Boys, Men and Gods – Transcript
Are you a boy, a man or a god?
Gods do whatever the fuck they want.
They operate outside the bounds of “normal” society.
They make their own rules, they follow the beat of their own drum.
They think big and they think wild.
They shape the worlds around them.
They don’t wait for permission or consult a rulebook.
Gods are doing their thing out in the world, operating from such an intuitive, inner-directed place, that they live their whole lives from a visceral, heart and cock compass.
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Gods are extreme.
They go big or go home.
They’ll risk in a way that boys never fucking would, and men might do in part.
Gods?
They’ll burn the whole metropolis down.
And start that war.
And send 1000 ships.
Gods pioneer new territory that has never been explored.
They INVENT new ways of doing things.
They are so driven ONLY by their own internal compass that nothing else matters:
The laws of time and space are no match for them.
They are forces of nature.
God-men are highly intuitive, psychic and have huge hearts.
And even if their inches aren’t massive—though they usually are—they fuck like they are.
With the weight of every warrior in their ancestral lineage infused into their being and cock.
And thus, infused into you.
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Once you get a taste for kings and gods, you cannot go back to boys or even men.
It’s like going back to clitoral orgasms after experiencing cervical ones.
You just don’t bother. Nothing about them is worth it.
They’re boring. Draining. Short-lived hit. Meh.
Fuck and love me into oblivion or leave me alone.
Occasionally I spy with my little eye, a hot little thing with sparkly abs—“Ah, look at the abs on it!!”
But then… I remember… these baby princes don’t do anything for me.
I mean, they’re hot.
But ineffectual.
Which immediately and wildly cancels out the abs.
I need gravitas and CAJONES more than I need abs.
So how do you ascend from boy to man to god?
- Radical self-responsibility.
You are CAUSE. Not effect.
You are victor.
Not victim.
Look at every part of your life and where you are giving away power and control to someone else.
This means, do you blame anyone for your circumstances?
This could be parents, religion, a current or former partner.
Some past trauma.
Whatever it is.
You seize power.
Some of the most successful, pirate-esque gods I know came from beyond-humble beginnings.
That was never an excuse.
Instead, it was more like motivation that lit a fire under their asses.
Boys and to a lesser extent, men feel powerless.
They are effect, not cause.
They blame, they whine, they complain.
Someone else caused this and they are powerless, apparently, to change it.
Gods, on the other hand, direct and create their own worlds and reality.
Ad infinitum.
Whether it’s a business deal, or the capacity of their own body, or their ability to solve problems creatively.
Gods take charge and get it sorted.
They constantly rise above to be the source and not the after effect.
2) Using physical outlets to channel and hone your energy and drive.
Give your energy an outlet and arena.
Use the perpetual challenge SOMETHING to train yourself to keep rising higher.
Whether it’s weight lifting, marital arts, competitive team sports, surfing.
Men and gods all have some kind of intense physical expression of their energy that fires them up.
There’s also something about USING your body to its full capacity and constantly aiming to refine and perfect.
It keeps you in motion and you have a daily practice—akin to meditation— where you not only flow your energy into, but you generate your own hormonal and neurotransmitter cocktail that fuels your physical performance, AND your emotional and mental states as well.
Teaching yourself to overcome adversity and push through the places where you might be tempted to pull back is god-training.
3) Mastery over your sexual self.
Of course, this one is HUGE.
Most males, in this domain, remain stuck as boys, and a small percentage make it to the MEN.
Occasionally, some break through into the land of GODS.
Many men—even those performing at decently high levels—still have major sexual hangups and habits that DEPLETE rather than BUILD their energy.
((((Napoleon Hill wrote about this in Think and Grow Rich.)))))
Over the years, a handful of athletes and high-performers, from David Haye to Miles Davis, have talked about how they were conscious and judicious with their sexual energies.
Because… they noticed how it impacted their performances.
I think most men FEEL the impact, but because of their own blockages and inhibitions around sexuality, they don’t make the connection consciously.
When I was growing up, they used to call this “no sex before the big game”.
Now we call it “no-Fap” or the Tantric names of “semen retention”—or what we love most in Anami Land as the best of all worlds:
Orgasm without ejaculation.
