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The Cock Whisperer

I didn’t always love cock.

I liked it, well enough.

But I didn’t even know I could love it.

When I see the magazine articles and YouTube videos about blow job tips, I think, huh. I wonder if that actually works for anyone.

My absolute best cocksucking evolved out of me falling in love with my partner’s cock.

I loved the man, and suddenly, I also, dramatically, fell in love with his cock.

And then everything changed.

I wanted that thing inside me—every orifice—night and day.

I couldn’t walk past it without dropping to my knees to touch it or lick it.

I missed my lover when he wasn’t around.

And I missed his cock when it wasn’t around.

Not sure which one I missed more.

My affinity for cock grew.

Then I met a man who told me he was anorgasmic. Meaning, he couldn’t have an orgasm.

Hard as he tried.

“That’s awesome, I said.” Imagine that, a guy who can fuck me for hours nonstop.

That wasn’t the reaction he usually got.

Women threw things at him, frustrated and insulted that he wouldn’t come. 

I was incredulous. It was my dream scenario: non-stop fucking. The guy had a gift.

Except that with me, he did come.

Sigh.

First time in years.

Why?

Because I loved his cock like nobody had loved it before.

I gave it so much love that it forgot about all its problems and worries and just gave into the moment(s) of worship, and lost itself.

And then there was M. who had a marvellous, porn-worthy cock.

Except he had no idea that he did.

He didn’t achieve full erections. His cock was rather unsure of itself.

Why?

Again, because no one had ever loved it.

Until me.

And then that cock found itself.

In my mouth, my vagina, my…

It grew.

Longer and harder.

Yes, my loves.

Cock love grows cock.

Women: The best gift—apart from the ever-readiness of every orifice—that you can bestow upon cock, is your total devotion.

Look, “technique” is helpful. Sort of.

But if you don’t love the man and the cock, your cocksucking and your straddling is always going to be lackluster.

For sure, in some activities, like anal sex or deep throating, some guidance is helpful, if not necessary.

The rest though, the absolute, all-consuming, I’ll-do-anything-for-that-man-and-his-cock-love comes from within.

I saw years ago in my coaching practice that if a woman didn’t want to suck her man’s cock, no amount of tips and tricks in the world made a fuck of difference.

If she didn’t WANT his cock in her mouth.

I realized that was where I needed to focus.

Organic cock love. Being true to the moment.

Technique could always come later.

It’s like the difference between going to a big pop star concert where every single step is choreographed and then repeated every single night.

Or worse yet, lip-synced.

Now there’s a great metaphor—moving your lips around but nothing real is coming out of them.

It’s boring as shit.

Or, going to see live music.

Really, organically, live. 

Years ago I went to see Chan Marshall, aka Cat Power. I’d heard that she often had emotional breakdowns on stage, or that she’d switch songs in the middle of the song because she just wasn’t feeling it.

I was intrigued.

True to prediction, she did exactly that.

It was one of the “livest”, most raw and beautiful shows I’ve ever seen.

All the in-the-moment-liver-than-live poetry flowed out of her.

When you are in tune with deepest yourself, your sexual energy and you own your desire and vulnerability all at once, you are an unstoppable lover.

The best cocksucker and fuck that ever was.

The fuck poetry just flows out of you.

And that’s what I teach people to do. Is find that place in themselves, where the fuck-flow runs deep.

And that’s what makes them have the best sex of their lives.

Tongue flicking tutorials?

Um, okay.

But really, really what you need to do is connect with the most primal, vulnerable part of you.

And fuck yourself and your partner to smithereens.

Kxx

The whole process of unleashing that primal being is what the Well-F**ked Woman Salon (in addition to some signature technical moves) is all about.

For guys? You can be your own Cock Whisperer. That’s what we explore in Sexual Mastery for Men. Stay tune in the next couple of months as we dive deeper into the well-f**ked man.

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