts that happen while I’m giving him oral, deep throating is probably the least pleasurable for him in terms of the actual physical feeling of what I’m doing. He said, “It’s amazing, incredible, but probably the least like, ‘Oh my gosh, I’m going to blow.’” But he also said, aside from it being the least physically exciting, the emotion that is attached to me deep throating him, “It’s such a surrender, which puts me in control of where you are at and how far down he’s going.” After I’ve done a bit of deep throating, the size of his cock grows immensely. I think there’s a bit of masculine energy that is brought out within him, like, “I’m the man,” because he really is the man. Yeah, that grows within his cock.

This is the part where I forget that he’s there, and I’m just so in the zone of enjoying the shaft, the balls, everything. The way that feeds me and satisfies me is not foreplay. I’m having an orgasm of my own design by giving him that sort of oral love. It’s incredible that I come away feeling like I’ve just had a cervical orgasm, and yet I’ve not been penetrated in my vagina. But I’ve been penetrated so openly in all the chakras and energies within my body through my throat and my mouth. You get it. [Laughs]

KIM: Yes, absolutely. You’ve described it really beautifully, and I think it highlights the archetypal energies between masculine and feminine. In the act of deep throating is this really intense level of surrender and opening and receptivity that has to happen, which is the archetypal feminine. Your cascades and reverberations of that energy of surrender and that feminine openness are coursing through you, which is the essence of all of the deepest vaginal orgasms, especially the cervical orgasm. That all registers and makes sense.

But then the beautiful thing that happens is that pendulum swing, that yin and yang energy; you being in your extreme feminine then catapults him into his more extreme masculine, and so his more strong, occupied, fortified, confident, potent masculine, strong, dominant energy can then rise up. That’s the beautiful interplay of embracing being a man or a woman—such a radical concept these days—but this is the beauty of that exploration, really enjoying and embracing and exploring these archetypes and these energies because that’s exactly what they are. Enjoying that feminine enjoying the masculine.

Some of our access points are these acts like deep throating and cervical orgasms that really allow us to explore and dive into deep, deep opening and surrender. Deep, deep, deep penetration.

AMANDA: Yeah. And then, as you say, you step out into the world, and it flows through you out there. Like me stepping onto my yoga mat and being so deeply in my feminine that I’m doing backbends that I didn’t think I could do. Something just twists in me, and I realize, “Okay, I can do that.”

And it’s like his chest has opened up and the shoulders are back, and his actual demeanor is different.

KIM: How so?

AMANDA: I guess I noticed it immensely last night. When he orgasms, I guess the pelvis would usually tip the other way, but last night, he was spread. The arms were wide, legs were wide, the whole body was moving forward.

I noticed that in him moving out into the world. He’s leading with his heart center. His chest is moving forward, and yeah, when you see him, you know he’s a man who’s on his way to do what he knows needs doing. He does not come across as someone who is unsure. Not that he ever really did, but he knows what path he’s on now, even more so. Which is very sexy.

KIM: It is very sexy because another archetypal masculine quality is that sense of being in his direction, in his power, in his confidence, and moving forward, giving his gifts to the world. Penetrating the world with who he is in a beautiful way.

And yeah, as a woman in the feminine, it’s a glorious thing to see and to be turned on by, right? A man giving his gifts out into the world, doing his thing, penetrating the world, fucking the world into oblivion.

AMANDA: Absolutely. Yeah, very sexy. Yesterday, I did a watercolor painting. He said, “What are you doing?” I said, “I’m going to do a painting.” And he said, “Is that something that you’re into?” And I said, “I don’t know. I just felt like doing it.” And he said, “Oh my God, that is sexy as fuck.” Just to see me go sit down and decide, “I’m going to do a painting.”

KIM: [Laughs] Sexy as fuck! Did he elaborate on that? Why was that sexy to him?

AMANDA: Because I can really easily get stuck in, “Oh, I’ve got to go get clothes off the line. I need to nag him on these paper lunches, and we need to make sure Tim is ready, and I’ve got dancing on this day and karate.” It’s busy. For me to just float through the kitchen and say, “I’m going to do a painting.” He said, “Oh my God, just to watch you sit down and do what you feel like doing is sexy as fuck.”

