10 Things that Happen When You Are Well-F**ked – Transcript
First off, let’s define what it means to be well-fucked.
Based on my own experience and tens of thousands of people going through my programs and applying my work.
When I first began using this phrase a couple of decades ago, it was considered pretty risqué.
And now it’s woven itself into the sexual ecosystem and vernacular.
Even though it’s a term I coined, and later trademarked.
I created a whole salon and teachings around this and the concepts are the essence and backbone of my work.
So what does it mean to be well-fucked?
Is it someone whose having a lot of sex?
Sure.
It could be.
But not necessarily.
Someone could be having lots of sex, that I would consider to be “throwaway” or junk-food sex.
And that wouldn’t make them well-fucked.
In fact, the opposite would happen.
They might even be radically UNDER-fucked.
Imagine eating a steady diet of Ramen noodles and Coca-cola.
Your body would be starved for nourishment.
So being WELL-fucked is a quality.
It’s what your sex life is DOING FOR you.
Is it building you?
Or is it depleting you?
Is it multiplying and harnessing your life force?
Or is it sucking the energy out of you?
In Anami Land, the way we define being well-fucked is by how you answer this barometric question:
Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life?
If not, then you’re doing it wrong.
If yes, then you are DOING IT right.
Sexual energy is life-force energy.
You are either building your world and yourself through using it.
Or you are destroying them.
Does this seem dramatic?
It is.
This is exactly why such a massive effort is made to convince you that your sexual energy is casual and disposable.
That it doesn’t matter what you do with it.
When in reality, it matters more than anything else you choose to do.
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That’s why I’’m so passionate about what I do and it’s my life’s work.
Because the difference is massive:
Between gourmet sex.
And junk-food sex.
One is nourishment and elevation.
The other is toxic and tiring.
And look. Most people don’t know what they don’t know.
They’ve never tasted gourmet and so they think that sex sucks overall.
Or that lame sex and fast food deep-fried in weeks’ old oil is the best there is.
And if you’ve ever ONLY had the junk-food version, I can see why you might think that.
But.
Once you start partaking of the gourmet kind, you’ll never go back.
You’ll be so profoundly nourished.
And changed.
That you’ll finally get it.
And you become a walking, talking, fucking ambassador for the new regime of well-fucked living.
So here’s what it looks like to be well-fucked.
These are the kinds of things that happen when you step out of your life-changing bed and emerge into the world.
Because here’s the thing.
Not only does having this kind of sex completely revitalize and revolutionize your relationship.
1) You get richer. As in, you make lots of MAH-NEY.
It’s true.
Get well-fucked and watch the cash roll in.
I saw this early on in my own life and with my clients.
Once they were imbued with that next-level fuck aura, even the universe bowed down before them and showered them in gifts.
I come bearing gifts.
Your coming bears you gifts.
Why, you ask?
It’s a combination of reasons we’ll go through in this episode, all combined, to put you into a divine flow and bestow upon you the Midas touch.
Where everything you touch turns to gold.
Because YOU are being touched like you ARE gold.
You get seen inside, you get loved up for the depths of who you are, and in that activation, something catalyzes.
All of your dormant potential wakes the FUCK up.
You get into a flow from your highest, most intuitive self.
And you live there.
Yes, you can live there.
It’s like multiple orgasms. They just keep coming.
A WFW or WFM multiplies everything they touch.
You’ve accessed the life-force, birthing energy of the universe.
Fertility-maxing.
And now you are applying that into every part of your life.
The other factor, is that you start making more aligned choices in your life and your work.
Things fall away that weren’t the purest expression of you.
And get replaced with what is.
When you do that—the closer you live to your truth in all things—the universe responds.
It LOVES it.
It rewards it.
People quit jobs that were rote, 9-5, pay the bills kind of work.
They gravitate toward vocations that are more meaningful to them.
A better expression of their dharma and their true gifts they are here to give.
Lastly, the second chakra is the seat of money, creativity and sexuality.
They’re all connected.
My view on that—and what I’ve seen shown over and over again for decades, both in my life and in the lives of my clients and students—is once you open the channel to your sexual energy in a CONSCIOUS way, and you really own and inhabit it, your creativity AND money get amped up.
People will use the phrase “It just fell into our laps!”
And I’ll say “Yeah, because YOUR LAP is what attracted it!”
Like attracts like:
Your abundance and flow translates to abundance and flow out in the world.
2) Get hotter
We’ll call it your Well-Fucked AURA
Well-fucked people have a certain je ne sais quoi.
We hear stories ALL THE TIME of women getting hit on out in public; and especially when they are ANYTHING but done up.
Think: sweats and flip flops, hair in a messy bun, out running errands.
And men galloping across lanes of traffic to beg them for their numbers.
What’s interesting about that, is that across four lanes of traffic, how well can you even SEE someone?
These men are reacting to the woman’s aura.
Her force field of well-fucked.
