TRANSCRIPT – The Cock Whisperer
An ode to *some* of the cocks I’ve loved before.
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My love of cock goes very deep. My unbridled adoration of the male reproductive organ usually transcends anything any man who has been with me, has ever experienced.
I love up those cocks so wild and so hard, that they forget who they were, and are self-realized into who they truly are.
Yes, I believe it is my duty to self-actualize every cock I come into contact with.
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I didn’t always love cock.
I mean, I liked it well enough.
But I didn’t know I could truly LOVE it.
Or FALL IN love with it.
When I see magazine articles and YouTube videos about blow job tips, I think, huh.
I mean, technique can be helpful. Everyone likes to throw a new maneuver into their game.
But the heart and soul of cock love, and its life-changing power, comes from within.
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I was madly, deeply, smitten with Michael.
Mind, body, spirit.
I loved every inch of him.
It was during one particularly expressive oral sex session, that I found myself in a cock frenzy.
A trance of cock.
I was all-consumed.
I was totally out of my mind, in my body, in my mouth, no thoughts, just pure, frenzied, wild-lovemaking to his cock.
Time went by like it was nothing.
Half an hour? An hour?
Who knows?
From that day forward, I couldn’t get enough of his cock.
I couldn’t walk by it without at least stroking it.
Or dropping to my knees to put it in my mouth.
I was in love.
I mean it.
I was in love with Michael.
And I was in love with his cock.
I had two distinct relationships going on:
One with Michael.
And one with his cock.
I missed them both when they weren’t around.
When we broke up, I was devastated.
To have lost Michael.
And perhaps even more.
To have lost his cock.
I mourned them both.
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After that, my affinity for cock had taken on a life of its own.
And, like with Michael, they had relationships of their own.
Me and the owner of the cock.
And with the cock itself.
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I began to see the life-changing effect that this cock love had both on the man.
And on his cock.
If women are insecure about their breasts, or other body parts, for men, the epicentre of their insecurity is their cock.
And like how women internalize their unresolved issues around sexuality and femininity in their vaginas and reproductive organs, men do the same: they internalize their own self-doubts, traumas and negative experiences about their sexuality and their masculinity into their cocks.
This can all be healed.
Through devoted cock love.
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Fast forward, and I met a man who told me he was “anorgasmic.”
Meaning, he couldn’t have an orgasm.
This was apparently a labelled, “clinical” condition.
Hard as he tried.
He’d have sex for hours, and he just could not come.
“That’s AWESOME!!!, I said.”
Imagine that, a guy who can fuck me for hours nonstop.
That wasn’t the reaction he usually got.
He said that women threw things at him in frustration and felt insulted that he wouldn’t come.
I was incredulous.
This was my dream scenario: non-stop fucking.
The guy had a gift.
Except that with me, he did come.
Sigh.
First time in years.
Why?
Because I loved and accepted his cock like nobody had ever loved and accepted it before.
I gave it so much love that it forgot about all its problems and worries and just gave into the moments of adoration, and it began to love itself.
And come into itself.
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Then there was Bobby, who was quite well-endowed, by anyone’s standards.
But no one had ever loved his genitals, least of all him.
He haltingly asked me about his genital size.
I assured him that he was gorgeous and colossal.
In fact, I loved up his cock so much, that it grew.
When he met me, he was only partially occupying his cock.
And thus, only partially occupying his erection.
I adored his cock night and day.
I pushed appointments back to be with it.
His cock lit up my vagina and lit up my world.
I was in love with it.
And he fell in love with his cock too.
Soon, he was strutting around the house, fully erect, naked. Proud.
He was owning his cock.
He was owning his sexuality.
His erection grew another 1/2 inch.
His confidence grew much more than that.
With a fully occupied cock, he was now able to fully occupy me.
That’s what a woman deeply wants: to be fully claimed and occupied.
Without apology.
With fierceness.
And with love.
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Yes, my loves.
Cock love grows cock.
It grows a couple of things:
- The actual cock size.
- The size of a man’s confidence.
I have seen cocks grow anywhere from a few mm to half an inch and an inch in length and girth, as these cocks now occupy their fullest potential.
They self-actualize.
Carl Rogers, the American psychologist referred to the idea of ‘self-actualization’, as “the curative force in psychotherapy—man’s tendency to actualize himself, to become his potentialities… to express and activate all the capacities of the organism.”
Or, as I might say:
To express all his capacities of orgasm.
Same same.
For a person to be truly self-actualized, he or she needs to be living a life that fully incorporates their sexuality and their sexual energy into everything that they do.
You have heard me speak over and over again on how sexual energy is life force energy, the creative energy that is your source of reproduction and who you are.
It is the essence of you.
If you aren’t tapping into it, you are living in a deficiency.
