Yo, Libido! Wherefore Art Thou? Transcript
A lot of people come into my work, especially women people, and they have no desire for sex. So they’re listening to everything I have to say, and they hear all of the fantastic achievements people have, yet they barely feel the motivation to even engage.
After a while of feeling like you have no desire for sex, you might even start to think that you’re just one of those people who doesn’t have a big sex drive, or you start to rationalize that sex really isn’t the most important part of a relationship and having sex once or a few times a month is just fine.
Nah. There is a lot of self-protection going on in all these narratives. Let’s break them down with some Anami facts.
Anami Fact No. 1: Everyone Has a High Libido
I guarantee it. Women, men, pregnant, postpartum, peri, post, and full menopausal—all of you. No exceptions.
If you don’t feel it right now, it’s because there are layers over top of it, suppressing it from coming out in all its glory. There can be many reasons and many layers. My work is all about finding them and systematically removing them and freeing you to be the libidinous, salacious, voracious being that you truly are.
Anami Fact No. 2: Low Libido Equals Unresolved Issues
It’s not hormonal or cyclical. It’s rarely even physical. If you feel sexually stuck and have no desire, it’s because somewhere along the way, that connection was interrupted. It may have been through traumatic experiences that caused you to dissociate from your body and your sexual self because you didn’t feel safe to dwell in them.
Past hurts that haven’t been healed linger if we don’t clear them. They stay in the body like Post-it Notes to get our attention until we address them. This applies to recent issues and decades-old situations that haven’t been processed.
Let me give you an example.
Say you have an argument at breakfast with your partner. You’re both rushing off to work and school and kids and you don’t clear the air. Later that night, you go to have sex. He’s not that hard, and you aren’t that wet, so you grab some lube and slather it on. He pops a Viagra to get things going. The sex lasts a meager three totally lackluster minutes. You both collapse and roll over and go to sleep.
Everything shows up in bed. All of your unspoken truths and resentments are hanging in the ethers and have climbed into bed with you. They show up as a lack of erection or a lack of orgasms.
Now multiply your breakfast argument by 50 or 100 or 500 unresolved arguments. By that point it shows up as a lack of libido, yeast infections, PCOS, or worse. All symptoms of stuck sexual energy.
I have had students in my salons in every situation imaginable who are told that this is the reason for fill-in-the-blank sexual symptom. Then they work on themselves and their intimate relationship and it resolves.
Honestly, the easiest thing to bring back to life is the libido. Beyond that, we’ve seen cysts and growths entirely disappear. Women go from having gut-wrenching, debilitating periods and menopause, to ecstasy and spiritual download portals, to healing endometriosis. All through clearing and healing your sexual and intimacy blockages.
Anami Fact No. 3: Women Are Naturally More Insatiable than Men
Men are conditioned to be more sexual than women, and women are conditioned to be more emotional than men. When you peel back the layers of programming, you will find that women are naturally voracious and can handle 10 times more than men. And men are delightfully sensitive and intuitive.
The ancient Taoists said that sexually speaking, men are like fire, quick to ignite and quick to extinguish. Women are like water, slow to boil, but they keep on boiling.
Since 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes of intercourse and 95% within five minutes, this means that most women never really get the chance to get going. It’s over before they even open their eyes. So the work is for men to cultivate stamina and control to be able to go the distance, and for women to develop a steady sexual simmer, so they aren’t having to go from melting ice to boiling in each sexual encounter.
The bottom line is: Once a woman is switched on, she’s on, and she can out-fuck any man for hours. Think about it: Most men come extremely quickly, and when they do, they are down for the count. It’s game over. Unless he’s a rare creature with supreme regenerative skills, he is out.
But her? She is just getting started. She can flow and flow, orgasm after orgasm, and keep getting higher and higher. There is no stopping her.
But most women never even get to taste this part of themselves because they barely make it out of the gate.
