No HRT, No GLP1s, No Peptides: I’m a Superfreak! – Transcript
I’m multi-orgasmic, can fuck my partner from across the planet, I surf big waves, lift heavy at the gym and weigh what I did in high school.
I’m supa-freaky!
I’ve never taken any kind of hormone medication.
Never taken GLP1s.
Never taken peptides.
I have no plans to.
I’ve been clean and sober for 33 years.
No drugs. No alcohol.
I quit drinking coffee when I was 19.
And I’m the supa-est freaky freak that you know.
I don’t take pharmaceuticals.
I don’t use pain relief medicines.
I haven’t had any in my house for decades.
She’s supa-freaky!!!
I moved away from the allopathic model in my teens.
Not because I grew up in some au naturel, holistic household.
I didn’t.
At all.
But because I could see, even as a child, that whenever we’d “go to the doctor”, they had no idea what the FUCK they were talking about.
They could never, ever figure out the source of a complaint.
And they never, ever had a solution for it.
Sure, they might prescribe some medication.
But they could never actually heal or cure… anything.
Not ever.
Could they sew things back together?
Yep, I’ll give them that.
Good seamstresses. Great with a needle and thread.
But that’s about it.
When I began turning my attention to all things alternative, I self-studied all I could about herbs, homeopathy and even the idea of meditation as a way to self-heal.
THAT was exciting to me.
The notion that I had the power to heal and balance anything—and everything—within me; and, the idea that my body was a moment-to-moment, living holograph of all my of thoughts, feelings and experiences.
These concepts turn me on.
Because it brings the power back to me.
If I created it, then I can fix it.
Essentially, “illness” as we understand it—at least from a more eastern, rather than western perspective—is a sum total of unresolved traumas, suppressed emotions and unhealed wounds.
All of that compounds and writes itself on the body and shows up as symptoms, ailments and injuries.
A big post-it note of all the things people have filed away “for later”.
To further take control of my own healing, I self-studied herbs and homeopathy and created my own home first aid kits.
I planted a garden full of herbs to make my own apothecary.
I even planted herbs to use for herbal birth control.
The idea of having—and owning—this self-healing power has always been tremendously exciting for me.
This is the total opposite of “going to the doctor” and prostrating myself at their feet, begging them to tell me what’s going on inside my own body.
Feeling that helplessness of being at their mercy in some way, waiting for them to bestow a wisdom they simply never had.
No fucking thank you.
Like I said, it was clear to me even as a CHILD that something was off with that whole system.
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Decades ago, there was a series of studies done with people who had multiple personality disorders.
Each personality not only had its own behavior traits, but also its own physical maladies.
For example, there was someone who, in one of their personalities had diabetes.
And the other personalities did not.
It was fully measurable in the one that had it.
And completely gone without a trace in the personalities that did not.
Someone had a personality that had high blood pressure.
Their other personalities did not.
And so on.
This is one of the most inspirational, empowering things I’ve ever come across.
1) It tells us that WE have complete control over what happens in our bodies.
And
2) We can change these things in an instant. At will.
The trick is how conscious we are, how much responsibility we are willing to take, and what kinds of defense mechanisms or narratives we’ve built up over the years that make it harder for us to WILL transformation and healing—in a proverbial instant.
And… how much we buy into victim consciousness and let it run our lives.
With the example of the person who had the “diabetic” and “non-diabetic” personalities, the physiological switch over would happen within minutes of the “personality” change.
The blood chemistry, all the mechanisms that were indicative of that condition, would transform in a flash.
Again, I found—and still find—this INCREDIBLY exciting and inspiring.
Because it means that the power is all in me.
And in you.
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One of the biggest—if not THE biggest—addictions humans have is victim consciousness.
Rationalizing a condition—be it health, wealth or circumstances.
Blaming other people.
Or blaming “biology”.
It’s honestly so fucking boring.
And look.
Everyone has blind spots.
We ALL do.
We have places where it’s harder for us to see the truth, to feel into our own power and claim it.
