The Healing Power of Your Cock – Transcript
Good dick is a miracle drug.
Here is a list—by no means comprehensive—of things that good dick will fix.
- Depression – dick is greater than antidepressants
- PMS
- Menstrual cramps and difficult periods – can use dick instead of Midol
- ALL menopause symptoms – Dick is more effective than HRT
- Weight gain – Dick slams Ozempic.
- Belly fat
- Being poor – Good dick wipes out credit card debt. Good dick makes both of you rich.
- Endometriosis and PCOS – use dick instead of organ removal
- People pleasing – Good dick makes you not give a fuck. You got good dick. That’s all that matters.
- Cure anxiety – Good dick alchemizes your anxiety into confidence. It mobilizes you. Anxiety is just stuck, stagnant energy. Dick helps you get it moving.
- Headaches—Instead of using “I have a headache” as an excuse, the best thing you could do is get on that dick
- Resting bitch face – Good dick makes you beautiful and relaxed
- Solve your sudoku puzzle – Dick boosts your concentration
- Knee pain – Dick is an analgesic extraordinaire
- A bad hair day – “just fucked hair” courtesy of great dick is the best hair.
So as you can see, dick is really quite handy.
One might even say indispensable.
A veritable pharmacy at your fingertips.
There is no substitute for good dick.
It’s the greatest all-around panacea and the cure for all that ails a woman.
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So what qualifies as “good dick”? And how can you use yours to be a supremely healing and life-changing dick?
Let’s talk about it.
Cock—and men—have been demonized in our current cultural climate.
I was interviewing an all-star last week for an episode about “toxic masculinity” and he was talking about how much animosity there is towards men these days.
I said yea, it’s now a hate crime to be a man.
We laughed, but there’s definitely a shocking amount of truth to this statement.
Men, and the idea of strong, powerful, archetypal masculine energy, have been—of late—portrayed as inherently abusive, and destructive to society.
We’ll explore this more in-depth in an upcoming episode.
Today I want to talk about how all of that energy ends up concentrated at and directed to the epitome and epicenter of maleness, which is…
THE COCK
If you don’t own and inhabit your cock, you won’t be able to wield these magical powers.
And honestly? You’ve got some obstacles.
I’ll go through the main ones and then we’ll reframe and give you some directions for your mighty erections.
OBSTACLE 1: Negative cultural perception of cock and all things masculine
Ever since I was aware enough to understand it, I’ve seen a skew with male vs. female genitalia.
The female body is coveted, revered and considered to the epitome of beauty.
Male nudity—and the cock—is feared, or thought to be ugly.
At least those are the impressions I had taken away and seen men also internalize.
I remember early on boyfriends of mine who had absorbed this idea that their genitalia was inherently bad or ugly and as an extension, sex was something to be suffered through for women.
Women didn’t really like it, they had to be tricked into having it and cocks were kinda scary.
They didn’t have their own power, beauty; and they certainly weren’t worthy of love, worship or adoration.
This always struck me as a bit odd. Where did these ideas come from?
Why would male genitalia be villainized like this?
Meanwhile, I had these truly beautiful lovers with beautiful cocks.
So gorgeous they were breathtaking.
Lying like marble sculptures in my bed.
OBSTACLE 2: Being a man—especially a white man—is a hate crime these days
So many men I speak to are acutely aware of this organized effort to suppress them as a group.
To associate virile masculinity with violence and abuses of power.
The irony here is that the only TOXIC masculinity is the ABSENCE of it.
Men are being encouraged to shrink themselves and take up less space.
Many men do this.
And this internalized oppression shrinks their sense of self, their confidence, their power.
And of course, their cocks.
They have lackluster erections or outright ED because they aren’t fully occupying their masculine selves or their cocks.
If you aren’t inhabiting your self or your cock, it has no healing power.
In fact, that inversion of energy is probably creating misery and chaos around you.
If you have ED or PE, your cock is malfunctioning.
It’s power—and likely it’s size—shrinking, just as you are.
OBSTACLE 3: Early sexual abuse and genital mutilation.
You might call it circumcision.
I call it rape.
You might call it circumcision.
I call it genital mutilation.
You might call it circumcision.
I call is sexual abuse of a child.
Nearly 40% of the world’s male population have had massive sexual violence done to them—often on the day they were born.
One in three-plus men is sexually abused and mutilated on the first day of their existence on earth, through routine ritualized abuse aka circumcision.
So their relationship to their genitalia is a complicated one.
Their cocks are the source of both the greatest pleasure and the greatest physical pain they’ll ever feel.
And then they get gaslit, being told that this sexual abuse is healthy for them.
And that it’s even dangerous for a man NOT to get sexually abused and mutilated.
