Manifest Men, Money, and Miracles. With Your Vagina! Transcript
I often use the hashtag #PoweredByVagina, which means my vagina created this. Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know. They’re also for creating your dreams. I’m always talking about how sexual energy is creative, life-force energy. If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life.
When your vagina is happy and healthy, getting well-fucked and having cervical orgasms on a regular basis, it is very productive. In fact, your life and your work output are directly related to your vaginal satisfaction. Turn on your vagina and turn on your life.
With a switched-on, aroused, and activated vagina, your creative powers are at their maximum potential. Your vagina is your mover and shaker. This is your ultimate power source. Sexual energy is creative energy. If you aren’t birthing babies with this energy, you can channel it out into the world and birth and rebirth every part of your life. That’s why the French call orgasms la petite mort, the little death and rebirth.
When you aren’t consciously willing your sexual energy and flexing that vaginal muscle, what happens? Your power inverts on you like a vacuum, like a black hole. When you have stuck sexual energy and a numb, under-functioning vagina, your body reflects this stagnancy in all manner of sexual issues, from difficult periods to PMS and menopause. I would say that all sexual issues are symptomatic of stuck sexual energy—lack of lubrication, lack of orgasm, low libido, growths forming on the reproductive organs, urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse.
Then all of that extends out into your day-to-day life as well. Financial problems, which come with not giving your true gifts to the world; weight gain, as you don’t get rid of your excess baggage; working in a job just to pay bills rather than feeling like it’s an expression of your true self; and your children acting out—all manner of problems seem to find you because the black hole of your under-fucked vagina is sucking everything into it like a vortex.
One of my favorite things to talk about in the realm of the transformational power of sex is how getting sexually connected translates to change and elevation in all parts of a person’s life. As someone inhabits their sexual energy more and experiences deep orgasms, they begin to naturally make choices that are in alignment with their deepest truth.
When I say naturally, I mean they aren’t exerting massive effort to make changes in themselves. The creative, sexual, life-force vital energy from within them is now unleashed and carries them forward. It moves them away from situations that aren’t in their highest good or an expression of their deepest selves. It magnetizes people and opportunities toward them.
Let’s look at some examples from my own evolution. In my late twenties, I had some of the most significant sexual breakthroughs in my life. I hunted down all of my sexual demons, and I slayed them. I learned the true power in deep, unequivocal, throw-it-all-into-the-fire surrender. I came alive. I became fearless. I shut off any layers of caring what anyone thought about me. I truly did not give a fuck. All of that happened by going deep into the power of the holy fuck.
I came alive in some ways more than I ever had been, and I did that by coming alive sexually.
Here’s what happened when I did this.
First of all, my body changed. In my twenties, my weight went up and down, up and down. I had body image issues. I used to use food to numb and get fulfillment when what really needed filling was my pussy. I lost some extra pounds, and I felt strong and powerful in my physique.
I noticed how, with the quality of lovemaking, my body would change. When I found someone I was deeply compatible with, my body, as if by magic, became more beautifully sculpted. It was as if the deepest part of me was being seen and cherished and because of that, it began emerging through my skin and muscle without any extra effort on my part. Meaning, I wasn’t eating differently, wasn’t working out differently, I was just fucking differently. [Laughs] It was a deep nourishment in every cell of my being that radiated for me.
So the weight came off and stayed off. It hit a set point, and it’s pretty much been there ever since.
There is a quote from Alexa that also speaks to this. She says, “I feel like a totally different person. I have lost 76 pounds.” Then she goes on to say, “Plus, $35,000 of debt has been eliminated. My husband and I are better than we’ve ever been. My daughter is thriving. I have a TV show in the works, and my creativity has taken me into a different line of work I could never have imagined.”
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This is from Rachel. She says, “Through the yoni egg practice, I’ve noticed a big improvement in the lines of my face. The facelift really works.”
I did an episode a couple of weeks ago called “A Strong Vagina Keeps the Botox Away,” where I went into all of this, this whole facial and lift that happens. Breast lift, facelift, you name it. Every part of your life gets lifted.
