Sex, Momentum, Physics
It’s physics and sex day today.
I’m always looking for the parallels between sex, and, well, everything.
Today let’s look at Newton and his Laws of Motion.
“Newton’s laws of motion are three physical laws that together laid the foundation for classical mechanics. They describe the relationship between a body and the forces acting upon it, and its motion in response to said forces.” (Wiki)
“The relationship between a body and the forces acting upon it.”
Law #1: Inertia and momentum. When an object is still, it has a tendency to remain still. When in motion, it will keep in motion.
The secret of this law is the kickstart.
I hired a new physical trainer last week. She’s awesome.
I’m a very disciplined person, and normally I love to exercise and have no problem doing it daily.
I’ve had a number of injuries in the past few years and it’s interrupted my exercise momentum as I’ve been rehabbing them.
I knew I needed to get back in the saddle.
I set up training sessions each week to fire up my momentum again.
Even after the first session, I was revved up and inspired. I went for a 10k run the next day and a killer yoga class the day after.
All it took was a little scheduling and a hauling in of an expert ass-kicker.
When we met, I said, “Hey, I teach weight training too! For vaginas!”
Since she was all cool with that, we’ll be training together for a while.
My unfiltered sex conversations are a great vetting mechanism for humans I keep in my sphere.
These are all mechanisms to kickstart your momentum.
Even the habit of the one weekly sex date can carry over and not only feed the rest of your week, but get you in the mindset to keep doing it on other days too.
Law #2: Force = Mass x Acceleration.
Or in layman’s terms:
F = MA
Fucking = Massive Acceleration
Fucking (good, gourmet-style) = Massive Acceleration in every part of your life.
Meaning, if you are having regular, cataclysmic sex, it is an amplifying effect that spreads out and exponentially uplifts every other part of your existence.
Fucking physics, man. It’s the best.
Law #3: For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
I like to think of this as the Law of Karma.
Everything that you put out into the world will come back to you. Today, this week or maybe next lifetime.
The more aware you are of this law, the easier it is to make the connections between your actions and thoughts, and their impact on the world.
This is about taking personal responsibility for everything you do and say and think.
Yes, even think.
Our thoughts are broadcast out to the world as loudly as our actions. You can send someone love or doubt or anger.
They’ll receive every ounce of it.
Sometimes I forget about this law and let my thoughts run wild.
Sigh. Silly girl.
Then I remember that thoughts are weapons of mass creation or destruction, just as surely as words and actions are.
They are felt across the ethers and the planet.
So be very aware that anything you think is the same as doing it. If you have things come back at you in your life that you don’t like and aren’t sure where they came from, take inventory. See if there was anything that you set in motion first.
I often say that in relationship, each person can’t just take 50% responsibility. You have to take 100%.
And if both of you take 100%, you’ll even all things out.
Once in a while, science gets something right about sex.
Image: Jen Stark, “Whole”