What a headfuck.
What gaslighting.
All projected onto your cock and your psyche.
We focus on circumcision healing in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon AND the art of foreskin restoration.
A massive orgasmic and pleasure center is removed from men—just like in female genital mutilation.
There are ways you can heal and help to get it back.
To wield the full power of your cock, this is a trauma that needs to be cleared.
Otherwise, you are half-cocked.
Men who still have intact cocks describe the area of their foreskin—that is cut away in circa men—as being multi-orgasmic, with several different pleasure centers, just like in the vagina, when we talk about the G-Spot, the cervix, etc.
Yep.
They didn’t tell you that before the “procedure”.
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All right, so those are your main obstacles, or Cockstacles, as it were.
Let’s reframe all of this with some Cock Truths.
First off, sometimes people ask me why I use the word “cock” instead of penis or lingam.
Especially when I usually use the word “vagina” publicly instead of pussy or yoni.
Mainly, because it’s onometopoeically correct.
And it’s my favorite moniker to refer to the male member.
Penis sounds creepy and weird.
Put your “Penis” inside me.”
Ugh. I have to force myself to say that.
It’s gross: the sound and feeling of the word.
Lingam feels a bit performative.
“Your thac-red lingam.”
One’s too soft, the other is too ethereal, but cock?
Cock is just right.
Strong, powerful, one syllable.
Doesn’t beat around the bush. Hahah.
But you can beat my bush all day long!
And vagina, I used to feel the same way I did about the word “penis”.
But whenever I did media interviews, I guess I spoke more about vaginas, and I had to use that word on TV, etc.
So I eventually got used to it.
I’ve just never gotten used to “penis”.
Honestly it’s even torture saying it right now.
So cock it is.
Ahem.
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COCK TRUTH #1: The barometer of your masculinity
Like I said before, when a man is fully occupying his masculinity, is confident in who he is and is expressing that out in the world, all of this is reflected in the strength of his erection
And the size of its cock.
They grow.
I’ve seen men—my own partners—and men in my salons—gain at least an inch in length and girth JUST from this level of confidence and OWNING who they are and what they’ve got to give to the world.
COCK TRUTH #2: Your wand of light
In Sanskrit, the word “lingam” translates into “wand of light”.
This is an amazing definition.
And one that I’ve personally experienced.
When I’ve been with men and they consciously infuse their energy and loving intention into their cocks.
It’s like getting fucked multidimensionally.
As it ought to be.
If you aren’t fucking your partner multi-dimensionally, what are you even doing?
AND this is the way you gain INCHES in cock power and size.
This is NOT a cock Mea Culpa or rationalization.
It’s the truth.
Men can have 8-inch cocks they don’t own.
And 5-inch ones they know how to wield like forces of nature.
And by this I don’t mean they “fuck hard”.
I mean they inject all of their love, adoration and masculine energy into their cocks and then consciously INTO their woman.
THAT is how you fuck the shit out of someone.
THAT is how you fuck the demons out of—and the love into— someone.
This is your duty.
This is OUR duty as lovers.
We HEAL and ELEVATE each other with the power of our love.
WE are both conduits for the most powerful creative life-force energy in the universe.
When we CONSCIOUSLY GIVE that to each other, we become unstoppable.
We self-realize into the highest versions of who we are.
But.
This doesn’t just happen in any sexual encounter.
It ONLY happens in the gourmet variety, with the highest level of surrender.
Meaning, both people have their guards down and are completely open within themselves and to each other.
That’s the ONLY way you can tap into this life-changing power.
YOU can heal your woman of ALL the things I mentioned at the start of this episode.
Which is basically, everything.
All can be healed with the miracle of good dick.
Conscious, loving, feral and powerful dick.
How do you activate your “wand of light”?
How do you transform any negative associations with it and fully own and use its power?
1) Cock and testicle massage
Most cocks are numb.
So are most vaginas.
Partly because they’ve never been properly owned and used.
Partly because of all the abuse they’ve sustained.
Very few people utilize their organs of life-force, pro-creativity and healing in the ways they are meant to.
Enter lingam massage.
Conscious, deliberate, awakening touch.
Not a hand job. Not with the express purpose of “getting you off”.
Instead, massage that aims to awaken and activate.
To love and heal. To Resensitize.
It’s a profound experience to receive.
And to give.
Mutual lingam and yoni massages is a foundation of my work with couples.
They help you reconnect emotionally and physically to your genital superpowers.
For men, you include the testicles, which also boosts testosterone production.
This is one of your biggest tools for owning and occupying your cock.
You can do self-massage and/or have your partner massage you.
I walk you through step-by-step genital reflexology massage routines in my SMM salon.
2) Upping your testosterone. Reducing your estrogen.