Another thing that happened is I attracted partners of a much higher caliber. The more I went inside and feng shuied out my own energy field, two things happened. The first is that I met people everywhere. The grocery store, the parking lot, the beach, the movie theater, the gym, sitting next to me on an airplane. I wasn’t actively seeking people at all. I had actively been getting deeply fucked open and now was wearing the juicy radiance of this openness. People were coming from all over the place. It was as though I had a giant antenna that was signaling to the world that I was open and ready to rumble, which is to say, get fucked very deeply by the right person. [Laughs]
I hear the same thing from countless people in my salons. They aren’t joining dating sites and seeking partners—although some of them do. They’re diving into their own sexual selves, and then people just appear out of nowhere in this great, organic, orgasmic garden of the universe.
And well-suited people. Very well-matched, soul-level, passionate about conscious evolution and growth, that kind of person.
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I hear this all the time from people who take my salons. Alex shared how she started doing meditate, masturbate, create, went out the next day, and men were running across the street to ask her out.
Taliana talks about how men were making websites to ask her out on dates.
Dhalia talks about pumping gas at the gas station in her sweats and still having men coming up to ask her for her number.
You’re radiating this gorgeous, tangible, but also intangible quality that people pick up on.
The second thing about that is yes, these people were amazing matches for me. They touched me in places inside—ha, ha, yes, I get the correlation—that hadn’t been seen or penetrated in what seemed like ever, if not a very long time. It felt like they were connecting to this ancient, deep-soul, authentic self, and we could meet and fuck there.
It’s from that place that you find your true god and goddess potential and create universes.
The next thing that happened was my business skyrocketed. This is one of my favorite arenas to see where the impact of making choices in alignment with your highest truth really pays off. It’s not a struggle or willpower. You are now super-charged with your—and the universe’s—life-force energy, and it propels you forward.
People quit their nine-to-five jobs, and they manifest opportunities to pursue their passions. You want to know why? Because what happens in bed happens in life. They uncover their passions in bed and uncover them in life.
At one point I was doing a mix of life and business and intimacy coaching, and I realized that my true heart and vagina were much more turned on talking about and working with people in the sexual realm. I threw myself into this world, and I had invitations from the universe to go bigger and bolder, which I took. I built my online presence. I blogged. I did talks. I created my salons. And I birthed the genre of holistic sex and intimacy coaching.
Now there are thousands of wannabe sex coaches, womb healers, etc. All of these descendants came from one place—my vagina.
Here’s a quote from Amber: “I manifested $10,000 in student grants and networking contacts at the very top of the industry that I hope to work for after I graduate, along with an offer from a prominent gentleman in my community for a letter of reference for my future employer once I graduate.”
And this gem from Heather, [laughs] the trick of all tricks: “At the very beginning of the salon, after an extended blow job one night”—that’s what I mean by trick of all tricks, secret of all secrets—“the next day my husband approached a friend in the industry about the idea, and not only was he receptive to it, but so much so that he wanted to be a part of it.”
So this is a business idea they’re talking about.
“This is someone who we had taken ideas to in the past, and he would quickly explain all the issues with the business plan, as this was no easy feat. We had an epic sex date that, including deep throating, which led to a ton of energy around creating for the business. Just in general, we have had the right people line up, coming up with business names, ideas, and feedback, and it’s all happened during the salon, I believe as a result of the energy that was stuck between us getting unstuck.”
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I have a fantastic episode called “Magical Blow Jobs,” which details one of our epic All Stars’, Amanda’s, multimillion-dollar deep throating adventure. I would highly recommend listening to that.
Next up, I would say, my off-the-charts creativity and originality. There is a place I go to for all of the great viral marketing campaigns I’ve done over the years. The meme of the Well-F**ked Woman and Man, #ThingsILiftWithMyVagina, which is the incredible journey around the world several times, featured everywhere from Brazil to Taiwan to Ireland to Indonesia, features me lifting objects indigenous to various regions with my vagina. It is a brilliant marketing consultant and copywriter called “My Vagina.” I don’t hire out for marketing ideas or creative advice. Why would I? That’s an in-house job done by the most genius creator around—my vagina.