Anami Fact No. 4: Your Libido is Your Life-Force Energy
Years ago, I came across a definition of libido by the psychoanalysts Jung and Freud. They talked about libido as, yes, being our sexual drive. They also spoke about it as being our life force. How we put ourselves out there in the world. How we individuate and share our gifts.
If you think about it, your sexual energy, your literal, sexual, raw material, contains the genetic blueprint of who you are. Your individual essence. What I’ve seen in the decades of doing this work is that when people sexually self-realize, when they truly occupy that energy within themselves, they become more of who they really are in their whole lives. They start making choices that are more in alignment with the truth of their being. They might quit a job, change friends, find a new vocation, magnetize brilliant and amazing new opportunities. The things that are less of who they are just fall away, and whatever reflects the inner truth of their deepest, most authentic selves begins to come to them effortlessly.
Anami Fact No. 5: Rev It Up Even when Single
Sometimes people ask us if they ought to enroll in my salons even if they don’t currently have a partner. Yes! It is vitally important to cultivate this relationship with yourself. When you activate your sensual energy, you rev up your libido, and you begin to wear that energy. It’s a radiance, a charisma. It’s that, “What are you doing different? Are you doing something different? You just seem different.” That je ne sais quoi that people notice and are attracted to, especially men people.
When you go inside, literally and figuratively, and start working on alchemizing your stuff, all the while using the power of your sexual energy to do it, you uplevel. You begin vibrating at a higher frequency. And what happens? You also attract a partner at a higher frequency.
Anami Fact No. 6: Use the Laws of Motion
This is a final note on the idea of momentum and inertia. Once you get in motion, it is far easier to stay there, but to break out of inertia takes a little effort initially. You need to apply force and discipline to get things moving.
Because I’ve been working out, as in exercising, for so long, the only time I ever have to remotivate myself is when I’ve been injured. Let’s say I haven’t been able to work out for a few weeks. When my body heals and I’m ready to go, I can feel some internal resistance. This is the law of inertia. I have to exert extra effort to make myself get my butt in gear and go to the gym. I’ve just gotten out of the habit. Inertia has crept in.
It might be like that for the first few times, but once I get to the gym and my bliss hormones and neurotransmitters are firing, it’s game on. Then after a week, my body and my brain say, “Hey, Kim, when are we going to the gym? Isn’t it time to go to the gym?” And they begin to carry me.
So yes, initially it can take some kicking yourself in the butt to take action and break out of a rut in your bed, in your inner life, as you clean up the debris that’s piled up. But then you start to see and feel the difference, and you get carried by this energy. You enter the territory of the Well-F**ked Woman, and your whole life changes.
In today’s All-Star interview, I am speaking with Theresa. She went from having 20-minute sex sessions to three-day sex dates. She describes her libido now as always hovering at an 8 or a 9 all day, every day.
What I love in this conversation is how she makes the connections between all the changes that took place in her bed and in her sex life, and then how these are reflected in her outer life. Like I’ve been saying, your libido is your life-force energy. When you unleash it, you can use that power to turbofuel everything you do at the highest possible level. We could say that your libido is your secret weapon.
Well-F**ked All Star Theresa
KIM: Welcome, Theresa. Thank you so much for being here.
THERESA: Thanks, Kim. Love being here with you.
KIM: All right. Let’s hear about your well-fucked journey and evolution.
THERESA: It started maybe a year or so ago. I was listening to another YouTuber, and she mentioned the jade egg and your name. She said, “Listen to Kim Anami. You’re welcome.”
I was very intrigued, so I instantly went to your YouTube and said, “Oh, well, this is something that …” I liked it. I liked listening to you. I liked the way you presented it. It wasn’t in any way off-key or “Ew.” It was something like, “How can I really get into my body and make things—” not that things were not good, but you can always just add a little bit more spice to it, is how I feel.
So, this year, my husband asked me, “What do you want for Christmas?”
KIM: I want more orgasms, baby. Can you give them to me?
THERESA: I did. [Laughs] I pretty much said that, yes. And he looked at me like, “What?” I said, “I really want a jade egg, but I want Kim Anami’s jade egg. I want her jade egg.” “Kim Anami?” I showed him your material.