This is the notion that our sexual energies are MASSIVELY powerful—you know—we have the god-like power to create new life with every sexual encounter.
Most people—especially men people—totally squander this energy.
And a small select few gods have recognized that this energy is so potent that instead of wasting it and constantly ejecting it out of the body and literally flushing it down the toilet, they can conserve and redirect it.
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This week, a story hit the media about a Christian man who was feeling tempted by the Lycra baddies at the gym.
The hot women looking so hot and sweaty were just too hot for him to handle, so he’s started a MALES ONLY gym.
So he doesn’t get… tempted.
He admits to having a 20-year porn addiction.
And… he had an affair that—you guessed it—started at the gym.
The Lycra baddies were just too much for him.
Hot sweaty, fit bodies everywhere.
So instead of cultivating the inner strength to control and channel his sexual energies, he’s blaming, “the gym” and “sexy ladies who just too sexy”.
This is truly pathetic “boy” behavior.
“OMG it’s a titty!
God you KNOW how powerless I am over a titty!
You sent me my greatest weakness!”
And look, this IS the kind of messaging that comes through most of the major religions:
The idea that women are SOOOOOOOOO sexy, that men just can’t control themselves and—really shouldn’t be expected to.
This is the height of spiritual and sexual immaturity.
Boy-est of the boy.
Gods cultivate total sexual mastery.
They can’t be swayed by a random titty.
Are you fucking kidding me?
If that’s all it takes to topple an empire… wow.
And it kind of is, for most boys and men.
Hence the use of “honey pots” in espionage.
They totally work.
But not on gods.
They aren’t frittering away their sexual energy and their empires by jerking off over a wayward TIT.
The top five qualities of sexual mastery in men are:
1) Stamina.
You can go anywhere, anytime for as long as you want.
And what you “want” ought to be that your woman has a minimum of 3 orgasms before you even think about coming.
I’m fuckin serious.
Couldn’t be MORE serious.
Women need at least three orgasms—none of them clitoral—to be considered well-fucked.
You need stamina to get her there.
Boys come in three minutes or less.
Men can go for 30 minutes.
Gods go all night, all day and drag you back for more.
2) The most sexually masterful you can get is to learn to orgasm without ejaculation.
This way, you can give your woman all the orgasms she could ever want or need and she’ll be well-f**ked for life.
You’ll retain your vital energy and power and have the best of all possible worlds: NOT passing out after you come.
You’ll “come” as in, have an orgasm, but you won’t ejaculate and deplete yourself of your most precious—and powerful—fluids.
This is the ultimate in male sexual mastery.
This is where gods live.
3) You deliver the ultimate orgasmic goods for her: cervical orgasms.
With the occasional G-Spot and squirting orgasms for some variety.
Your woman can LIVE on a steady diet of cervical orgasms.
If that’s all you ever gave her forever and ever, she’d be well-fucked forever and ever.
You know better than to stop at the fool’s gold of the clitoris.
You know the true goldmine is in the vagina.
You give your woman this essential good fuck medicine, transforming and healing her.
Boys hang out at the clitoris.
Men go to the G-Spot.
Gods dive into the cervix and never look back.
4) Be great at manhandling or “god-handling”
Not “boy”handling.
You need to have the strength, confidence and audacity to toss her around, and use your masculine physical strength and dominance to regularly show her, like slap your dick in her face show her—literally and metaphorically—that you’ve got her, you’ve got this, and the safest, most delicious thing she could ever do is to give it all up to you.
That she can surrender, drop every Inch of her guard and let you into her.
Sounds delightful, doesn’t it?
Your “manhandling” is what helps to make this happen.
Providing such a steady container of masculinity, a literal pillar—also shown in the microcosm of your cock—as a literal pillar of strength.
4) Cock ownership.
Having cock strength, dexterity and immaculate articulation is an essential life skill for every man.
You know how I teach vaginal weight lifting for women?
I also teach cock weight lifting for men.
Both essential life skills.
Your cock ought to be rugged enough to pack a punch, slap and slay your woman demons.
All in one fell swoop.
Lifting weights with your cocks makes it strong, your thrusting wild,
You owe it t yourself and your woman to be all that you can be: and for your cock to be all that it can be.