- Lift heavy weights. Yes, physically at the gym, AND overall in your life. Find big challenges to take on. And conquer them.
- You build physical muscle in the gym. And you build mental muscle and fortitude by training yourself to push through adversity and use it as a springboard to higher states of your self-expression.Weight training is such a great moving metaphor for this.Strong men are forged. Your aren’t “born this way”.You have to earn it.In this era, YOU have to create the fire that forges you and throw yourself into it.
- Eat a high-fat, high-protein diet to optimize hormone production.
- Steak, venison, bison, eggs, oysters, salmon, sardines, raw milk and cheese are my favorites.
- If you haven’t already, do a full inventory of all your household and body products and sub out anything chemical for all-natural alternatives.
- The xenoestrogens in everything NOT natural sabotage your innate hormone levels.IN Anami Land, we trust and know that our bodies are capable of generating all the hormones we need.The best way to turn your body into a hormone generating factory?Lots of high-quality sex. You literally build all of your reproductive hormones and this way.In Anami Land, we don’t buy the scam of people needing exogenous hormones.Udnefucked people might “need” them because they aren’t making them.Well-fucked people make their own. All day, every day.
This is the stuff Supercocks are made of.
3) Organic cock growth.
You build and grow biceps.
You can build and grow your cock.
Organically.
You can gain length and girth through cock-sercises.
I teach a whole routine in my SMM salon.
You can truly expand into your full potential.
You can check out how some of our Well-Fucked All Stars have done it in the episodes:
“My Cock Doubled in Size” features our all star Ethan.
Season x Episode x
And
“My Dick Grew So Big” featuring Pracarsh.
Season x Episode x
ADD QUOTES FROM THERE HERE.
I have a free masterclass on how to do this as well at kimanami.com/stamina
And the full routines these Well-F**ked and now Well-Hung All stars used is in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon.
4) Quitting porn.
Cold turkey. Hasta la vista baby.
Not only is it a major suck of your testosterone, but it leaves an energetic imprint of embarrassment behind.
I can always spot the professional wankers:
- Because of their baldness
- Because of the aura of shame they carry.
Hey no judgement. I don’t care what you jerk off to.
But YOU clearly do.
Because it’s an energy that you wear.
When you have your own guilt—subconscious or not—or sense that you could be doing better with your life and time, but you succumb to the repetitive come-into-a-tissue and flush it away, the whole world sees the choices written on your energy field.
It’s a low-vibe, weak choice. Instead of carrying the energy of strength and triumph, it’s like being lured into an alley for a $10 handy by a $50 streetwalker in leopard print.
Was this a high use of your energy or a low one?
The big scam and psyop of porn is convincing people—especially men people—that splouging your energy willy nilly all over the place has no energetic impact on you.
I’m saying it has a massive one.
And then that’s the kind of bipolar weirdness you are bringing to you woman in your cock.
Half-shame, embarrassment, disppainnetment in yourself, guilt.
Who the fuck wants to fuck that?
If you bring that to her, even if she does’t know consciously where it’s coming from or what it is, she’ll still feel the energy of it.
And… she’ll avoid you.
And your cock.
Why do you think that porn is free/almost free and so prolific?
It’s like the rat who sees cheese in the trap.
“WOW! AMAZING how there’s FREE CHEESE just sitting there for us.”
“And it shows up there every day!?”
“And every day one of our friends goes missing and never comes back.”
“So weird. NOM NOM NOM NOM”
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Instead of jerking off to the free—but definitely not free, nothing is—cheese—I suggest that you honor the power you have.
And you take that energy and channel it into something GROWTH-oriented and not spewn into a piece of toilet paper and flushed down the toilet.
You can’t heal yourself or your woman with your cock if you keep spilling your seed willy nilly all over the place.
Value your emissions enough to be conscious of where they are going.
Sometimes when I talk about this, people think I have some moral objection to porn or wanking.
My bigger frame on this is about what you do to BUILD energy or to DEPLETE it.
I’d argue that porn is a self-sabotage mechanism, dressed up like a honeypot.
It diminishes you and the integrity of your energy.
And THAT is what you wear.
Not hot.
5) Consciously owning your masculine energy. ((And not being a little bitch.))
This is a combination of healing anything that may be holding you back from fully inhabiting your masculine power.
Whether it’s a series of internalized beliefs: cock and men bad.
Alpha males bad.
Or direct trauma and abuse like circumcision and other sexual violations.
Examine. Alchemize. Heal.
You need to look at your outlook on all these things and understand what’s been programmed into you vs. what you actually believe and want to live by.
And then any energetic/emotional/physical healing that has to be done to get you there — DO IT.
Again, these are all things we cover in my SMM Salon.
