10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men – Transcript
These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman.
The good news?
They are all learnable.
From cock size, to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here.
Ready when you are!
The number one sexual skill for men to develop is stamina.
For SO many reasons.
First off, women are insatiable.
All women love sex.
Really. I guarantee it.
The problem is, they’ve mainly been with two-pump chumps.
The majority of their intercourse experiences have been the sum total of all but a few minutes.
10-15 minutes if they are very, very lucky.
So what happens?
Their man comes, and then passes out.
They end up feeling used and abandoned.
And they start to think they don’t like sex.
So they avoid it.
The truth is, once you switch women on, they are hard to shut off.
Meaning when a woman has opened her true sexual potential and appetite, she wants it all. the. time.
Five-minute sexual encounters are not the way to get her there.
For women to have the deeper, life-changing vaginal orgasms—G-Spot, squirting and cervical—she needs sustained penetration.
We’re talking 30-45 minutes.
Your woman needs to know that when she’s in the throes of intense, cataclysmic ecstasy and orgasms, and she’s revealing her most full, sexiest self to you, that you’ve got this.
You aren’t going to pull the rug out from under her in the middle of it all.
Instead, you are going to stay the course and help carry her up and over into the promised land.
That’s your duty as a man. As her man.
To be an ecstasy facilitator.
And creator of a well-f**ked woman.
Cock Strength
2. Cock Power
One of the things I”m most known for is bringing the art of vaginal weight training to the masses.
You know—lifting chandeliers and coffee tables with my vagina.
Do you even lift??
The equivalent for men is penile weight lifting.
Yes, you can lift weights with your cock.
And you ought to.
Having cock strength, dexterity and immaculate articulation is an essential life skill for every man.
In my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, I teach penile weight lifting, and cock strengthening, lengthening and girth-ening exercises.
A must-have in any man’s workout routine!
3. Man Up Your Masculine Flex
Leadership. Taking charge. Being decisive.
These are all ways you embody your masculine energy and communicate to her:
“If you fall, I will catch you”
Everything you do to reinforce that it’s safe for her to open and trust you creates another layer of her surrender.
Become solid in your masculine strength and power so you can flex it with her.
And in her.
Build your physical power so you can pick her up, throw her around, toss her over your shoulder and carry her into bed.
Develop your courage so you can take on the role of the protector of your woman and your family.
Cultivate your leadership skills so you can confidently take charge of any situation and embody the archetypal masculine.
Remember, YOU are the guardian of your realm.
All of these things are panty-wetting, panty-dropping characteristics.
The way you inhabit your masculine strength and power is the same way you inhabit your cock.
And the same way you inhabit her.
We’re looking for power, confidence, the ability to stand firm.
Which is how we expect you to be inside us.
4. Be Fucking Fit
From the Taoist and Tantric perspectives on sex, more is better and longer is best.
The longer we have sex for, the more high-quality energy we can harvest and exchange with each other.
We emerge out of our sexual encounters feeling rejuvenated and blissed out.
Sometimes these feelings last for days.
You need to be able to go the distance in these crucial moments and not bail.
To hold various positions for however long it takes—and longer—you need to be in excellent sexual shape.
Part of this is your sexual stamina we spoke about earlier.
The rest of it is the overall strength you build through weight training, core power and cardio.
And cock power.
You’re gonna need all of these in your marathon 2-3 hour weekly sex dates.
Build Desire and Passion
5. Foreplay OUTSIDE of the Bedroom
You want your woman wet before you even touch her.
Lubricants are SO passé.
If you’re doing your job right, she IS perpetually wet.
You hold her eye contact from across the room.
She’s wet.
You walk by and grab her ass.
She’s wet.
You leave her a sexy, growly voice message.
Boom. Wet again.
You slam her up against the wall and maul her for 30 seconds and then walk away.
It’s a waterfall down there.
This could be us!
You ought to be stoking this fire all the time.
It’s the sex between the sex.
Extended Foreplay
6. Foreplay INSIDE the bedroom
It’s been said that:
“Most women fake orgasms because most men fake foreplay.”
Foreplay is typically thought of as a few short pit stops on the way to the promised land of intercourse.
This isn’t enough to turn a woman on.
Or at least to make her voracious and begging you to enter her.
Which is what we want.
A few cursory tweaks and licks don’t do that.
In a Tantric build up, the acts of foreplay become main events in themselves.
A 30-minute yoni massage.
A 15-minute breast massage.
45 minutes of 69.
You learn to expand these acts and savour the build up.
The longer you delay, the more aroused she is and the more intense the pleasure and orgasms are for you both.
There is an old Taoist expression: sexually speaking men are like fire; quick to ignite and quick to extinguish. Women are like water; slow to boil but they keep on boiling.
