Multi-orgasmic, plenty of lubrication and the ass of a 20-year-old.
Remember that movie that came out a few years ago? “This is 40”? Bemoaning the lives of 40-something women as some kind of juiceless, sagging state of existence?
I defy these stereotypes all the time.
Aging is another area where there is a normalization of dysfunction and ill health.
While I’m all about embracing what is, “what is” doesn’t need to be a substandard state of being.
You can still be a wildly sexual, super fit force of nature.
There is an idea in North America of the obsolescence of age, which is a great incentive for people to try and buy youth.
I get mine for free!
But the dominant messages are that women “of a certain age”/ menopausal/post-menopausal women are:
– Not fit
– Not wet/lubricated
– Not sexual – it’s “normal” to have no libido
Oh, and they have their internal organs removed.
Not buying into that.
I plan on being a fit, active, healthy, multi-orgasmic woman for as long as I live!
The 90-something yoga teachers and 80-something gym bunnies—these are my role models.
That’s “normal” to me.
Listen to more on age-defying and the new era of NO APOLOGIES for being awesome, in this week’s podcast:
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1:03 Is it possible to be sexually voracious and lubricate past the age of 40? Hint: Yes!
1:15 Aging is an area where society normalizes dysfunction
2:41 You can create your life through radical self-responsibility
3:37 Does Kim have children?? Has she been through menopause??
4:47 We feature our Well-F**ked All-Stars on the podcast because they are living proof of how sexual energy can transform one’s life. I’m not making this stuff up!
5:29 Having babies, postpartum and menopause are not excuses for ill-health
5:55 How did we get to a place where we shame and apologize for success? It’s bullshit.
Had an orgasmic birth? Have a hot 48-year-old ass? Have a raging libido? Good for you, don’t apologize.
8:51 My role models are the 90-year-old yoga teachers, 80-year-old gym bunnies, the 72-year-old man who took up Tantra for the first time, the women in their 60s gushing lubrication and raising their libido after taking up yoni eggs—this is normal
9:42 Every moment in life is an opportunity for change, and the doorway is always open—you just need to walk through