6) Cock lifting.
You probably know what I’m most famous for.
If you don’t, you’re about to find out.
Actually, this will be fun.
If you don’t know, then pause this podcast, and go and google:
“Kim surfboard vagina”
Voila. Your life has been changed forever.
Just like I teach vaginal weight lifting for women, I also teach cock weight lifting for men.
This practice develops strength, sentience, confidence and allows you to OWN that magical, mystical love wand and flex your superpowers.
In yourself.
And in HER.
7) Fuck your woman into oblivion.
The best way to generate more of your yang?
By activating her yin.
The better, harder, stronger, wilder you can fuck her, the more she’ll open up and surrender to you, which thrusts here into her yin energy.
And this in turn, generates an AVALANCHE of testosterone and masculine flow in you.
You walk taller and straighter.
And so does your cock.
It is continually built and enriched with this high-potency good-fuck medicine you feed each other.
Your cock becomes her salvation.
And her yoni is yours.
8) Replace porn with lingam massage and conscious self-pleasuring.
Check out my Meditate, Masturbate, Create protocol which I outline in the podcast Season 5 Episode 7.
To take your self-pleasure sessions from something that depletes you, to learning how to harness and channel your pro-createive sexual energy into your life, work, empire, woman, body and entire world…
This is what you do.
It also applies to Meditate, Make Love, Create.
Because you can be having junk-food, losing-energy sex by yourself or with your partner.
Unless you choose otherwise.
I teach you how to channel this energy in my MMC protocol; which also involves conscious Tantric breathing exercises to build your stamina.
Speaking of which…
9) Stamina. Need to go the distance to heal her.
If you pump dump and schlump you’ll actually CAUSE trauma.
You need to SHOW her that you’ve GOT her.
You’ve got this.
You can—and will—go the distance with her.
The thing no ones tells us—and I’d say that people go to great lengths to hide from us—is that ALL women are insatiable.
I guarantee it.
Once you turn them on and get them going…
Well-fucked women CANNOT get enough.
They are the ones dragging their partners into the bedroom for more.
And then the men better be able to keep up.
Because now you’re getting what you wished for.
And then some.
If your woman has been force-fed a steady diet of clitoral orgasms for years, and she just don’t know any better, she’ll think that she doesn’t like sex.
Or if you’ve had a habit of pumping and dumping and going for a grand total of 3-5 wholly unsatisfying and ick-producing minutes—like 95% of the male population does—she’ll think she doesn’t like sex.
I wouldn’t either.
And I fucking LOVE sex.
But that’s not sex.
That’s trauma.
That’s abandoning her at the moment she needs you most.
A healing cock goes the distance for a long as she wants and needs—and when a woman is fully switched on?
That’s a long fucking time.
A long time of fucking.
Deep cock healing ONLY takes place in extended sessions.
Short, sharp, shocked encounters will only make her resent you and NEVER want to fuck you.
And I, Kim Anami, would not blame her one bit.
Pull up your stamina game.
It’s the only—and most important—sexual game in town for you, man.
10) Her cervix needs your cock.
The clitoris doesn’t need cock. A finger or silly toy will get her off.
But the cervix needs you to show up in all your masculine power and glory, pure of heart and pure of cock, and pour all of that into her.
Then she comes alive.
Women will only ever be well-fucked if they are having cervical orgasms.
They’ll be moderately well-fucked if they are having G-Spot and squirting orgasms.
But for her to be fully sexually self-realized?
She needs your cock—the heart of you—at the heart of her—at her cervix.
Cervical orgasms are the ONLY orgasms that matter.
Other orgasms—even G-Spot, and squirting or anal or energy or whatever—are great.
And infinitely better than clitoral.
But the most deep and profound healing and cataclysmic, life-changing sex is happening at the cervix.
And the best tool to stimulate her cervix is your cock.
A match made in heaven.
Most people haven’t even heard of cervical orgasms, let alone know how to achieve them.
Again, these are all skills and techniques I cover in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon.
THIS is your greatest gift to unlock her superpowers.
And yours.
Because WHEN your woman is well-fucked, and when your sex sessions become healing medicine, alchemy and psychedelic expansion of the highest order, you become an unstoppable SuperPower couple.
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The bottom line is:
We need you.
We need your cock.
Upright, strong, full of life and vigor.
You infuse and thrust and pound and love your gifts into us and it creates the most profound healing and alchemy.
Your CONSCIOUS cock is medicine for us.
So focus on upleveling that cock and bringing us the highest-quality enlightenment you’ve got.
We’ll be waiting.
On our knees.
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We cover:
- How to last longer in bed
- Orgasms without ejaculation
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- Organically grown cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
- Cock weight lifting routine
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