5 Ways to Open Your Woman Sexually – Transcript
Five Ways to Open a Woman Sexually and Keep Her Open.
You’ve all heard the phrase, “Behind every good man is a woman.” Well, behind every good woman is a man on his knees, ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got. It makes her a better woman, and she, in turn, makes him a better man.
When I hear a man complaining about his clingy, bitchy partner, all that tells me is that he isn’t fucking her enough, and the fucking needs to be thorough, artful, and heartful; otherwise the woman will show signs of FUKME: Females utterly freaking out about absolutely nothing due to lack of phallic shapes near, in, or around their vaginas, leading to cataclysmic psychopathic moments of intense and troubling explosions of repressed sexual tension. And everyone will suffer.
Here Are Five Things a Guy Can Do That Will Eradicate FUKME in the Woman:
1. Fuck Her Frequently.
If I had to give you an honest answer about how often is ideal, I’d say twice a day, morning and evening. It’s something we call the sexual prayer, which is an old Taoist concept.
That’s my ideal anyway, and I like the concept of morning and evening rejuvenation, so it’s this constant source of nourishment, like food.
Now, I know that might seem like a lot for some people, but just find what works for you. It’s probably more than you think.
Before you go telling me that you have work and children and chores and asking who has the time to have sex every day, let me tell you about a couple who recently came to one of my retreats. They have five children; they both work at extremely high-powered jobs. He’s a CEO. She’s a high-ranking corporate executive, and they have sex every day. So I do not accept your excuses.
For inspiration on building in sex throughout different times of the day, especially the morning, check out my morning sex video.
2. Satiate Her.
How long is long enough? I personally like the long, all-night, or at least several- hours haul, but shorter sessions have their place too. Especially if you are having frequent sex, then the shorter sessions are perfectly acceptable.
For women to reach the deeper levels of vaginal orgasms, they need extended intercourse, so a minimum of 15 minutes and ideally up to 30 or 45 minutes a session.
You’ve heard me repeatedly address that vaginal orgasms are where it’s at. These are the orgasms that truly lead a woman into well-fucked territory. This is the space in herself where she gives back to you tenfold, and she truly becomes the good woman behind the man. So it’s worth putting in the time to get her there, which means you need stamina.
As a man, one of the most important sexual skills you can develop is the ability to go as long as you want and to come if and when you want, which means no premature ejaculation. Until you do this, your woman won’t really trust you. If you bail after three or five or even 15 minutes, she’s not going to really be able to go deeply into herself. Every time she tries to, or starts to get close to this abyss of deeper orgasm, you pull the rug out from under her.
She’ll eventually stop trusting you, and she won’t want to have sex with you because that’s what happened. She opens herself, and then she gets let down. She opens herself, and then she gets left down.
Anyone can move their hips up and down and come in 60 seconds. If you want to truly open your woman to the potential that she has, so she becomes a person who supports you in your life and gives to you unconditionally and energizes you, rather than depletes you, you need to fuck her with heart.
If you fuck her unconsciously with your only goal being your orgasm, she’ll build up resentment toward you that will eat at your relationship. This shows up in nagging, in depression, in sarcastic, belittling comments. Trust me, women are very good at this. [Laughs]
If she’s doing that to you, it’s because she’s sexually unsatisfied and she does not feel loved. Even though you might not know why she’s upset with you, and she might not even know consciously why she’s upset with you, believe me, she’ll show it.
You need to love her with your cock and your heart, ideally at the same time, so look into her eyes and adore her as you fuck her. Hold onto her face, stroke her hair, make her look at you, gaze into her eyes, and convey all of that love and adoration. Tell her how amazing she is. Tell her how much you love her. Yes, during sex. [Laughs] And penetrate the core of her with the core of you.
This doesn’t always have to be in the midst of slow, lovemaking-type sex. You can fuck her fast and furious. As long as your heart is in the game, she will feel it.
4. Keep the Sexual Simmer Going in Between Sex.
It’s so crucial as a man to understand that once a woman opens to you in deep sex, she really surrenders. Her heart is open; her vagina is open. You need to show her that you’re there to catch her if she falls and as she falls.
Even if you’ve been together for a long time, hopefully you’re still hitting new sexual peaks all the time and new levels of vulnerability. This still applies to you.
The best thing that you can do as a man to nurture this growth and to let your woman know that you’re there is to perpetuate the sex between the sex. This is something that you do outside of the bedroom, leading up to the bedroom, in between all of your sexual encounters. You’re living, bringing that energy up and rising it, and having it just hum between you all the time.
So bring that masculine energy, text her throughout the day, and tell her how much you love her, how beautiful she is. Tell her how much she means to you. All of these things help her to feel safe and to remain open, so all of the crazy and amazing, transcendent, cataclysmic sexual places that you come to build on each other, and then you strengthen your relationship over time.
Build the simmer during sex, otherwise known as foreplay. I saw a brilliant headline: Most women fake orgasms because most men fake foreplay.
There is a saying in old Taoist sexual writings that, sexually speaking, men are like fire. They’re quick to ignite, and they’re quick to extinguish. Women, on the other hand, are like water. They’re slow to boil, but they keep on boiling.
So we want to meet someplace in between: Men learn how to build stamina, and women learn how to live more at a simmer. You can help with this.
5. Foreplay Starts Long Before You Even Hit the Bedroom.
You can flirt with her, text her, send her suggestive messages and photos. You can plan out some activities for your rendezvous.
The key is for a man to be able to last long enough to get the woman to boiling. Not only is foreplay touching other parts of the body besides the breast or vagina, but it’s also about tossing out a few smaller orgasms before going for the bigger and deeper ones.
In an ideal sex session, a woman has at least a few orgasms, and in the land of not just having quick, easy orgasms, but orgasms that are full-body, ecstasy, and change your life, we have a different approach. We want both of your orgasms to energize you, connect you, and be the source of your nourishment.
Rather than just this release of tension or busting one out or having sex just because you’re a couple and you should probably do it at least once a week or something like that—that’s way too little—but anyway, we want to change the focus to this amazing, uplifting, enlightening, life-changing experience. You can have that all the time. Just like with any gourmet meal, it takes some cultivation.
If you want to learn more about how to sexually open your woman, how to build your stamina, and how to give her multiple vaginal orgasms, including squirting and ejaculation orgasms, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men free video series and my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon.
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