KIM: Like a feminine perspective.

AMANDA: The feminine, yeah. It was so appealing to him to see me honor what I felt like doing and actually go do it.

KIM: Yeah. Beautiful.

AMANDA: Because I’ll think about things quite often and say, “Well, it’d be nice” to actually take a dance class or go for a walk in nature. Then I’ll think about doing it, but more often than not, I’ll say, “But I’ve just got to get the clothes off the line, then chop the potatoes,” and by the time I’ve done those things, I’ve run short on time, so I don’t get as much time to do that thing I wanted.

So for him to just watch me say, “I’m doing it,” was sexy. [Laughs]

KIM: That’s amazing. Is there anything else you want to add that we haven’t covered?

AMANDA: I know you wanted me to talk about magical blow jobs, and they have been magical. Can I share personally from my experience?

KIM: Of course. That’s what everyone wants to hear.

AMANDA: [Laughs] Him pleasuring me orally—he’s actually the first man that has spent any time working on that. I’ve had this block that I must not smell very nice, or maybe I don’t taste very nice. I was never very relaxed.

This one particular week took me to heights that I honestly did not know I was capable of reaching. Again, just reiterating, we’ve been doing this work for years to get to this point in the game and say, “Wow, there’s a whole block that even though I was aware it existed, I kind of just accepted it.”

You grow up with these silly sayings like it smells like fish and tastes like chicken. What is wrong with people? Of course, we, as young women, young girls, old women, walk around thinking, “Well, obviously it’s not very nice.” He loves it, but I still get stuck in my head feeling like maybe he doesn’t like it, maybe he doesn’t want to be there, so I kind of directed him to always just do it as foreplay.

As well as playing with the energies of how far we can take this new abundance that’s coming in by doing extended oral sex dates, this particular week, the healing occurred for me with him giving me oral pleasure for 90 minutes. This is why we ended up having midnight sessions three or four times that week because I would do my 90, and then we would relax and talk and play, and then he’d be ready to go again.

I say 90, but there just really wasn’t a time limit on it. The new opening and relaxing has really helped with the yoga as well, because my hips have developed a new level of openness. But also, I felt that subtle energy movement of the relaxing and the opening of the whole chakra. Every muscle, every fiber in that lower part of my body has just softened and carried through. He said, “Your breasts have so much energy.”

Someone came into work and said, “What’s with you? You’re glowing. Have you got a new diet thing going on?” And I said, “Been drinking lots of water.” [Laughs] And then Mark and I said, “I’m not telling them this one.”

Yeah, he was really dedicated, and every night of that week particularly. Really committed to staying open and committed to keeping that base level, so we can just keep rising and going above. Helping me to soften and relax and wipe out all those blockages that really get stuck into your neural pathways, and they’re just there to be cleared. It’s fun clearing them, but they’re really in there.

It’s frustrating hearing things that get said in society. Mark and I laugh. “Are you guys crazy? Why are you walking around saying that? Because you’re actually doing yourself a disservice.” Men are the ones walking around saying, “It smells like fish and tastes like chicken.” Are you stupid? [Laughs]

KIM: Yeah. That’s a very base-level misunderstanding, misinformation, that’s obscuring the truth; it’s the level most people are stuck on. But that’s so wonderful to hear because I really believe the love that we shower upon our partner’s genitals is so healing because that’s really the essence of who we are. If we aren’t, then full ownership of that. To have that level of love and attention bestowed upon you and then for that to help cleanse and wash away some old beliefs and internalized ideas that have been imprinted upon you and upon all women…it’s so healing.

Then for men, the thing for them is often size. What’s their size? Are they big enough? I’ve had lovers who were seriously 10 inches, and they still weren’t sure. They said, “How would you rank me in terms of size?” And I said, “Are you kidding? On a horse scale or what are we talking about here? You’re not even in the human category.” And they still weren’t sure. I said, “Don’t you guys look at each other in the locker room? What is this?”

AMANDA: I’ve asked that too.

KIM: I guess it’s like the growers and showers; you can’t always tell what everyone is packing.

But males and females all have these weird projections that we end up taking in, even unconsciously, onto the genitals. That’s why I think these extended oral sex love sessions, even beyond intercourse, but oral sex specifically, having someone’s eyes and face and attention all up in your business, in your pleasure; it’s such an amazing tool and key to shifting these things.