KIM: “Here’s Kim. She’s lifting an Oscar with her vagina. Are you into it? Can I have the egg?”
THERESA: He said, “What are you going to do? You’re going to lift what?”
KIM: “Furniture, baby, just furniture.”
THERESA: I said, “It’s going to better us.” Now, my husband and I have been together a really long time. We’ve been married 27 years.
KIM: Wow.
THERESA: Right. So we’ve had to reinvent the wheel many times in our sex life, through everything that we’ve been through. We have two adult children now, but of all that we’ve been through, sex was one of those things that we really never let get away. We always came together, and we always enjoyed ourselves anyway.
So back to Christmas. I said, “I really want this. I really feel that this is going to enhance me as a woman. Now that I’m going through menopause and stuff, it really, you know, things change.” I still wanted that sensation. I didn’t want to go through what typical women go through in menopause. I’m a nutritionist by profession and very into health and wellness, and I teach yoga as well, so I knew I didn’t have to go through menopause like everybody was saying I had to. I said, “Hell with that. I’m not doing that.”
I really felt that this path would lead me to a better sex life, yes, but better overall health also.
Anyway, I got the jade egg for Christmas. [Laughs] He said, “All right.” I got the jade egg for Christmas, and then instantly after that, I went into VKF, Vaginal Kung Fu, and loved every second of it. I really did.
Actually, I went into it thinking, all right, not only get into my body, but how could I really come into my truth at this stage of my life? Where do I want to be in the next few years? In my personal life, in my life with my husband, in my professional life, with my kids, and so on and so forth.
And the first two weeks, I didn’t know I was going to get in touch with so many emotional things. I really did the work. I was very diligent about—
KIM: Meditate, Masturbate, Create.
Big Shifts after Three Weeks in VKF
THERESA: Right. Just doing the work.
And then week three happened, and it was just magical. I have to say, week three was completely magical because I don’t know another word to use for it. At this point, my husband and I had never really discussed me going through the program. I did the work, plus we were both busy with work and keeping up with what our kids were doing. We really never just sat down and discussed Vaginal Kung Fu.
But then week three, I saw it in his body language. I felt it in my body. As we were getting together, whether it was in the evening or daytime—because at this point, you recommended having day sex. I said, “Let’s wake up and do this.” And in his whole body language, the way he was moving, his moans and groans, just everything about it was more intense, more—I don’t even know how to describe it, but we were definitely into each other.
I said, “Hm, this is working.” Then, all of a sudden, when we would meet on the weekly calls, break into groups, listen to each other, and talk about what we were doing for the week and what was coming up for me, I would feel this inner joy. Yes, the sex was good. I felt really good and getting into who I am as a woman at this stage in my life. But I had this inner sense of joy during a time there was a lot of shit going on in the world. Just a lot of stuff.
So in the bigger, global world, and in my inner world with my own family and friends, there’s a lot going on. But yet, despite that—not that I’m lessening what everybody’s going through; I’m not doing that. I take that to heart, and I present that in my work—my inner joy was so present that I knew, “Yes, I could take this on. I could take on the world. I could take on my inner life, my relationships, with all the people in my life.”
Does that make sense?
KIM: Yes, absolutely.
THERESA: Or am I rambling? I feel like I started rambling.
KIM: That’s the essence of being well-fucked, i.e., tapping into and really owning and radiating your sexual energy. You have this unstoppability, so you’re able to go into all your life’s challenges with ease and grace, and you become unstoppable. All of that absolutely correlates with what I see all the time with women who tap into this energy; their lives change, and the way they navigate their lives changes.
So they might have the same challenges or even more challenges, but their ability to deal with them is tenfold increased.
THERESA: Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Week five was another magical week for my relationship with my husband because he was noticing it as well.
So I would do all the Meditate, Masturbate, Create in the morning. One morning, I was doing my thing, and he came downstairs and asked this very profound question. I said, “Wow.” And he said, “How’s your vagina class going?” [Laughs] I said, “It’s going really well.” At that moment, I was actually looking through all the accessories, thinking, “Let’s bring accessories into our playtime.”