The trick is for the sexes to meet in the middle: men cultivate stamina to be able to go the distance and women work on their simmer so they are much closer to the boiling point.
The Heart of Sexual Mastery for Men
Where the wild things are.
A sexually masterful man knows that the promised land is the vagina.
Not the clitoris.
Your tongue lashing and thrashing skills may be extraordinary.
But clitoral orgasms are the domain of girls.
Women f*ck and come in the vagina.
The deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical are the transformative, life-changing, good-f*ck medicine orgasms for women.
Women on a steady diet of clitoral orgasms will never be well-f**ked.
You heard me: Never.
IN fact, they might think they don’t even like sex that much, because clitoral orgasms are so paltry and superficial—compared to what’s available to them in the vagina.
Much more profound. Much deeper pleasure.
These orgasms literally rewire her.
Cervical orgasms activate the vagus nerve and create a massive autonomic nervous system reset in the body.
Forget ice baths and breath work.
Vaginal orgasms are where it’s at.
Mastering them is an essential part of your sexual repertoire as a man.
I include step-by-step instructions for G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon.
Integrity as the Foundation
8. Integrity
At first glance this may not seem like a sexual skill.
But it’s the thing that turns me on MOST in a man.
Truly. My number one turn on.
Actually gets me wet.
What is integrity?
Doing what you say you’re going to do.
Following through.
Honoring your word.
It’s really all you’ve got.
All of this reinforces to me that a man is worthy of my surrender.
It loosens the lock on any kind of internal gate.
Because I know.
I can trust him.
He means what he says and says what he means and this guiding principle is more important to him than anything else that might try to hijack it.
Trust opens the heart and parts the legs.
It’s the key ingredient in gourmet sex.
It’s the X factor in women having vaginal orgasms.
It’s the perpetual building of the net of “if you fall, I will catch you”
9. Emotional Stamina
Part of the foreplay that starts outside of the bedroom is your fearlessness to take her anytime, anywhere.
Sexually, yes.
And also emotionally.
You aren’t afraid to initiate and have the tough conversations on any topic.
Especially when it comes to your relationship.
You know that emotional blocks and unresolved issues immediately turn into sexual blocks that show up in bed.
So if you let these pile up, your sex life will tank.
You work to boost your own emotional fortitude and ability to travel through all terrain, will reinforce to her that “you’ve got this”.
If she falls, you will catch her.
She doesn’t have to do your emotional work for you, because you do it yourself.
This makes her trust you and look at you as her lover and man and protector.
Rather than as a boy child who needs his mommy to wrangle his emotional life, as women and men are often wont to do.
Helping Her Come First and Often
10. She Comes First/Many
Ah, the golden rule of female orgasms.
As I’ve said, all women are insatiable.
Once you wake them up!
One orgasm for her is literally a drop in the bucket.
What we want is for that cup to runneth over.
When it does, you’ll have a well-fucked woman on your hands.
And on her knees.
A great rule of thumb/orgasms is that she comes in threes.
You can mix and match here.
It could be three G-Spot orgasms.
A cervical orgasm, a nipple orgasm and a squirting orgasm.
A throatgasm, an anal-gasm and a G-Spot orgasm.
As long as she’s had three, you’re good to go.
If you stop before that, or if you give her a single clitoral orgasm with your tongue and think you are a sex god, think again.
This will just leave her feeling deeply underf**ked.
And she’ll let you know.
She’ll nag, whine, belittle, criticize, humiliate you.
She won’t even know why she’s doing it.
And you certainly won’t.
But I’m telling you that this is the ballad of the underf**ked woman.
And you can sing that thing into submission.
With all of your sexual confidence and your epic Supercock.
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THIS is what it takes to make a well-f**ked woman.
And what’s in it for you?
What happens when your woman is well-f**ked?
That naggy, needy, complain-y woman who was once your partner, is no longer.
What you have instead is an unstoppable sex goddess.
Not only does she want your cock night and day and get on her knees all over the place to receive it, she becomes your greatest champion and support.
She’s there to encourage and infuse loving energy into you and your purpose in the world.
She wants nothing more for you to succeed in everything you do so you can come and f*ck all that warrior victor energy into her.
If you aren’t having life-changing sex, what are you even doing?
Everything I talked about here is available in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon
In this virtual 8-week online program for men, you’ll learn:
- Orgasms without ejaculation: every man can
- How to last longer in bed and have complete orgasm control
- Organically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strength
- A penile weight lifting routine
- Orgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasms
- Embodying your masculine energy to lead in your relationship and your life
Everything you need to level up your sexual confidence and dominate in bed and in life!
To receive a free video on how to master your stamina and control and to be notified of when Sexual Mastery for Men opens for registration in a few weeks, sign up here.