It’s so palpable, it’s bowling them over.
Being well-fucked, you WEAR your sexual energy like an outfit.
Nothing makes you more attractive.
It’s the ONLY fashion season that matters.
3) Lose weight. Get fit as fucked.
There ain’t nothing like well-fucked fitness.
When adoration adorns your body.
This goes WAY beyond calories in/calories out.
We’re in the realm of:
- Wearing adoration. You and your body WEAR what it feels like to be every ounce of yourself and loved and cherished for it.
- Exposing your TRUEST deepest self, your vulnerabilities, your rawness, your quirks—EVERYTHING—and someone eats and drinks it up like its manna from heaven.
They don’t flinch, they don’t run and instead they lean in and love and fuck you harder.
Yeah.
That heals.
The pounds and the weight start to disintegrate WHOLLY unrelated to what you eat—because whatever else you want now, your main diet is AMBROSIA—the food of the gods.
This god food goes in and fixes what needs fixing, heals what needs healing and amplifies what needs amplifying.
You can—and ought to—live off it.
The Well-F**ked do.
For more on this, check out these episodes:
Well-F**ked Weight Loss – Season 1 Episode 26
Lose Belly Fat Overnight with Orgasms – Season 4 Episode 16
4) Get happier.
The best antidepressant you can take—orally and vaginally.
Well-fucked and unfazed.
Think about when you’ve just had amazing sex.
You get into your car and someone cuts you off.
Are you more likely to slam on the horn and give them the finger, roll down your window and yell at them?
Or do you look at them blissfully and think—“Hey go ahead. You must be in a hurry. It’s my pleasure to help you out!”
Your whole outlook changes.
Your sexual energy was meant to be expressed.
You are designed to live your days embodying yourself as a sexual being.
It’s the essence of who you are; it’s the most YOU that you can be.
If it doesn’t get expressed, it inverts in on you—causing depression.
And often, this suppression gets funneled into road rage, berating shop employees and yelling at randos.
It’s classic misdirection. Inversion. Perversion.
Not going where it’s supposed to go.
You need to direct it somewhere.
Everyone does.
If you’re in a loving, fucking, healthy partnership, this is it’s natural home.
This is why it’s essential that you have a partner who can handle all of your loving and fucking.
ALL of it.
So you can smash them full throttle.
If you don’t have a partner, then you channel it within you.
Either way, once that energy is IN MOTION, as it needs to be, you’ll be lighter, freer, more radiant and happy.
This is the origin of the Well-Fucked Woman concept and meme.
Borne out of seeing women—including ME!—when they become well-fucked, their ENTIRE demeanor changes.
When they aren’t, they’re heavy and miserable.
People have observed this for millennia.
It’s where the term “hysteria” comes from.
It’s been in the medical literature for over two thousand years.
Probably longer.
The disease—the condition of being underfucked:
Heavy, depressed, angry, bitter, irritable.
You know: Classic “Karens.”
And when you start getting well-fucked, all that evaporates.
We’ve had people ditch their antidepressants through getting well-fucked.
They dose themselves and get dosed from their partners instead.
5) Creative genius.
You pull ideas out of your womb and birth them into the world.
This is what your “reproductive” organs are meant to be doing.
If they aren’t bringing forth new life in the form of babies, then they “birth” ideas and projects and any creative piece of ecstasy you can “conceive” of.
When you don’t do this, when you don’t utilize your creative potential, again, it INVERTS on you.
This is the source of things like endometriosis and PCOS and all the “organ” afflictions that happen.
This energy gets stunted and stuck, and it piles up.
It needs to flow out.
When you are well-fucked, this happens naturally.
6) Anti-aging.
Sexual energy is the Fountain of Youth.
Well-fucked people are youthful, playful, radiant and transcend any “aging” concepts.
Sure, maybe they get some lines and wear and tear.
But their spirits transcend this all.
They defy all “aging” propaganda.
Even “science” backs this up. Having 200 orgasms a year removes 7 physical years off your appearance.
More than that, you embody a playfulness and youthful spirit.
7) None of this stupid menstrual or perimenopausal or menopausal bullshit.
ALL reproductive ailments are symptoms of STUCK sexual energy.
100%
No exceptions.
This includes:
- Any growths, cysts or C-words on reproductive organs
- Endo, PCOS
- Yeast and bladder infections
- Difficult PMS, periods and menopause
- Lack of lubrication
- Low libido
- Trouble getting to orgasm—of any kind
Nowhere do we see this more clearly shown than around the programming with women’s menses—and its cessation.
Periods were meant to be blissful, psychedelic portals, designed for a woman to go inward, retrieve spiritual knowledge in a shamanic way, and then come out, renewed and ready for the month ahead.
Menopause is similar, but the flow keeps going.
Now a woman gets direct downloads from her higher consciousness even more easily because her body and being isn’t focused on the massive task of making a home for a baby every single month.
That energy is freed up and used for her own spiritual ascension.
