How to Be Wet, Wet, Wet! – Transcript
How to restore lubrication naturally. How to be wet, wet, wet, wetter than wet.
Women in their natural state of voraciousness, which is truly the natural state of every woman, are juicy, succulent, and wet, wet, wet. They flow; they gush. [Laughs] A woman lubricates and swells just by hearing her lover’s voice. Even the thought of her lover causes a rush of blood and wetness to her vagina.
Just like every other message that your body gives you, your lubrication, your wetness, is a great metaphor. I mean, what does lubrication tell us? “Penetrate me. I’m ready, I’m open, and I want to be penetrated.”
If this isn’t happening, the answer is not to slather on the lube—which I consider to be the female equivalent to Viagra. No. The answer is to find out why the juices aren’t flowing and to get them flowing again. This applies to all women at every stage of their lives. Whether you are postmenopausal, a woman with a new baby, or somebody who’s relied on their bedside lube for years just to make things easier.
In this video, I’m going to explain why to toss your lubes and how you can get your flow back and become a woman who gushes as a natural, normal state of being.
Get a strong vagina. The number one physical reason for a lack of easy lubrication is having a weak vagina. Circulation equals lubrication. If you don’t regularly work out your vagina, just like any other muscle in your body, it atrophies.
A strong, healthy vagina has lots of blood and oxygen flow, and this has a direct impact on your ability to lubricate on demand. I have watched countless women, and even menopausal women, regain their wetness in weeks simply by starting a vaginal weightlifting practice.
To show you, here are some comments from vaginas in the Well-F**ked Woman Hall of Fame.
“An increase of wetness to tsunamic proportions.”
“Wet, wet, wet. I am 100% wetter. My husband is a happier man.”
“I have been much, much, much wetter than I’ve been in years, and I’m 45. It is amazing. I never use lube ever. In fact, now I have to use towels.”
So there, the vaginas speak for themselves. Plus, with a strong and re-sensitized vagina, a woman wants to have more sex because who wants to have sex with a numb vagina when you can’t even feel anything? Your increased libido and desire from better and more pleasurable sex mean that you get wet more and faster because sex is so much more enjoyable.
Exercise. Yes, exercise your vagina and your whole body. The increased circulation, oxygen, and blood flow will keep your hormones pumping through all your tissues, including your vaginal ones.
If your body is stagnant, there’s no way that your hormones can properly circulate throughout your system. So exercise daily.
Exercise stimulates your adrenal glands and ovaries and optimizes your hormonal production. So move your ass! And your vagina.
Wet equals wet. Stay hydrated. You can drink yourself to wetness. Seventy-five percent of Americans suffer from chronic dehydration. I read several interviews with Elle “The Body” MacPherson, who is arguably the hottest 50-something woman on the planet. She was saying that one of her big beauty secrets is that she drinks three liters of water a day, which is a lot.
I tried it and it was tough, I have to say, but after doing it for a while now, I notice that I feel lighter, more clearheaded, and energized throughout the day.
Well, all that water is also good for your vagina. Those tissues also benefit from the hydration. I challenge you to up your water intake every day and see both how you feel in your concentration levels and in your vagina.
Diet. You can build a wetter vagina from what you eat.
First off, as much as possible, eat a clean, whole foods, organically grown diet. Particularly awesome vagina foods include essential fatty acids of flaxseed oil, olive oil, wild Alaskan salmon, and fish oil supplements. Avocados are fantastic, raw almonds, pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, and sesame seeds. Sweet potatoes are rich in vitamin A, which generates sex hormone production and keeps the uterus and vaginal walls strong.
Listen to your vagina. Lubrication is the barometer. As I said earlier, lubrication is the indication that a woman is ready for sex emotionally, psychologically, and physically. Everything shows up in bed. Meaning if you had an argument at breakfast and you haven’t resolved it yet, it may reveal itself as a lack of lubrication in the woman or a weak erection in the man.
If you have longstanding, unresolved issues in the relationship, your vagina will likely be on shutdown. It won’t lubricate on demand. You’ll think that you have a low libido because you don’t want to have sex with your partner, but your vagina is trying to tell you something. Listen to it.
If a woman is ready in every way, emotionally, she feels open and connected to her partner, physically, she’s warmed up and has had enough foreplay, and then she’s wet. It’s really that simple.
Apart from having a weak vagina, this is the most important factor in women getting wet. This is why I forbid my female clients from using artificial lubricants. Your body, your vagina, is giving you a message. If you continually override it by slathering on a bunch of lubricant, you’re creating a dissociation with your vagina, which even leads to a number vagina.
A great rule of thumb or pussy is to only enter a woman when she is dripping wet.
So how open are you to being fully fucked and penetrated by your partner and by life? The more open and receptive you are, which are the qualities of the archetypal feminine, the more your juices will flow. This flow also extends to your creative and your overall flow in life.
If you want to learn more about how to keep your feminine flow going and have a vagina that is wet, wet, wet, wetter than wet all the time, then check out my Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. This is the online program, the sex education that you never had on all things vagina.
It includes a weekly vaginal weightlifting routine, breast massage to lift and enlarge your breasts, how to make menstruation and menopause energizing and rejuvenating—which is what they’re supposed to be—and much, much more.
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