G-Spot Orgasms Tips and Techniques to Stimulate Her – Transcript
The G-spot, or the “Glee-spot,” as I like to call it.
This is one of the Loch Ness monsters of female orgasms. Actually, all of them are after the clitoris, hotly debated and highly coveted.
The “G” in G-spot is attributed to two different male physicians—De Graaf in the 1500s and Grafenberg in the 1950s. Each made significant discoveries in putting this pleasure zone on the map.
The G-spot is a spongy mass of tissue located about one to two inches inside the vagina on the anterior wall. It sits within the clitoral bulb, the wishbone of nerve endings that extends inside the vagina. I prefer to call this area the “Glee-spot” since it better reflects its purpose.
This orgasm is much more elusive than the clitoris for a couple of reasons.
Number one, women are frequently told that only some fortunate, blessed women can have G-spot orgasms, as though a little orgasm fairy comes along and decides to give you an orgasm. Just sort of a coincidence or something.
This is total bullshit. Every woman can have every type of orgasm. Indeed, they can have all eight of them that I’m going to share with you in this series. They just need to know that they can.
Many women opt out of trying, especially when they don’t succeed after several minutes or several attempts. They buy into this idea that they must just be one of the unlucky few or many who can’t do this. I’ve had countless women come to me who’ve had their very first Glee-spot orgasm the very night of the very day just because I told them they could, and they believed me.
G-spot orgasms require being emotionally open. With the clitoral orgasm, it’s a largely physical experience, and the G-spot is much more emotional. It’s not just a string of mechanical actions. Where the clitoris can be achieved pretty much just by physical stimulation, the G-spot insists that a woman feel safe, open, and vulnerable. If you can’t get to these places in yourself, the orgasm will not come.
To get to the level of surrender required to go over the edge with this orgasm, you need to feel at ease with yourself and with your partner. If there’s any unresolved stuff that’s sitting in the ethers around you, you will not get there. If you don’t feel genuinely safe or comfortable, you will not get there.
You might have, in the process of stimulating the G-spot and the tissue around it, intense emotions come up when you are touched there for any extended period of time. Some women cry, some laugh hysterically, or they just get overwhelmed with feeling, and they stop because it’s so intense.
You need to be willing to go into those feelings. That’s what’s going to take you over the edge.
This orgasm can also take 10, 20, or 30 minutes to get there, especially if a woman hasn’t had one before. That’s common.
The G-spot is also the home of the fabled squirting phenomenon. Yes, ejaculate that can shoot across the room. Again, let me hear everyone repeat this: A skill that every single woman can develop.
G-spot orgasm tips.
Inside the vagina, along the anterior wall, curl your fingers around the bend. You’ll feel for a bend inside the vagina and use two fingers and a kind of come-hither, flicking motion that can, as you get more into it, become stronger and more aggressive.
Just like the ridges that you feel on the roof of your mouth, that’s what you want to feel for in that area. Start slowly and build up in your intensity.
As a male partner, or whoever your partner is, you need to be ready for whatever comes out of your woman. Emotions, fluids, intensity, tears, laughter, hysteria. All these things signify stuck emotions and energy that’s been put into the vagina, and you’re helping to bring it out.
These orgasms for women are so deep and emotional and therapeutic. They are very powerful. That’s why I call vaginal orgasms life-changing orgasms because they catalyze stuck energy and they create transformation in the woman.
For more on how to achieve G-spot orgasms and many, many more orgasms, check out my online salon, How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman, for the Orgasmapedia on all things orgasm.
If you like this video, give it a two-finger flick or rub or thumb or whatever. [Laughs] Leave a comment for me below, but just not, “Hey, Kim, not all women can have orgasms!” Because truly, if you think that, you’re wrong. You’re full of shit in the best possible way. Let me show you otherwise. [Laughs]
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Wow!! A few months shy of my 50th BD and I have never had a G-spot orgasm… and I did believe that I must be part of the unlucky not-able-to-orgasm club. Your explanation of having to feel completely open, honest and safe makes more sense as to my lack of orgasm. I will definitely need to work on making myself vulnerable and open. So looking forward to watching and learning more from you.
I feel a small sense of “I can do this” now. LOL
Great stuff.. Every guy should study
How to make there lady happy… Be
A real man! Put your lady first..
Awesome, friendly, real and welcoming video. I look forward to checking out your site with my non orgasmic, love of my life!
Thank you Kim for that wonderful educational short clip that I was able to watch of the website I’m gonna share this with my girlfriend and I think we will be able to obtain the G spot orgasm we talked about it we’ve tried but never quite got there but I think with the your help will make it thank you have a great day
My awesome boyfriend got me to have several G spot orgasms last night. It was amazing. He’s the only one that wanted to take care of my needs. I will say that he is paralyzed from right above his stomach down. So we are experimenting and learning each other.
I didn’t have my first g spot orgasam until I was 40! Omg!
Woooooooooow. I had my second meeting of my Psych 12 class today (“Human Sexuality”) as part of my Sociology major. I skimmed through the chapters and topics and saw some interesting stuff that pertains to this and other aspects of our sexual selves. I had also heard of this G-Spot phenomena but didn’t understand it totally as a concept beyond something “carnal” people speculated about or claim exists as part of some extraordinary sexual experience.
But the “transformative” part of how you described this makes sense beyond just pleasure. Without getting too deep or insightful, suffice it to say that people are spiritual and experiences are linked and occur they way they do-physically and otherwise-in nature for a reason. And for some experiencing this and for others just understanding this is a good thing. HS will likely not be my focus after the academics, social change is. However, I believe that people understanding their physical selves and being able to release negative energy in this and other physical and spiritual ways, and escape from misinformation and misconceptions about self-both physical and spiritual may in some way improve the overall well-being of societies and perhaps somehow limit and possibly seriously diminish some of the core isms that cause some social changes to be necessary in the first place.
Apollo
Thank you! this is great info.