These are our own personal challenges and areas for growth in this lifetime.
The entire allopathic medical system is based on the notion that YOU have NO power.
Your genetics determine your fate.
Your gender determines your fate.
Your hormones determine your fate.
Some random fucking bad stretch of luck determines your fate.
But never YOU.
My response is:
Fuck that.
So with all of these supplements and drugs, it doesn’t matter to me how “natural” or “safe” or “bioidentical” people want to claim they are—and I’d say that is massively up for debate—I don’t care.
Because the fundamental rationale behind that belief system is:
1) There are inherent flaws in the human body. The human body is dumb and can’t fix itself. Because: science.
2) The only way you can fix anything is with drugs you take. Forever. Because there are no actual “cures” for anything.
It’s a fuck of a business model.
And shocking to me that so many people buy into it so gullibly.
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Let’s talk about each of these categories for a bit.
Starting with the HRT narrative.
I’ve spoken about this in a few episodes already.
HRT: Should You Take It?
Perimenopause Is a Scam
And then we’ve interviewed people who have gone off it and seized control of their own health:
Coming Off HRT with Vaginal Kung Fu
and
My Cervix Is My CEO – Which was last week’s episode.
In order to align with the ideology that supports the taking of hormones, you have to believe that the female body is flawed.
The entire allopathic system is so incredibly violent toward the female body—and especially the female reproductive system.
It starts muzzling women—no, scratch that—girls, with fake hormones from her teenage years.
It can’t wait to get its hands on her reproductive organs, persuading women to part with them on the operating table/sacrificial altar.
And then it wants her to remain drugged for her entire lifetime.
Let’s just posit, shall we, that a woman’s reproductive organs are portals to another dimension.
Because they are.
When she’s connected to them, she becomes a channel for higher intuition and the unseen realms.
She taps into this connection naturally and even deeper with her monthly menstruation.
And then she becomes a direct portal to it in menopause when she no longer menstruates and her body isn’t using all that potent energy to prepare for a pregnancy each month.
She can access this channel anytime, anywhere.
Recreating herself post-motherhood.
This is the role we see in tribal cultures:
The matriarch. The wise woman.
NONE of this happens when a woman drugs herself.
Whether it’s Midol or HRT or hormonal birth control
It all asks as a mask, a muzzle and an interference.
None of this raw power is available to her now.
And so it inverts within her.
Causing damage and destruction.
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As I said in these other episodes, the key is to be operating at an Anami-style gourmet level of well-fuckedness.
This allows your body to function at its optimum—the way its meant to—and as a perpetual hormone factory.
Since your sex hormones are the foundation of EVERYTHING, and how we create EVERYTHING on this plane, then so long as we keep those thriving in a well-fucked state, all is well.
Let’s be clear here, well-fucked in Anami Land means:
– Having regular, gourmet sex. How do you know if you’re having gourmet sex? Did it change your life? Then yes. If it didn’t, then no.
– It can be sex with your partner or sex with yourself.
– Vaginal orgasms. G-Spot, cervical and squirting. Anal, nipple. But mainly cervical. Clitoral orgasms are not gourmet sex.
– Not jacking off to porn, fantasy, using a vibrator or trying to get off as quickly as possible. Instead, we stay grounded in our own bodies—and our partner’s—and connect in the present. All of these other things create dissociation. This is the most base use of our sexual energy. The only way to truly use your sexual energy as a pro-creative source, is when you elevate it.
How do we do this?
By allowing ourselves to surrender and be vulnerable.
The ONLY way you can harness the rebirthing, pro-creative, change-your-life power of sex is through YOU opening yourself up.
That’s why my work doesn’t apply to casual sex situations, or to couples having “perfunctory”, “tick the boxes” sex.
Go deep or go home.
Or, go deep to come home.
In terms of the GLP1 game.
Look, I’ve been a gym girlie since I was 19.
I’m 55 now.
In the last 35 years, I’ve had played with some Pilates and power yoga, but I’ve always come back to the gym.