I said, “Come, let’s look. Let’s see what we can buy.” So we were reading all about Anahata, and it says in the description of Anahata that the cervix is the area of love in a woman’s vagina. That and the tip of the penis. Am I saying this correctly?
KIM: Yeah, you are.
THERESA: Okay. And he looked at me and said, “Oh my goodness. I’m so glad that we’re reading this because I’m always afraid to hit your cervix. I’m afraid I’m going to hurt you.” And I looked at him and said, “No! That’s what I want you to do.” [Laughs]
KIM: [Laughs] Hit away!
THERESA: Hit away, that’s exactly what I said. I actually said, “Pound away. No, no, this is good.” So we bought that, we bought the oils, we bought a couple of other things. Then the conversation started to open up about deep stuff that relationships go through. I mean, sex, yes, of course, but the deeper relational things and how we both want to move forward in our marriage, in our sex life, in our careers, and all that stuff. Really, those hard-to-speak talks, but also fun in bed as well. Keeping it light, even though we have to discuss the deeper things that relationships have to go through.
So good stuff. Really, really good stuff. Totally recommend the class. So many benefits.
How Her Libido Changed and Increased
KIM: Tell me, how did your libido change over the course of where you started from to where you ended up?
THERESA: It got stronger in the sense that I’m always at that 8 or 9 phase. So on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being no libido at all, 10 being I want sex all the time, I’m probably always about an 8 or a 9; whether I’m pleasuring myself or I’m with my husband, it’s game on. I’m ready.
I find it’s really good because it keeps me energized throughout all the things that I have to do, being a wife, being a mom, being a nutritionist, doing all the work I do for my community; it gives me that drive. It really taps into my power source. Being in that bliss state keeps me in that power source. But not in this strong masculine sense, but in a joyous, happy, loving sense, to really bring my message out to my community without being taken back by the people who are the naysayers, the people who are going to bring me down. Because there are those people out there. It really keeps me in that strength of, “I’ve got this, and nothing is going to take me down.”
Sort of like what you say. You say, “Don’t give a fuck.” I just don’t give a fuck. I really don’t. It’s not that I don’t care. I care very, very much. It’s just I’m going to do what I want to do to get my message out into the world, and if that means having more sex, [laughs] I don’t think that’s a bad thing. That’s a really good thing.
KIM: I love that. How can I get my message out more into the world? I will have more sex. I mean, that’s definitely the Kim Anami business advice—to amplify and quantum leap your business, have more sex. Absolutely.
And of course, what you say about not giving a fuck is fully the emblem of being a Well-F**ked Woman; when you reach that place of, like you said, really tapping into that inner power source, you become what I said earlier, unstoppable. Your voice, your message, the gifts that you have to give to the world are then flowing freely out of you.
It’s like you said, it’s not that you don’t care about the right things, but you don’t care about the wrong things. Meaning people who are haters or insecure or projecting upon you. Those people go right over your head. They become insignificant because, frankly, they are insignificant. People taking potshots or projecting their own unresolved issues and stuff in the weird PC climate that we’re in these days.
Even though some of these voices can be very strong, because rabidly foaming at the mouth, under-fucked people can be very loud and obnoxious. But it doesn’t mean that they’re right. It doesn’t mean that they’re speaking the truth. It just means they’re so under-fucked that they’re screaming at the top of their lungs.
Business Opportunities Falling into Her Lap
THERESA: Yeah. I always say the empty barrels make the most noise, and it’s so true. In essence, my not giving a fuck and tapping into my power source and having sex to fuel me has really led me to so many opportunities in my professional life.
So yes, it strengthened my relationship with my husband, and it strengthened my relationship with myself, but it also brought me into a better business sense. I’m putting the work in, so it’s not like this woo-woo kind of magic because I’m really doing the work to make these things happen. But these business opportunities literally have fallen in my lap because that’s where I’m putting the effort, as you say.