Boys do Crossfit and Hyrox.
Men lift weights.
Gods do any and all of that AND do cock-sercises.
I teach cock-lifting AND lengthening and strengthening exercises.
Gods have self-actualized cocks.
Fully inhabited and expanding into their full potential.
In my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, men gain an inch plus in length and an inch plus in girth.
Only God-cock for me, thanks.
5) Bring your masculine A-game into bed and “god-handle” your woman.
You don’t just “man-handle” and you certainly don’t “boy” handle her.
But “god-handle” her.
You “take” her.
You take charge, dominate and wield your force and strength—lovingly—into your woman.
EVERY woman WANTS to feel this energy in her man.
It’s the ultimate yang to our yin.
The artful administering is what keeps your woman well-fucked and well-loved.
Being able to pin her up against the wall, toss her over your shoulder…
And RAVAGE her.
With both strength and adoration.
It’s the god-like edge.
Boys wouldn’t dare.
Men are often clumsy and don’t fully trust themselves to go far enough.
But gods?
Gods will fuck you into oblivion.
Right off your axis and then back onto it.
4) Build an empire.
Yeah, I’m talking to YOU.
This doesn’t mean that you have to be a billionaire, but, you know, why not?
It DOES mean that you need to find and channel your gifts, your purpose, your dharma into the world.
You find the thing or things that make you YOU and make a living doing them.
Not only do you make a living, but you raise them to a HIGH ART.
You forge your signature and imprint out into the world.
Your uniqueness.
When you do that, the universe automatically rewards you with abundance.
In fact, I’d say it’s a LAW of the universe that it has to do that.
When you show up with courage and strength and you put yourself out there, the universe bucks up and says:
“I see you. I reward you.”
When you’ve built your empire, your woman knows you can get shit done.
Like, you know, her.
When you put yourself to the test in your body, your sexual self, and your vocation, you are showing your woman—and the world—that you know how to bend space, time and universal laws and use them to your advantage.
You know. The stuff of gods.
The work and play of gods.
Not mere mortals, who feel cowed and burdened by all these things.
So boring.
Let them eat cake.
Let them eat clit and prematurely ejaculate.
Let them take TRT and HRT.
Let them make all of their excuses about how they have “no control over their own bodies and lives.”
Wah wah, boys and men.
That is NOT the way of gods.
5) Whole-hearted and whole-cocked loving and fucking.
They are chalant as FUCK with women.
I done a few episodes over the past months about the world of modern dating and the trend of “nonchalance” as some kind of bizarre, fucked up “seduction” strategy.
The idea that men think they have to ignore and be really detached from women; especially in the early stages of relationship.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
This technique is the “Neil Strauss/Dan Bilzerian” ugly unfuckable guy who never got laid growing up and now trying to find ways to fuck hookers for free.
Yo. Wow. What admirable life goals you have.
Gods don’t play games with women.
They don’t pretend to like them less as some sort of power move.
They don’t act all detached for fear of getting burnt.
No.
It’s the opposite.
They make big, outrageous moves.
They say wild, poetic and life-changing things.
They wear their hearts on their sleeves.
These guys are actually super sensitive, very intuitive, emotionally intelligent men.
You just don’t see it at first glance when you see them flexing muscle and godworthy accomplishments.
We assume that powerful masculine gods-among-men don’t also have sensitive hearts.
But in my experience, they always do.
The gods who can exhibit the most ferocity in the arena or the boardroom can also be the most tender with their woman.
Somehow by riding both extremes, they get better at each.
People who live in the middle never get really good at anything.
So this kind of emotional swagger is the hallmark of gods.
Tepid, “I’m scared to go there” energy is the domain of boys and men.
The reality is that in god land, you go big in everything you do.
What you’ll find is that your genius just keeps expanding in every genre you touch.
From your business and cash flow, to her vagina, you keep upping the ante of you brilliance all over the place.
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So are you boy-handling, manhandling or “god”handling your woman and your life?
In the Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, my 10-week signature salon for men, we go deep into all things “god-handling”.
From how to own and occupy your sexual energy and your cock, to how to channel that energy into your life, work and woman, we cover it all.
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