And now there’s all this information out there about how and how muscle is its own myokine factory
This is analogous to what I was just speaking about with your sex life being your own hormone factory.
You get the same effect through building muscle.
You can BUY muscle.
You have to earn it.
Your muscles are actually an endocrine system.
AS you use and build them, you:
– Generate metabolic regulation and improve insulin sensitivity
- Produce an anti-inflammatory response
- Strengthen your immune system
- Stimulate tissue repair
- Boost cognition and neuro-protection
Which is fucking amazing.
If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I never succumbed to the body positivity bullshit.
My response has always been:
You, too, can go to the gym.
I’m not going to endorse your choice NOT to go to the gym.
So don’t bother trying.
Anyone who has a committed fitness routine knows the blood, sweat and self-discipline that it takes.
I RESPECT that.
Immensely.
I LOVE weight training for the same reason I love surfing—at least one of the same reasons.
There’s always another level to go.
There’s always a heavier weight, and I’m essentially competing against myself.
In surfing, there’s always a bigger wave. People surf 100-foot waves!
I’ve got a long way to go before I’ll feel like I’ve plateaued!
I guess the point of my love for these things is that they continually challenge me and offer me room to grow.
I love the expression: If it doesn’t challenge me, it does’t change me.
I can also make this parallel in cervical orgasms.
The amount of ecstasy and enlightenment you can get from them is infinite.
You just keep going deeper, getting higher and experiencing more bliss.
To the point where all of these feeling overflow into your daily life.
All of these “habits” – weight training, surfing and of course Anami style fucking and life-changing orgasms — are literal neurotransmitter and hormone factories.
I don’t DO them because of that.
But I guess in a sense, that IS part of why I do them, and have, for decades.
The sense of inner connection, of feeling amazing as fuck.
And the “science” affirms all of this is true.
Though these activities, we BUILD everything we need to thrive.
I”m always interested in optimizing. How do I become the best version of myself, here and now? And forever more?
And I’ve always felt intuitively, viscerally, that this is a pursuit that never ends.
We gain traction, milestones and the ultimate gift of feeling amazing and connected to ourselves and source.
It’s definitely a mindset shift though.
If you’ve been raised to believe—and hey, our entire culture is set up to facilitate this belief—that you are powerless, and the only healing ever available to you is through an outside source, then you have some work to do.
And honestly, I believe this is one of the deepest spiritual lessons we can learn.
That ultimately WE are responsible for everything that happens to us.
And the moment we take that idea on, and realize that it actually GIVES us power, is when everything changes.
Let me tell you a secret and shortcut.
Getting fucked.
Getting thoroughly, artfully, heartfully pounded, loved up, adored, cherished and dickmatized.
The fastest way to connect to this true and deeper source of your power is through your sexual energy.
And as a woman, it’s INSIDE the vagina. Deep inside. Like cervix-deep.
Nothing self-actualizes you, pulls you OUT of victim consciousness and OUT of this dependency on drugs, pills, excuses and rationalizations, faster than getting FUCKED.
Yes, I will continue to lift weights.
Yes, I will continue to surf.
But in Anami Land, so many of our successes stories, our Well-F**ked All Stars achieve major transformation not by changing any of their lifestyle habits, except the one that GIVES life:
Getting well-fucked.
They often go on to adopt new and healthier lifestyle habits because they’re now operating through the principle of eros, rather than thanatos.
Freud talked about eros as being our natural drive to grow, evolve, create, and experience pleasure. He actually called it “libido”.
He spoke of thanatos being the death instinct. How we self-sabotage and move toward destruction.
Once you liberate your erotic energy, this drive toward your highest evolution, your growth, healing and elevation begins to permeate every part of your life.
It starts with your body, your reproductive ailments—which were ever only an INVERSION of this life-force, sexual, pro-creative energy.
Once you reverse the flow, you can direct this growth energy to yourself and EVERYTHING around you.