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If I have a project I need some juicy new ideas for, quick, got to get to my vagina. I might use a jade yoni egg in there, or a cock, or my hand, or one of my Holy Trinity dildos. I’ll do one of my legendary meditate/masturbate/create sessions, where I’m exercising with the jade egg or self-pleasuring, and I have to stop because the creative ideas are tumbling out of me. They just come to me.
If you don’t know what that is, meditate, masturbate, create, or MMC, as we like to refer to it in these parts, is the sequence I have come up with that is exactly as it sounds.
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Step 1: Spend anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes in meditation. I love to use mantras in my meditation practice, and my favorite one is Hu. Hu is sung like [chanting], “Hu.”
Hu is an ancient name for God, energy, the universe, whatever you want to call it. Close your eyes, gaze at your third eye, and chant.
Step 2: Self-pleasure or partner-pleasure for anywhere from 15 to 45 minutes.
Step 3: Go and channel that energy into something. That could be writing, as I often do. Painting, cleaning your house, going to the gym, playing with your children, gardening. It doesn’t have to be classical creative pursuits; it’s this awareness that you’re infusing your high-quality, sexual, creative energy into whatever it is that you’re doing.
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I also get a lot of wonderful ideas by swallowing ejaculate or having an extended 69 session. Because you mainline that uber-potent sexual energy straight into your brain. Longer sex dates are also great for this. The longer you have sex , the more energy you generate, and the more raw material you have to create with.
This is a great quote from Victoria: “I am an artist, so creation is the most important thing in the world to me,” and I would agree with that. “The moment I began squirting from my pussy, so did my poetry from my pen. My inspiration for new paintings, my motivation for all the creative in life, and my general love for the world” all came from her gushing pussy.
Then, my homes. I’ve always wanted to be bi-homal, or even tri-homal, meaning that I have a few homes in different parts of the world that I rotate between so I can always have the best of all possible worlds. And I have that. I have my barefoot, bikini, exotic fruit, warm water, surfing life in the tropics. And I drop into LA and connect with super-skilled and talented people at the top of their game. Then I shake it up with adventures in the Sumatran rainforest, camping with orangutans, sleeping in yurts in the Morocco Sahara Desert, completely off-grid.
I created that, or rather my vagina has created that. Let’s give credit where credit is due.
This is from Kelly, another one of our All Stars: “My husband and I have been in the middle of remodeling our home, which has been very expensive and stressful. We received a letter from someone interested in buying our property, which will enable us to finish our home and pay off our mortgage, being completely debt-free.”
Sometimes people look at my lifestyle, and I’ll say, “Oh, you’re so lucky.” And I smile and say, “I created this,” or rather, “My vagina created this.” Your vagina can too. Here’s how.
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Step 1: Resensitize your vagina. Most women are walking around with numb vaginas. If your vagina is numb, not only are you not feeling much pleasure during sex, but you’re probably thinking you have a low libido, because who wants to have sex when you can’t feel anything? But you can’t truly activate its superpowers until you can feel it, own it, and know that your pussy is the essence of you.
To resensitize it, I suggest a few things, starting with the most important. Let yourself be led by the things your vagina truly loves. This means that you listen to it. You don’t override it; you honor its yesses and its nos.
That also means adhering to my no-lube policy. You don’t force your vagina to do things that it isn’t hungry for. Let your arousal and excitement guide you toward what you desire. If it doesn’t turn you on, it’s not for you.
No, I don’t believe that women just need lube. What about at this stage of your life? What about … No. You don’t. Either you aren’t turned on enough or your vagina is weak and atrophied and unable to circulate fluids, i.e., lubricate properly.
That’s where the jade yoni egg comes in to build strength and get oxygen and blood flow going, because circulation equals lubrication.
Since most vaginas are numb and it might seem hard to hear their voice, that leads us to the most powerful tool to bring back pleasurable sensation and the voice and strength of the vagina. Ta-da! Using the jade yoni egg.
The way that I teach it, we use the yoni egg as a seed. It holds the intentions and potential of all that you wish to create in your life. As a crystal, the egg acts as an amplifier to channel those ideas out into the world.