Have you ever heard these explanations in the mainstream?
Anywhere in allopathic medicine?
No.
You only ever hear about how torturous, brutal, painful and what suffering they are.
Not true.
Well, true if you make it true.
And you are very strongly encouraged by the world around you to make this version your reality.
I’m offering another pathway.
The actual truth.
Red pill or blue pill?
You choose.
But here’s what happens when you get genuinely well-fucked.
You don’t even have to choose.
You change and reconfigure from within.
You fuck away all the blockages—both mental, physical and psychological that detour your sexual energy and keep it stuck.
You fuck your way through the stuck, busting it open, exploding it, mobilizing it.
Women magically evaporate cysts, eradicate ALL menstrual and menopausal issues without TRYING to do this.
They just get well-fucked.
And these things take care of themselves.
This is why I speak so confidently about the power of good-fuck medicine.
NOTHING rivals it.
For actually CURING what ails you.
Getting to the root cause.
Yo, Australians, you don’t know how bang on the money you are with THAT expression!
The root cause.
Hey, if you know, you know.
8) Don’t give a fuck.
Say what you want, wear what you want, do what you—and who—you want.
This is one of the pivotal hallmarks of becoming well-fucked; when I know a woman has really “made it”.
Her energy, her life-force is flowing through and out of her at such a powerful pace that it blows everything out of its way.
Effortlessly.
She’s not TRYING not to care.
She genuinely doesn’t.
She’s loyal to her own truth and voice, and that’s all that matters.
Other people’s opinions and judgments ping off her.
Like they’re hitting a mirror and bouncing back to the sender.
You gives no fucks about anything meaningless, because you give all your fucks meaningfully—in bed, to yourself and your partner.
You know—the most deserving of all your fucks.
And when your fucks are all rightfully placed they don’t get squandered and thrown around.
Like pearls before swine.
9) Your vagina—specifically your cervix—guides your life.
I spoke about this a couple of episodes ago in “My Cervix Is My CEO”. Season 8 Episode 19
THIS is your most accurate GPS—when being led by your “high vagina” which is a better representation of your heart and spiritual goals, rather than the clitoris, which chases quick fixes and cheap thrills.
My comment earlier about doing “who” you want isn’t some kind of blanket endorsement of rampant casual sex.
It means that your vagina—specifically your cervix—and your heart guide you to the partners best suited to you.
Instead of going through some logical checklist of what you THINK might be good for you, you let them choose.
Instead of taking compatibility tests and asking certain predetermined questions, when you know, you know.
Cervix knows best.
Heart knows best.
Your mind and clitoris lead you astray.
So toss ‘em.
And follow the holy grail and pure paths of your cervix and heart.
10) Life gets easier. You have more flow. Less friction.
You “lube” your life from within.
Your internal flow and gush shoots out into the world, smoothing out everything in its path.
Nothing is a match for your flow and the serendipity it engenders along the way.
You become fuckable and unfuckwtihable.
But more than that, your inner softness projects and lays the path ahead of you.
Because all of your rough edges and irritation have been lovingly fucked out of you, when you emerge into the world, you are in flow.
People pick up on this calm and bliss from within you and THAT’S what they respond to.
I hear all this “perimenopause” and “menopause” women complaining about how everything irritates them.
They hate everyone and, you know, consequently everyone fuckin hates them.
This is the prickly energy of being underfucked.
Like I’ve said many times, menopause is a crock of shit.
You are underfucked.
Nothing more, nothing less.
Opening your legs and heart in bed naturally opens them in life too.
The more you trust in yourself and your intimate relationship, you trust in life.
You melt your old walls, heal your old wounds.
This makes you raw-er and fresher out in the world.
You embrace life further and deeper and are able to keep your heart open to life.
And then life opens to you.
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Yeah. So.
All this and more in Anami Land: the domain of the well-fucked.
Like I’ve said, the beautiful thing is, that most people TRY to do all of these things: lose weight, get rich, be happy.
And I”m saying that all you need to get is get well-fucked.
And ALL of these other things happen as an easy and natural byproduct of that.
You can kill 20 birds with one stone.
Or improve 50 areas of your life with one orgasm.
As long as it’s cervical! Haha.
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And I can help you get there.
The Well-Fucked Woman Salon is open for registration and closes tonight!
This is my once a year, signature salon for women to harness the power of their sexual energy. In this 10-week online program, I’ll show you how to:
- Achieve every deep, vaginal, life-changing orgasm: cervical, G-Spot and squirting.
- Convert your sexual energy into creative energy to manifest your desires in the world
- How to give your man life-changing blowjobs, handjobs and become the cock whispering deep-throater extraordinaire
- How to inhabit your feminine energy to magnetize and receive instead of SLOG it out to build your life
- How to turn menstruation and menopause into the spiritual portals they were meant to be
- And much more.
Go to kimanami.com/wet and join the tribe of the well-fucked.
