Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men– Transcript
Hell hath no fury like a woman underfucked.
When you have an underfucked woman on your hands, you’ll know it.
Because she’ll MAKE you know it.
She’ll make it loud and clear.
Here are a list of signs you can look for:
Signs of being underfucked.
- She’s grumpy. Irritable. Angry.
- Naggy, complaining.
- Whining
- Depression
- Sadness
- Binge eating. Weight gain.
- Emotional outbursts
- Yelling at shop clerks and bank officials. Road rage.
- Blowing little things out of proportion.
- Lashes out at you.
- Belittles, insults and humiliates you in front of your friends.
- Has terrible menstrual and menopausal symptoms but tries to rationalize these as a “normal part of being a woman.” Nah. She’s just underfucked.
Underfucked women are prone to erratic emotional behavior—angry outbursts one moment, despondent and sad the next, and hysterical laughter after that.
You know. Classic hysteria.
But they usually stray towards anger and aggression.
Mainly: At you.
And random shop clerks.
ALL of the above symptoms are resentment:
For not being properly fucked.
As the saying goes: “Hell hath no fury like a woman underfucked.”
Her underfucked behavior is a cry for help.
A cry, which distinctly says “FUCK ME.”
Whenever I hear men complaining about their naggy, bitchy woman, he’s telling me one thing:
He’s not fucking her enough.
Well-fucked women DO NOT nag, complain, bitch, or pelt you with snarly, aggressive behaviors.
Only UNDERfucked women do that.
ALL of your relationship problems will evaporate or be solved so much more quickly when your woman is regularly and profoundly… fucked.
By you.
THIS is your job.
THIS is your raison d’être.
Because when you do this, she is your secret weapon.
A well-fucked woman is your highest-level business trade secret, cash amplifier, health upgrader, brain biohacker and creativity generator.
When she’s firing on all cylinders—meaning she’s exuding the well-fucked aura that your cock delivers—she’s your biggest supporter.
Instead of cutting you down, humiliating you in front of your friends, belittling you at every turn and essentially throwing a knife into your back when you least expect it, she does the opposite of all this.
She GIVES you—and everything you do in the world—a turbo boost.
The Midas touch.
She encourages, champions and makes you feel like you are the most powerful man in the universe.
With the biggest cock.
You can do no wrong.
Everything you touch turns to gold.
Because YOU started with touching her vagina.
And making sure it was touched well.
Think of it this way:
Your sexual energy—and your intimate relationship—are the engines of your life.
THIS is where you rejuvenate, heal, fuel and power up.
You go to bed.
And you PLUG IN.
You fuck the shit out of each other—you FUCK OUT the demons— negativity blasting them all away.
And you FUCK IN love, adoration, confidence and creative life-force energy INTO each other.
That’s what your bed was made for.
Your shelter, sanctuary and power source.
This is the entry point and the channel for all life in this world:
The portal at your genitals.
Ancient civilizations knew this.
The ultimate FREE energy source.
This is why there is such a massive effort to distort, quell and censor this knowledge.
Because when you have it and live it, you become superhuman.
Now.
Back to fucking your woman well.
When she’s underfucked, there is only one solution.
A cock in an orifice.
You pick.
Vagina. Mouth. Anus.
All of them work.
So how do you choose which orifice and when?
Here’s your trusted guide to orifice selection.
These are the telltale signs to look for.
She usually tells you exactly where to put it.
Just not in so many words.
So listen up.
I’ll give it to you in layman’s terms.
Oral:
If she’s whining and complaining a lot verbally, stick your cock in her mouth.
Choke her with it.
If she’s nagging and insulting you and making snide comments, cock slap, choke and facefuck that shit right out of her.
She needs it.
Her belligerence is a cry for help.
She is begging you to silence her insolence.
In fact, she’s probably even GOADING you, seeing how far she can push you, before you mercifully belt her with cock.
She’ll belittle, humiliate, embarrass and insult you.
She WANTS you to stop her.
She’s going hard to MAKE you respond.
So do it.
If you don’t stuff her face with your cock, you’re missing the message.
Get that cock right in there until she’s gasping for air and there are tears coming out of her eyes.
That’s what a throat-gasm looks like.
YES, you can make her come from her throat.
Throat-gasms are real.
Give her a few.
Face fuck her until she forgets her name and all she can do is whimper yours.
Remember: if your woman is whining, she needs to get face-fucked.
She needs a mouth full of cock.
This is how she finds her voice.
Really.
A good throat-fucking clears any stuck energy that she’s having trouble expressing.
She’s lost her voice.
So you go in there with your cock and you help her find it.
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Anal:
Next signs to look for are when she’s disgruntled. Agitated.
She looks—and—feels like she could explode at any moment.
She’s a volcano seething and simmering under the surface, but she can’t fully express what’s happening inside her.
Though you can tell she wants to.
This is typically when there’s been an ongoing buildup of things and now it’s a big pile of emotional/energetic mess.
This is when anal is your—and her—BFF.
A cock in the ass is the cure for what ails her.
Anal sex dislodges stuck “shit” that we sometimes can’t even find the words for.
Solution: you passionately ass fuck her and she’ll have an emotional breakthrough.
She might scream and cry and flail.
The storm breaking.
This is GREAT!
We need to break each other and come undone.
In the deepest and most loving ways.
Afterwards, she’ll be soft. Tender. Calm. Floaty.
Delicate even.
The ass is also the seat of the unconscious.
It’s the ultimate shadow work and play.
Your repressed issues live here.