Plus, the egg activates your reproductive organs to be the life force, creative generators they truly are. All of your reproductive female organs are connected to birthing. In my Vaginal Kung Fu Salon, we work multidimensionally with the egg, not only to bring epic strength to your vaginal muscles so that you can give yourself mind-and-body-blowing orgasms, vaginal hand jobs, and shoot ping-pong balls, but also teach your own vagina, your own body and power, that you own them. And you are able to consciously shape your world. It all starts in your vagina.
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Have life-changing, more powerful, and deep orgasms. Not only do your deep vaginal orgasms give you the biggest biochemical kick, but these are what I call the life-changing orgasms. If you aren’t changing your life when you have sex, what are you even doing? [Laughs] That is the primary purpose of sex, to rebirth yourself.
These orgasms come from the very depths inside of you, and they release all kinds of stuck energy connecting you to your true self. From this place, you can so much more easily create your life. They are the ultimate feng shui tool, cleansing you and removing all the debris and clutter that gets in the way of you creating from a pure state.
All the old baggage distorts your view of life, of what you deserve and what’s even possible. The magnificence of these orgasms has the power to wipe all that away. Vaginal orgasms truly are one of the most powerful personal growth tools that women have available to them. They will take you from the person you think you are and have become distorted into and transform you into the person you were always meant to be.
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Get into your feminine flow. Vaginas, in their natural state, let things come to them. They are receptive. They flow. They embody the art of receiving and magnetizing. Not slogging away, not stressing out, not forcing things to happen. Your vagina is the epicenter of your feminine energy. When you are in touch with your feminine, you flow in life. You stop resisting and fighting, and you begin to intuitively feel into what is right for you. You use your vagina tuition.
The openness that you have to being penetrated by your lover is reflected in the openness you have to being penetrated by life. The surrender that you have in bed, the depths to which you will truly let someone inside of you and are willing to lose control, is where the magic happens. In bed and in life.
As a woman in your feminine, your art isn’t in pushing and forcing things to happen. It’s in filling yourself up with pleasure and cock and radiating that bliss from deep within. This is how you make beauty. This is how you make art. That is what attracts more ecstasy and abundance into your life.
As much as I talk about strengthening the vagina, which is very important, there’s also the art of softening, opening, and receiving. This is the action of yin. It is often imperceptible, and it’s not as obvious as the super-yang in motion. It’s much more subtle.
The microcosm of this opening, this softening, happens in the vagina. He prods, you open. He pushes, you surrender. This is the dance of yin and yang. It’s delicious, and it’s really the only dance there is.
This opening is also the key to the deeper internal vaginal orgasms: how much you can soften and let someone inside.
The moral of the story is you need your vagina. It is your wisdom, power, creativity, and cash source. It becomes a living, breathing entity within you.
So what is the best way to activate it? Love it. Give it pleasure. Spend time with it every day. Exercise it. Strengthen it so that the muscle of it, the creative muscle, the muscle of receiving pleasure and good things in your life becomes second nature to you.
One of the best ways I know to do all of these things is to use a jade yoni egg and practice Vaginal Kung Fu. This gentle, safe, and effective practice will get you back in touch with your yoni, increase your sexual energy and libido, and allow you to have wild, life-changing vaginal orgasms. You can heal the vagina of trauma, clearing what blocks you have to hearing its voice.
You sensitize it to more pleasure. You create articulation so your vagina becomes a sentient and active being, rather than just passively lying there and taking it.
The jade yoni egg is your secret weapon. The game changer for all women.
My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration. The salon runs once a year, and you can sign up for the next two weeks. In it, you will learn to master everything I’ve been talking about in this episode, as well as convert sexual energy into creative energy to fuel your life, work, and relationships. You’ll learn why orgasms are your infinite power source and how to use them to their maximum potential. You’ll receive guided weightlifting exercises for the vagina to strengthen and tone, eliminate urinary incontinence forever, and make your vagina the orgasmic bliss center it is meant to be. You’ll learn how to shift menstruation, PMS, and menopause to be energizing and rejuvenating, instead of exhausting. You’ll learn breast massage to lift and enlarge the breasts, plus nipple-gasms, and how to give a hand-job with your vagina. Essential life skills for all women.
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