It’s so great to hear that you noticed these epic results after one session, and then, after a week of doing it, you had even more epic results. That’s not really a lot of time. I know that you guys have already been on a path, and so you have a foundation, but to commit to these really long, extended oral sex dates and see the change that’s happened in yourselves, in your bodies, in your genitals, and in your outer lives, is monumental.

AMANDA: We committed to seven days, just as a fun little relationship challenge. “Let’s just do this for seven days and see where it goes.”

Now, it’s become more than once a week. It just happens by evolution. It’s just there now. It’s part of the package. We say about your work; once you’ve done the work, you’re not going to go back. It’s not like you’re going to say, “Well, that was fun. That was interesting; let’s go back to the way we were.”

KIM: Right. Yeah. You can’t go back, really. Once you know, you know. There is no going back.

AMANDA: You’ve seen behind the curtain now. [Laughs]

KIM: Yes. You’ve opened up the entire stage. That’s fantastic. Anything else?

AMANDA: Actually, one other thing. I know we’ve touched on this before as well, but I would say the relationships that Mark and I have with all our kids at the moment are so open, so clear, and really positive. I know you’ve talked about it before, but the more connected we are, the more it’s just so evident in their behaviors and in how they’re communicating with us.

Mark said yesterday that our responses to those little nuances that they have—our youngest child couldn’t close a door if his life depended on it. It could be a wardrobe door, the front door, the craft cupboard door; they’re just always open. And for some reason, it drove me mental. I always said, “Close the freaking door.” [Laughs] Now, we’ll just walk around, and it makes me laugh. I’ll say, “Close the door, darling,” and have a little chuckle, and we can just close the door.

Things are not a big deal because you’re just so much more open, and everything is just flowing way more freely. Just last week, Mark was away for four days for travel. When he got back, on the first day that he was home, he said hi to the kids, we had dinner, we had our family time, and then our ten-year-old daughter said, “You really should go downstairs because you haven’t had any mouja-mouja time for the whole week.” And I said, “Any what?” “Mouja-mouja. Dad needs some mouja-mouja time.” I said, “What about Mum? Mum could do with some mouja-mouja.” [Laughs] So yeah, it’s now referred to not as connecting time in our house but as mouja-mouja time.

KIM: [Laughs] Mouja-mouja. Love it. Love it.

AMANDA: Thank you. So yeah, as we’re saying, the man out in the world, the woman out in the world, the family unit is incredible, and it’s really just so positive. It’s just so worth bringing the effort for your relationship, letting it flow in all other areas of your life.

KIM: For anyone listening, we’ve done another interview with Amanda and Mark and talked about the six children between them. Two from Amanda, two from Mark, and two that they’ve had together. Because you’re in a second marriage.

And so we talked about how their relationship really feeds the family unit. The more connected they are, the more that then pulses out into the family itself and energizes it, revitalizes it, harmonizes it, and then it’s about how they communicate with their children about sex. I’ll post a link for that in the show notes for people to have a look at.

I’m just always so glad to hear of your constant evolution and updates and the Anami way. Always another level to go!

AMANDA: We like to keep you posted because I feel like you do all this work, and these amazing things are happening that are next level, and you should know. I feel like it’s a reward for you as well to get that feedback that it’s still just reaching higher heights and deeper depths. It’s just an act of gratitude to let you know it’s still going, and it’s a lifetime experience. Just incredible. We’re so grateful.

Mark said to say hi. I was supposed to say that straight up. “Make sure you say hi to Kimmy!” [Laughs]

KIM: Well, say hi to Mark back. You guys are such a beacon and inspiration for people who continue to work and really reinforce that notion that there is always another level to go. Even when you’ve hit what many would consider to be epic heights and are having all kinds of amazing experiences, there’s still further that you can go. Still another level. Still new, cataclysmic, mind- and body-blowing experiences that can be had.

AMANDA: Yeah. We look forward to continuing the work and keeping you posted annually.

KIM: Well, I look forward to the next update.

AMANDA: [Laughs] Awesome. Thanks, Kim.

KIM: Thanks, Amanda.

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