I’m putting the effort into it, so really great business opportunities are literally coming at me face-to-face. It’s sort of like, wow, look at this. To me it’s just amazing; it really is. It’s just absolutely amazing.
I’m not going to take every single business opportunity that’s coming at me, but I ask, Is this really going to support my belief, my message, my work ethic in the world? It gives me a very clear vision of how I want to step forward in this next stage of life.
KIM: I love that, being more selective, being clear about what’s in alignment with the truth of who you are versus just saying yes to any opportunity that comes your way.
THERESA: Correct. Yeah.
KIM: Tell me about the length of your sex dates. I believe you were having shorter sex dates previously. And then, doing this work, you’ve been really edging it up there.
THERESA: Yeah. This is another area that has totally taken off. We would get together, and we would definitely have good sessions, but they’d maybe last 20 minutes. We thought that was good. We said, “Wow.” I said, “No, we got this. We can go, we can go.” Now it’s probably up to 90 minutes, but the three-day sex dates are really good stuff.
KIM: When you guys do the weekend. Yeah.
THERESA: Yeah. It’s fantastic. But it’s more like, yes, there’s the physical act of sex, but even the playing around, eating lunch or just walking around naked in front of each other in the hotel room, sort of giving each other the glances—you know. Then having a really long session and taking a break. We fall asleep and then wake up again and get really into it. Up against the wall, you name it; it really is so good to take that time with your partner and just dedicate it to each other’s bodies.
It really creates a very close connection, a bond that is unbreakable. Even when we are out in the world and doing what we’re doing, we know that we can come back to each other and literally fall into each other. We look forward to these weekends. It’s just so much fun.
It’s something that, of course, we can do at home, but the weekends, it’s like a vacation. You always look forward to the vacation, and you want to do that.
KIM: Yeah, the mindset of being away as well. Out of your environment. It’s more special. How often do you have these three-day sex dates?
THERESA: We’ve been doing it more often. I would say every other month.
KIM: Nice.
THERESA: We don’t call them sex dates. Now we just say, “Let’s just go away; let’s stay overnight.” Wherever we go, it’s sort of like, “We’ll stay overnight,” and we just know. “All right, pack up the stuff.” [Laughs]
KIM: [Laughs] Take the Anami Shop with you.
THERESA: Yeah. That’s funny.
KIM: You’re describing this notion that I speak of about hovering at the sexual simmer. When you talk about being at an 8 or a 9 all the time and always being in the mood, describe what that’s like. Because I think a lot of people relegate sex to a certain time and place, like in their bedroom between certain hours in bed, and then the sexual energy just stays there. It doesn’t emerge out of the bedroom with them. They have whatever experience—maybe they have orgasms, but there’s a decline in energy and desire, and then they put it out of their head and go do other things.
Yet what you’re describing is that it’s always with you. That sensuality, that swell, in a way, of the body, or however you would describe it, and then how does that feel to navigate in the world that way?
Channeling Sexual Energy into All Areas of Her Life
THERESA: Yeah. I do hover about an 8 or a 9. I’ll talk about me personally by saying at an 8/9, and then I’ll go into how I am with my husband.
Doing the work with myself, the Meditate, Masturbate, Create, doesn’t mean that I just want to go have sex all day long, but it keeps me at that sexual energy so I can be creative in all my areas at any given time. Really just keeping that, as you say, simmer—that’s a good word. Keeping that simmer so that I feel sexy on the inside, and that sexiness radiates out into the work that I do.
Because I feel the swagger. I feel the strength of it. It feels really good. Like I said before, I have that constant joy in my heart because my vagina is always simmering. When I’m out in the world doing what I want to do, I want to come home and be with my husband. Because after a while, it’s sort of like, “Oh baby, I need you right here, right now.”
But it keeps me alive. It keeps me going. It keeps the pedals turning, as if I was on a bike and on that road of bliss. Then when I come home to my husband and it’s a long day, but we’re making dinner or setting the table, it’s the nice glance. I mean, what we do personally is we kind of give each other these little bumps into each other, sort of these playful little, “Oops. I’m sorry I hit you,” or I push his plate a certain way.