The deepest parts of you, your literal, fluid and energetic essence is not being birthed into the world.
This leads to all sorts of problems, from FUKME (both men and women can have FUKME) to loss of erections, premature ejaculation, to lackluster relationships and failed marriages, to career and financial woes.
All because you aren’t fucking enough.
And in a way that allows the deepest parts of you to come out.
Truly loving up the cock, allows the man to own this part of himself.
This part that is often criticized projected upon as being evil and destructive, as the essence of his “toxic masculinity”, of the male propensity of violence toward women.
No wonder most men don’t truly own their cocks.
They don’t dare.
But you, ladies, can help him to dare, and fill him up with so much cock love, that in turn, he fills YOU up with it.
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Our genitals are the essence of who we are.
When we fully own and inhabit them, we own and inhabit our whole beings.
We show up in life in an entirely different way.
With our whole selves and our whole power.
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Women: The best gift—apart from the ever-readiness of every orifice—that you can bestow upon cock, is your total devotion.
Look, “technique” is helpful.
And I have a plethora of physical cock-love and cock-whispering techniques to share.
But if you don’t LOVE the man and the cock, your hours of cocksucking and straddling is always going to be lackluster.
The absolute, all-consuming, I’ll-do-anything-for-that-man-and-his-cock-love that helps a cock to self-actaulize, comes from within.
I saw years ago in my coaching practice that if a woman didn’t want to suck her man’s cock, no amount of tips and tricks in the world made a fuck of difference…
IF she didn’t WANT his cock in her mouth.
I realized that was where I needed to focus.
Organic cock love.
Being true to the moment.
Technique could always come later.
It’s like the difference between going to a big pop star concert where every single step is choreographed and then repeated every night.
Or worse yet, it’s canned, lip-synced, pre-recorded music.
Now there’s a great metaphor—moving your lips around but nothing real is coming out of them.
It’s boring as shit.
Or, going to see live music.
Really, organically, live.
Years ago I went to see the legendary Chan Marshall, aka Cat Power.
I’d read that she often had emotional breakdowns on stage.
I was intrigued.
True to prediction, she did exactly that.
It was one of the “livest”, most raw and beautiful shows I’ve EVER seen.
All the in-the-moment-liver-than-live poetry flowed out of her.
She stopped in the middle of a song to talk to some of the band members, and then she switched songs.
Ya know. Because she wasn’t really feeling it.
She was so truly raw and real. There wasn’t a hint of faux performance bravado about her.
It was captivating.
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When you are in tune with your deepest yourself, your sexual energy and you own your desire and vulnerability all at once, you are an unstoppable lover.
The best cocksucker and fucker that ever was.
The fuck poetry just flows out of you.
And that’s what I teach people to do.
Is to find that place in themselves, where the fuck-flow runs deep.
And that’s what makes them have the best sex of their lives.
Tongue flicking tutorials?
Sure. Why not.
But really, really what you need to do is connect with the most primal, vulnerable part of you.
And fuck yourself and your partner to smithereens.
The legendary woman insatiable for cock.
Here is a quote from a woman who tried out her new cock love skills on her partner:
“The last lover I was with told me I gave him the best sex of his life…the best head of his life and the best hand job of his life.
He said: “Words… you fucked the words right out of my brain. I mean, you look real… you feel real… but this can’t be real life…. no one has this good of sex for hours and hours day after day…. you’re exhausting!”
Me: “You’re welcome..? Do you ever try and complain to your buddies at at fire station about your problems?”
~ Robin Rohde (You can read her full comments here.)
Ha!
Now let’s hear from another Well F**ked All Star.
Sylvie has taken ALL of the Anami Salons; the entire library full. She’s here today to share about her experiences with cock love, growing cock, and how cock can physically transform and heal through being adored.
**SYLVIE**
A woman who truly loves cock, who wants it in and all over her, who can take a cock deep inside of her and transform it, is a magical thing of beauty.
The stuff of legends.
A goddess of love.
This is the kind of woman men drop everything for, and is the one he doesn’t let get away.
A woman like this is so rare, as an authentic, insatiable cock lover, that a man will do anything and everything to please her and to keep this woman in his life.
It’s a kind of love and relationship and sexual connection he has always craved having and didn’t know was even possible.
If you do end up going your separate ways, you’ll, um, leave a hole in that man’s life that can’t really ever be filled afterwards.
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Yes, I will give you some signature technical moves to dazzle him.
But more importantly, I will ignite your cock love and set it on fire.
So that you can leave a trail of happy, hard and self-realized cock in your wake.
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Kxx
The Cock Whisperer was a very interesting podcast even for a man to know. My wife and i have not had sex for 9 months now because she does not want it with me. I am going to try and get her to listen to this podcast to see if it will spark her back into lovemaking. If you have any suggestions please let me know.