So getting in there and unwinding tension and the things we “hold on tight to” is super helpful.
There’s a reason we call people “tight asses” or say they “have a stick up their butts”.
This is a kind of repression that is so palpable that other people can feel it.
A good ass fucking is sometimes the only thing that can cut through and start releasing all of the things we’ve packed away and are holding onto so tightly.
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Vaginal:
And last but not least, we have the vagina.
The vagina is obviously great as an “anytime” choice to keep her in flow.
YOU and your cock are her ultimate nervous system reset and regulation.
YOU and your cock are her constant sexual medicine.
When she’s overly emotional with the classic symptoms of “hysteria”:
Anger at the drop of a hat.
Tears up easily.
Emotionally erratic. Up, down and all over the place.
You need to bend her over, right here, right now.
Bent over with deep, deep penetration to reach her cervix.
The cervix is the heart reflexology point in women.
When they are emotionally distraught, it’s best to get straight to the “heart of the matter” by heading to her cervix.
You and your cock are her medicine; the things that keeps her steady and balanced as a woman.
The feminine is naturally mercurial and tempestuous—but in a more exaggerated and out-of-balance way when she’s underfucked.
This is when you’ll see the more dramatic, emotional flip flops.
Outbursts. Passive aggression. Or outright aggression.
When this energy crosses the line, it’s cock time/hammah time.
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And then we need to talk about medicinal dosages.
THE administration of the MEDICINE
You can mix and match.
And dose up all orifices in one session.
And I suggest you do.
The more medicine you can fill her up with, the better.
And for it to be MOST effective, you need to consider three things:
- Frequency
- Duration/stamina
- Intention
Frequency
My recommendations for frequency dosing are:
Once a day. Twice a day. Minimum 3 times a week.
A weekly 3-hour sex date.
In Anami Land, a quickie is one hour.
No less.
What we hear from our Well-F**ked Couples in Anami Land is that they start to feel it after a couple of days if they haven’t had sex.
They notice themselves bickering, getting impatient, a bit bristly with each other.
And then they realize: “OH! We haven’t had sex in a couple of days!
We better get on that!”
And then all is right in the universe.
The next factor is DURATION.
I’ve already mentioned that every couple ought to have a weekly 3-hour sex date.
Let me be clear: this is set-in-stone, non-negotiable.
You slot it in and make it happen every week.
Come hell or high water.
You clear your schedules, you turn down social invitations, you arrange childcare.
You MOVE MOUNTAINS for your relationship to have this time and space uninterrupted.
And then in addition to that, at least two other minimum hour-long sessions during the week.
Could be longer. But at least that.
All the magical places and life-changing experiences I talk about sexually are NOT EVER going to happen in 3-minute, or even 15-minute encounters.
The only exception to that is once you are operating at such a high level as a couple—meaning you are already super connected—then it’s not a big leap to touch and hit the high notes quickly.
I’m not recommending that as a staple of your diet. AT all.
But if you are constantly simmering at an 8 or 9, you don’t always need all the build up.
Though it’s half the fun. And you HARVEST so much more energy in longer encounters.
But most people need warming up.
They are starting much lower in their connection level and need that time to open, unwind and feel into each other.
Otherwise, you’re only ever skimming the surface with each other.
And well-fucked people “the surface” does not make.
So MAKE the time and make it count.
And before you start with me that you have children and jobs and you’re so tired and busy.
WE have Well-F**ked Couples who both work in high-level jobs, have six kids and have sex EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
I do not accept your excuses.
And something curious happens when you do this—when you prioritize your relationship.
You find that EVERYTHING else falls into place.
You find that you’ve tapped into the creative energy of the universe.
And time and space start to bend.
You become so magnetic and so in the flow of life, that whatever time you *think* you take out of your day to connect with each other.
You’ve now earned tenfold in the currency of magnetic abundance.
If you don’t believe me, then check out our episodes:
The Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job
60, Rich and Ass-F**ked Across Alabama
Make Her Squirt, Make More Cash
And our Well-F**ked Couple All Stars will tell you themselves.
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The third factor is INTENTION.
In Anami Land, we talk about gourmet sex vs. junk-food sex.
Someone new to my work might assume that I just tell everyone to have lots of sex anywhere, anytime, with anyone, anyhow.
Well, the first two, yes.
But the second two, no.
The key ingredient in sex that changes your life, vs. sex that just “gets you off” or acts as stress relief or a sleep aid, is how deeply connected you are with your partner.
Junk food sex is the lowest quality of ingredients.
You get a quick hit, a brief high and then you plummet.
It does nothing to build or up-level your system.
In fact it often does the opposite.
You’ve just ingested a series of neurotoxins that your body has to process and get rid of.
Gourmet sex is nourishing you on every possible level: emotionally, physically and spiritually.
Because you’ve let down your walls, you’ve let someone in.
THIS is the medicine.
Being seen and adored in your most raw, primal states.
You emerge from an encounter like this, even MORE of your true self.
Stronger. Wilder. Wiser.
Your creative genius unleashed.
Unified in heart, mind and genitals.
And ready to take on the world and make your mark in it.
Your intention ought to be what I said before:
To fuck the shit OUT of your partner.
And love the brilliance INTO them.
To fortify each other.
To tap into the channel of your pro-creative powers and unleash them onto the universe.
THAT is why you are here.
And THAT is the true purpose of your connection with each other.
So say it with me.
Sex is medicine.
Oral is medicine.
Anal is medicine.
Go forth and heal.
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