That may sound a little bit like, “Oh my goodness, what are these two doing?” but it really is constant foreplay, even with china [laughs], you know what I’m saying? By the time we get to the bedroom, the fire is roaring. “Okay, now we really want to get into one another.” It just makes it more alive, even at the end of the day.
Because let’s say if we’re working all day, we can start really early in the morning, and by the end of the day, we’re tired. We put a lot into our day. But that fire is still roaring, so when we do get to—I’ll say the bedroom because most people are in the bedroom. But it doesn’t have to be the bedroom—the living room, the kitchen, the bathroom, the laundry room, wherever it is, we still have that simmer, that energy to be with one another.
We joke around; we lick each other. The Hallmark kind of making love never really jived with us. It really never did. We’re both very Type A personalities, very intense people. So when we want to be with each other, we want to be with each other, and we want to really enjoy. That’s aggression, I guess, but not aggressive. Not gentle, but we don’t hurt each other or anything like that.
KIM: Passion.
THERESA: Yeah, passion. That’s what I mean. It’s not that Hallmark making love like in one of those romantic novels. Not like that.
KIM: So for you, making love just feels a bit maybe restrained or reserved or predictable, where for you guys, you’ve always had a level of passion, regardless if you’ve done work to extend the length of time that you’re having sex. But you’ve always had a thread of passion going through it, rather than what you would see as boring. Is that right?
THERESA: Yeah, you got it. [Laughs] You termed it properly. Thank you.
KIM: All right, awesome. It sounds like what you really managed to do is tap into and inhabit your sexual energy, and again, you reference Meditate, Masturbate, Create, which is like a conscious self-pleasuring practice that’s about harvesting, tapping into, and then utilizing your sexual energy out in the world.
The way that you’re describing your life with your partner and in your vocation is that it’s showing us that you really have done that. You’re hovering at this simmer. You’re inhabiting this energy or wearing it—it’s alive. It’s not something that gets shut and left in the bedroom; you take that out into the world.
You’ve shown that in the work that you do, where it’s been upleveled and this vitality is being infused into it.
Then with your partner, you’re also upleveling that, and you guys really do exist in this constant state of foreplay, which sounds delicious. That’s what I really aim for and try to explain to people is the goal. You never really want to be dropping off. You always want to be hovering at least a 7, if not an 8, if not a 9 out of 10, where you can drop your pants and be intimate at any moment because the energy is so raised between you and doesn’t extinguish itself.
Where I think for most people, there’s a very distinguished ignition and then extinguishing of that energy. The idea is that we’re always like you, always in the mood. Why wouldn’t I be in the mood? I live with this energy all the time.
The Necessity for this Work
THERESA: Right, exactly. Something else that came to me while taking Vaginal Kung Fu was this work is a global necessity, I feel. I know you’ve heard it before because I’ve heard many people tell you this, but this is probably the best sex education class I’ve ever taken, and I recommend it to all the young people.
My kids are young adults, and I talk to them very freely about knowing their bodies and what their partners want, having an open conversation about it, knowing that it’s not shameful. Listen, this is a part of the world. This is how you create human beings. Why not know about it? Yes, it’s pleasurable, and honor that pleasure. Know your body, embody your body, and let it be known. Let your partners know, “I like this. I don’t like that. What do you want? What do you like?” It shouldn’t be hidden.
I feel like it’s a hidden topic and people are not talking about it, or they’re ashamed about it, or it’s something to giggle about like little schoolgirls. I said, “No, I’m not giggling about it. This is just part of life. This is your body. You know it.”
There was something that we were discussing during Vaginal Kung Fu, and I said, “I’ve been having sex a long time. I’ve been a woman my entire life, but let me see this. What is going on, and why weren’t we taught this at such a young age?” It should be discussed.