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If we look at the the “body positivity” and GLP1s trajectory, we see how an entire social movement was built to support people not working out, not going to the gym, not exercising, not eating right.
And people called it “body positivity”.
The reality is, that it takes a lot of work to build—and maintain—a legendary, fit physique.
I know that and so I’ve always respected it.
Anyone who has built one knows that.
And we all respect it. Because it’s hard won.
People who have never done it, love having a story that gives them permission not to bother.
It was the McDonald’s sponsored “body pos” movement that did that for them.
And now, with the proliferation of GLP1 drugs, the Ozempic craze, all sorts of people have been able to “buy” their weight loss.
They can’t “buy” muscle tone.
In fact, that’s one of the sacrifices of taking these drugs, is that it indiscriminately removes fat—and muscle.
And then suddenly the “body positivity” conversation stopped.
No one was talking about it anymore.
Mainly, because some of its loudest—and fattest—proponents weren’t fat anymore.
They’d injected their Ozempic, lost a lot of weight and now had no investment to justify NOT going to the gym.
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In Anami Land, one of the major side effects of getting well-fucked is that people lose weight.
At remarkable rates.
These are often people who have cleaned up their diet and exercise, and still struggle with extra weight.
What is the extra weight?
Is it self-loathing?
Is it an accumulated heaviness in them that is hard to shake?
Do they start a journey and lose motivation halfway through?
We have stories of people losing up to 70 pounds through doing my salons. Lose Belly Fat Overnight. With Orgasms.
Let’s think back to these multiple personality cases and how their body chemistry could instantly change.
If someone is getting well-fucked, what happens?
- They become their own hormone factory. Our reproductive hormones are our “mother” hormones. They support the entire system. We build and generate them constantly through having great sex.
Not “bust out an orgasm to go to sleep” or to “destress” sex. That kind of sex actually depletes our hormones.
Just ask any bald guy.
If we’re. Having sex for long enough – hence the wisdom of the Anami weekly 3-hour sex date—then we’re cultivating dopamine—the precursor to testosterone, oxytocin, prolactin, endorphins.
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If you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex, in which SURRENDER is the key ingredient, then we’re also signaling to our system that we are living in a state of SAFETY.
We are secure enough to open, relax and trust in ourselves, our partners and in life.
THIS builds a hormonal reservoir of all of our peak hormones and neurotransmitters that keep us in an optimum state of flow.
NOTHING drains us faster than living in a perpetual place of anxiety, stress and cortisol.
ALL of our hormone production gets paused so our system can make cortisol.
That’s it. Front and center, that’s’ the priority.
The FASTEST and most powerful way to bring your system into harmony, flow, safety is to having loving, gourmet style, open yourself fully sex with your partner.
Yes, you can have it with yourself. And I you don’t have a partner, then you ought to be gourmet sex fucking yourself on the regular.
But you’ll go further, faster, deeper with a conscious partner.
The metaphysics of surrender.
The energy of surrender has a biological expression: it generates well-being hormones.
As we repeat these safety signals over and over again, as we keep building them within us, daily, our system keeps producing these hormones.
The very hormones that the medical model tries to tell us that we “stop producing” and that’s why you need to buy them at the “hormone store”.
Get fucked, bitch.
No, I really mean that.
If you were getting truly, madly, deeply fucked, you wouldn’t need to buy your hormones.
Ask any of our well-fucked all stars who’ve transcended these stops and have fucked themselves over to the other side.
So beyond the physiology, is the energetic act of surrender.
This is where the spiritual and sexual come together in my work.
The ultimate act, the place where we find the most power, in any spiritual pursuit, is in the act of surrender.
WE learn to let go of what we know, let go of our cultivated personality, our ego and step that aside so that a power greater than us can flow through us.
This is the basis of “thy will be done.”
And “thy will, not mine, be done.”
We acknowledge that in our human-ness, we don’t have all the answers.
But.
If we can tap into the flow of the universe, the flow of creation, we can ride that wave and have access to a level of wisdom, consciousness, intuitive brilliance that we otherwise do not.
