Anal Enlightenment – Transcript
Anal Enlightenment
Did you know that anal sex can bring you closer to God? Who knew you could find God up your ass? Me! I knew!
People have all kinds of misconceptions about sex acts, especially anal sex. “I’m too pretty for anal” is something a friend of mine used to say. This echoes a lot of rhetoric that I’ve heard from other women, where it’s like, “Oh, I’m not going to go there. I’m not going to go there.” Even for men.
Anal sex is a grand sexual taboo. It shows up on the perfunctory checklist of porn activities. Come in the face shot? Check. Anal sex? Check. Squirting? Check.
Yet the power of these experiences is lost on most people. I’m always talking about using sex acts, and especially the so-called taboo ones, to help us reconnect to ourselves and to spirit. Whenever we have repressed stuff and taboo around an area, there’s often a goldmine of energy waiting to be uncovered.
We can use these acts as conscious tools of personal growth and self-realization.
With That in Mind, Here Are Five New Ways to Look at Anal Sex:
#1. The Ass is the Seat of All Your Proverbial Shit
There’s a reason why we call people tight-asses. This is where they store all their unresolved stuff. The shit that weighs them down. The shit they haven’t let go of. The shit that keeps them emotionally and mentally constipated.
Anyone can benefit from a gentle and impassioned probing up the ass to open, unwind, and help you to integrate the things you’ve left behind. Enlightening you.
#2. Spiritual Transcendence
The only way up the ass is through deep, deep surrender and opening. You can’t force your way in there. You have to willingly open up and let go. This in itself is massively healing, centering, and rejuvenating.
Nothing awakens you quite like a cock up the ass. [Laughs] Though a finger or a small toy can also work wonders.
The act of continually opening, loosening, and releasing sends waves and reverberations through your body and your psyche. Your walls come down, and you feel more open to the flow of life. You’re open to your inner guidance and spiritual direction as you float out into the world beautifully unraveled. This is soul-fuck medicine.
#3. Anal Orgasms are as Powerful as Cervical Orgasms
You’ve probably heard me wax poetic about the power and pleasure of deep cervical orgasms and how these are essential, life-changing medicine for all women. So are anal orgasms, both in women and in men.
The level of cathartic release coming from the ass is huge and pleasurable. You can experience the same kind of wild, uncontrollable, emotional, spiritual, and physical ecstasy that comes with the highest-level cervical-type orgasm. You come out reborn.
The level of surrender that is required to get there then transfers out into every area of your life. You become more open and receptive and able to let go in areas where you might have been holding on too tight.
#4. It Builds Trust and Strengthens Your Bond as a Couple
Vaginas can lie. You can smother lube on them and enter them, and they forget what it means to say yes or no. Not so with the ass! The ass doesn’t lie. Unless you are fully ready to receive, your ass will be on clamp-down.
This is a great exercise in listening to yourself, building your step-by-step communication with your partner, and learning to intuit each other’s desires and energies during sex. The ass is vulnerability incarnate. It’s super-sensitive and delicate and full of a ton of nerve endings.
This means it needs to be handled with care. It also means that it has this capacity for off-the-charts pleasure. When you transgress this zone together, it brings you closer.
#5. The Only Place I Encourage Lube
Vaginas self-lubricate when they are emotionally and physically ready. Asses need assistance, so go nuts with the lube. There’s no such thing as too much ass lube. My lube of choice is organic coconut oil. Melt it down if it’s not at room temperature, and use lots of it. Lots and lots and lots.
Go slow, slower than you think you can, and then you’ll be on your way to anal enlightenment. The lightening of all your shit via your ass.
Here’s a tale from the field from one of our Well-F**ked All Stars, the lovely Denetra. She’s taken my Well-F**ked Woman Salon, and here’s her story about the life-transforming power of anal sex and how you can use sex and different sex acts as medicine.
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DENETRA: I always had a little bit of something about the anal thing. It was something my partner had initially asked for, and initially, I would kind of bargain with him. Like “Once a quarter.” [Laughs] He’d say, “I’ll wash your car. I’ll do whatever [laughs] I need to do.”
But over time, because of my hangups about it, it slowly faded off because I wasn’t really allowing myself to experience the pleasure that I really felt.
After one of the salons—I forget what the topic was—Kim was talking about looking at the indicators in your body as signs telling you what’s going on.
At the time, one of the things I was struggling with—I’d been having serious bodywork done—was that my jaw was completely clenched. My shoulders were so tight. Everything was just completely locked up, and after we got off the call that night, I sat there and thought about this tightness in my back. I said, “Yeah, I need to literally get the shit fucked out of me.”
And I went into the living room and said, “Would you f**k me in the ass?” And he said, “Sure.” And I swear, it was like three times that night. I don’t even think I went to sleep, and I had an early-morning meeting the next day. But I didn’t care. Because at the end of it, I walked into that meeting, I was super-relaxed, and I was like, “Hey, I’m here.” All the stress had melted away. All the tension and the tightness had completely dissipated from my body. It was quite amazing to feel how it broke all that energy up.
I can tell you that tension and tightness in my shoulders and jaw has never returned. It has never returned.
KIM: You too can be a Well-F**ked Woman. The salon starts today.
In the Well-F**ked Woman Salon, we go deeply into how you can use all sex acts consciously as ways to open and expand your entire life. Plus, I give you my step-by-step tutorials and secret pleasure tips for anal sex, deep-throating, the best blow job ever, hand jobs extraordinaire, and I will revitalize your entire sexual repertoire and give you the ultimate tool kit so you can fuck your way out of anything.
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