Imagine the world we would live in if sex were honored and embraced and not hidden and shamed. No more FUKME. It would be phenomenal; it really would.
KIM: It would. Yeah. That’s my mission, to bring this information out there.
You know I talk about the connection between libido and your life’s work. In the way that Freud and Jung define libido, it wasn’t so much having a high desire for sex. I mean, sure, it was that, but it was also this idea of how we individuate into the world and show up and give our gifts into the world.
The way you have come more into alignment with who you are, and the way your business has evolved and upleveled, sounds like you’ve also funneled that idea of libido. Those opportunities that you’ve talked about that you’re magnetizing new clients, new business relationships, cultivating new community—all of that sounds like such a great reflection of this same concept extended into that. Second chakra is sex and creativity and money, which I also connect with our vocation, how we show up and make money in the world.
So what would you say about all that? How much more could you say about inhabiting your sexuality and your vocation and the relationship there?
THERESA: Not holding back. I don’t have that hesitation. I speak my truth for what it is in the moment. I see it in the present moment for whatever it is, and I speak it, no matter where I am. Whether I’m with a private client doing group sessions or teaching a yoga class, you’re going to hear what I see. I’m speaking the truth from that point and speaking my truth in that power.
Yes, going into the sacral chakra and the solar plexus chakra, where your sexual energy and your power energy are sourced, really tapping into those areas, and then moving up to my heart. Speaking it with love, of course, because nobody’s going to hear it. Nobody would hear me if I spoke out of anger. Speaking out of love and definitely using my voice, going up to the throat chakra, using my voice and expressing it out with no hesitation.
In the past I sort of held back a lot more. I didn’t speak from my truth. I spoke from what people wanted to hear, not what I wanted to say, which needed to be heard.
That’s where I feel I really put it forward and let it go. If you don’t want to hear me, you can leave. If you don’t want to hear what I have to say on social media, you can delete me. I really, really don’t care because for every person who drops off, ten more people come back on.
So really embodying that. I do the work. I mean, I’ve done your work, and I do a lot of yoga work. I’m very into a somatic kind of therapy because my childhood wasn’t the best, so I really have to overcome that. I was a quiet, shy little girl. But now that I really am embodying this power, I feel like nothing can stop me. I’m going forward.
Is it easy? No, the work is not easy. I don’t want to make it seem like this was an easy process. It really wasn’t. But putting the work in and seeing the results is my fuel to keep going.
KIM: That’s so beautiful. I love how you’ve said that, and you can really feel your certainty and inner confidence in the way you say it.
THERESA: Thank you.
KIM: Is there anything else that you’d like to add to what we’ve said and talked about so far?
THERESA: I think I’ve said a lot. [Laughs] I would just tell people do the work. Sign up for the classes and really put the effort into all the modules, and just allow it to happen, because it will. By putting in the work, all the gifts will just keep on coming. Literally. [Laughs]
KIM: [Laughs] I love it. Well, thank you so much, Theresa. I’m so happy for you, where you’ve come, and all your evolution. It’s fantastic to see.
THERESA: Thank you, Kim, so very much. I recommend you to everybody.
KIM: My Well-F**ked Woman Salon is open for registration. In our interview, Theresa spoke about using the jade egg and taking Vaginal Kung Fu. Vaginal Kung Fu and the Well-F**ked Woman are part one and two of my sexual education master classes for women. We recommend that you take each of them in whatever order you like. They each only run once a year, so sign up for whichever one is open next, and that is the Well-F**ked Woman.
In this salon, you will learn Self-Pleasuring 101; how to use Meditate, Masturbate, Create to channel your sexual energy into your life and projects. How to boost your libido naturally, how to have all the deeper vaginal orgasms, G-Spot, squirting, and cervical. How to use your feminine energy to achieve in the world; how surrender is the most powerful tool you have for linking up with the cosmic and creative flow of the universe. Natural birth control and hormone-free solutions for difficult periods and menopause. My full tutorials on cock-whispering, including my oral and manual playbook.
To sign up, go to KimAnami.com/wet.