So that act of surrender becomes a profound spiritual and somatic experience.
THIS is what I discovered early on in my sexual and orgasmic journey—that the price of admission for the deeper vaginal orgasms—especially cervical—was a full-body, full-being, emotional, psycho, spiritual opening and surrender.
Nothing less.
And because I was somehow good at that, I was good at having these orgasms.
I never read anything, I had no “how to” on these.
I didn’t even know what orgasms really were.
But I had them. Because I knew how to surrender in those moments.
I knew how to jump and let go and toss it all into the fire.
Anyone whose ever had any kind of spiritual awakening, will tell you that it was THIS: the final layer of their letting to, that brought them over the edge and opened them up to a whole new reality.
This deep surrender is the price of admission for spiritual and sexual enlightenment.
You choose to let go of everything you are and everything you could become and toss it all into the fire.
You go all in.
It’s like putting all your money, all your chips on the table and trusting that the act of such deep letting go is so therapeutic, so healing, so life-giving, that nothing else can touch it.
And in so doing, YOU become untouchable.
You, in the courage of that moment, become imbued with a permanent level of courage.
This is the “dying daily” that one of those big books talks about.
And you can do it here too with la petite mort.
Alchemy. Burning up old baggage and “weight”.
Our all stars talk about how fucking is better than therapy.
Look, I think therapy is great.
But if you want the deepest, somatic reset, nothing beats cataclysmic sex.
You are literally playing with the creative, life-force energy of the universe.
So use it to rebirth yourself.
I’ve seen it in my own body sculpting.
How after an encounter, or especially after a sex weekend or week, my body has reshaped itself.
Not from working out.
Not from the “calories burned” by staying up all night in the bed gym.
But because something within me was catalyzed and loved up so massively that it’s now changing me from the inside out.
My cells are rebirthing and reforming and reconfiguring on a higher level, bursting into a higher frequency.
My whole being changes.
My muscle tone, my shape, my carriage, my walk, my voice, my outlook.
It all shifts and upgrades.
Our Well-F**ked All Stars see this too.
They heal everything from PCOS and endometriosis to ditching their hormones for “peri” and menopause, to eradicating their depression and losing dozens of pounds.
All through the life-changing alchemy of being well-fucked.
They’ll be the first to say that they did NOTHING different in terms of their diet, exercise, use of other healing modalities.
Nah.
They just got well-fucked.
Again, being well-fucked in the Anami sense of the term, is having deep, rejuvenating, consciousness-altering, psychedelic, massive reset sex.
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And then the peptide thing.
Not even remotely interested.
Coming out of an era where the government was trying to coerce everyone to self-inject mysterious substances into their bodies, to people now volunteering to inject mysterious substances into their bodies, is a hard pass for me.
“But Kim! They’re tested!”
People can argue all they want about how “clean” these products are but I don’t give a shit.
A. I don’t believe they are
and
B. I still believe that my body can generate everything it needs through my own activities.
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You can build it or buy it.
But actually, you can’t.
The LIE is that you can buy it.
You have to build it.
Telling someone you can buy it is the real snake oil.
I’m telling you—and our Well-F**ked All Stars are telling you—that you can fuck your way to it.
Do you need to take one of my programs to learn how to?
Maybe you do.
But once you have that skill set, you’re set for life.
You don’t need to keep coming back to the Anami pharmacy forever.
The Anami principles? Sure.
But once you put them to use, you can build your own medicine and aura of invincibility. Become Unfuckwithable from within.
And you can live there.
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The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration in a few weeks!
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In my 10-week Well-F**ked Woman Salon, you’ll learn how to:
- Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting
- Channeling your creative, orgasmic, sexual energy into your life and work, accessing your genius
- Clear sexual blocks and release your unprocessed “weight”
- Master the technical skills of deep throating, anal sex and wild hand jobs and how to use these sex acts to accelerate your personal growth and transformation
- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
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